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Not really. The actresses are doing it by choice and, to be honest, I 'degrade' myself a whoooole lot worse in some of my favorite fantasies. The guys in these things aren't usually playing rocket scientists either, haha.

Weeell, I didn't have a specific one in mind really... I just noticed how much PRETTIER those dildos are, and that most seem to come in a bigger size. I'm thinking that if they're going to be that wide, they'd better at least be a bit soft. There's only a few slimmer ones that I can see, and they just don't have the detail and shapes that the 1.7" to 2" ones have. If the majority are really firm in the center, I think I'll leave them be.

In comparison to silicone or jelly, how soft are PleasureSkin or other "realistic" dildos? When I'm sizing up these things, I have to take into consideration how much "give" they'll have. If it's too firm and unyielding, I probably don't want it.

Haha, that's just fine. I was just wondering what the 'erotic' entailed here.

I'm curious- what makes the massage distinctly erotic? I'm only asking because I've just started massage school, so I'm curious where that line's drawn where it goes from a massage to something sexual. Do they teach you moves that just arouse?

I knew mine was still around, kind of. The one time I had a papsmear, the lady was scared to poke me with a Q-tip because of it for crying out loud- but I hadn't been using tampons because they hurt and I never even used my fingers down there at the time, so I figured maybe things had weathered away after a couple years, haha. I don't know what I thought, really, I just didn't think of it anymore once I got the tampons to stop stinging. Still, it didn't hurt enough for me to stop what I was doing when it tore, so I guess I won't worry about it possibly tearing more later. I was more scared that maybe I'd mangled something else in there. The most random thoughts jump in when you look down and unexpectedly see blood somewhere. *facepalm*

Haha, I don't blame you for the confusion! I asked my own mother and she thought the same thing as you did, so I looked it up too to double check. She was so shocked to find out she was wrong. They come in all different shapes and thicknesses, some people don't even have one from the start, so it's no wonder that it's such a mystery.

Isn't the hymen right at the opening? That's what I've seen in diagrams, who knows.

Ok, now that a few days have passed, I think the hymen theory was spot on. I used the rabbit today without ANY of the usual discomfort, and I actually feel like I could use something larger now that the tightness has some give and I know how to position right.

As far as MOVIES go, I enjoyed the ever popular Pirates series. Not in the sense that two movies got me really turned on, the sex scenes were a bit repetitive, but it was fun to watch with a clit vibe on hand and I did actually eek out about five orgasms during the first one before I called it a night. I'd say that warrants a couple thumbs and toes up. I haven't actually bought any other DVDs, so who knows what else I'd go for. But I also like the free little shorts I can find on streaming sites. I enjoy the ones where either the person receiving makes intense expressions, or one person acts like they're asleep and being 'taken advantage of'. Odd, since those things are almost opposite, but that's just that. If it's not too corny (I hate excessive moaning where moaning doesn't belong) I like watching titty fucks too, if the guy gets really into it. I think my main thing is watching someone get overwhelmed and just GOING FOR IT.

Harley or nothing. If it's in between, I just get distracted by trying to position things right for better stimulation. Otherwise, I'll just rub with my fingers and use my lil dildo. I like my vibe orgasms to be quick.

Haha, stop it, you're just making me want it MORE. The site I found it on has so many awesome reviews, and I liked that it had a narrower and a wider side to choose from. The curve looks perfect. I thought so... but still! I can tuck it away in my Wish List for when I know I can handle it. :}

It hurts a bit, if I angle it certain ways or pull the head back toward the front, since that's where things are tight and iffy. The bigger toys, I've only been able to fit in at all the past couple weeks or so. I can't insert firm ones at all, they have to be soft and flexible or I'm in pain- I can put in the 1.5" vibe with the jelly coating, but my 1.25" kegals with tiny nubs feels like I'm trying to insert nails because there's no give. I think the nubs get caught on the skin around my opening too, so there's really no way to put those balls in without hurting myself. I did actually find my G-spot, pretty easily. :} I had been feeling too far back, but it's right in the front where crooking the fingers can reach. Only problem is, my fingers get tired before they can do any good, and I don't have any curved toys. The rabbit KIND OF hits it with the ridge of the head sometimes, but pulling it to the front makes me sore since it's big. Dilemma! It's fun experimenting. I had assumed my hymen was too stretched out to be an issue since I use tampons.

I want to try the "Strawberry Shake" Or the "Petite Dolphin" But not for a little while yet. I'm starting school and have to save up for a while before I'll indulge again. From a different site? I'm kind of interested in the "Pure Wand Metal Dildo". It looks like it would hit my spot nicely.

Haha, jeez, that could be a problem. Not that I get nervous, but when something feels good or if I'm getting closer to orgasm, I always always always clench down really hard because I like the pressure on the spot I'm hitting. I don't really notice discomfort anymore until I'm finished at that point, so maybe I'm a little too rough in the moment. I'm a lot more careful when I'm just inserting at the start, since it's getting the head in past the tight point that really makes me wince.