AmieWinningBlasi

I'm a tactile sensitive. I don't like touching myself. My fingertips don't do it for me. Other fingers, yes, but when it comes to touching myself, usually it just ends in disappointment and annoyance.

Chest hair. Every time. No hair just doesn't do it for me. I'm a toucher, and the hairless skin is too smooth, feels sticky when it sweats. No thanks.

I visit fetlife a few timesa week but mainly I look at the images, read journal entries or erotic work. I don't get off on it, but I do enjoy it

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The last few pages of this thread now feel like I'm intruding for wondering where the "would it make you hot if..." Questions disappeared to.

Does she enjoy foreplay at all, or is she more puritanical where sex is only penetration? If she appreciates the foreplay, I would recommend a starter such as a lightly vibrating finger toy - maybe something that can increase in stronger vibrations if she's responsive. Don't simply apply it immediately, but start it with some gentle touches nearby. Maybe the inner crease of the hip, the curve of her bum, even maybe a little nipple stimulation. If she seems to appreciate your efforts, increase the vibration as well as your approach. If she's a fan of receiving oral sex, maybe lightly use it in addition to your tongue. If she still doesn't like it, maybe you could leave it lying on her bedside table and hope she gets curious

I was just wondering if any of you have or have tried the antique, electric vibes. You know the ones I mean? They were "prescribed" for female hysteria sometimes. http://galleryplus.ebayimg.com/ws/web/370912883253_1_0_1/1000x1000.jpg If you own them, have you played? And if you tried it, what are your thoughts?

Waaaay back in the day, I discovered that if you turn your pager off, hold down both buttons, then turn it on again, it will give a constant vibration until you let go of the buttons.

Great pic, looks like a fun product. Oh, how I wish my husband wasn't so timid.

I'm personally not a fan of it and feel a bit silly when I let Husband do it, but sometimes when I'm giving him head and he's laying on his back, I give him a titty fuck, but then move back to head and eventually work my way back up to kiss him and hop on the joystick for a while. I know it's something he loves, so I do that for him. I know he doesn't particularly LOVE sticking his fingers inside me, but he does it because it's what I love best. Compromise is key to a healthy relationship both in and out of the bedroom.

When my husband and I were just dating, we didn't have anywhere private that we could have sex other than in our cars. We each lived with our parents, so if we wanted sex, we had to be creative. First, we tried it in my car. We drove around scouting for a quiet, unpopulated area that was dark. We finally found a dirt road and it was so great, it took us longer to find the place than it did to finish the act. Next, we tried his car. Cavaliers have really roomy back seats, everyone. The best sex of my life was in the back of his Cav. And in the back of an abandoned K-Mart building, to boot! We lived in Florida and it was so hot in there, the windows were all steamed up so we slapped our hands in the condensation (ala Titanic's sex scene) so he'd have something to smile about when he drove around. The car we have NOW... we tried to have sex in every position, every seat and we just can't manage it. I get rug burn or we bang our heads on the ceiling, don't have leg room or just can't get it to work. I swear, I'm going to get an El Camino just so I can put a mattress in the back.

When husband and I first started dating and having sex, he had only been with one other person, missionary style all the way. So after a few weeks of either missionary or cowgirl, I was ready to venture out a bit, so I said "you know what could be fun?" and then I made a couple of suggestions for altered positions, blindfolds, etc. We progressed up to role playing, bondage and other "extremes" but it had to go very slowly since he was pretty new to experimentation.