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notacougar last won the day on November 26 2018

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About notacougar

  • Birthday 05/31/1964

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    art, nature, travel etc..
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    Female

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  • My Favorite Toy
    Jessica Drake's Strobing Penis
  • About Me
    eternal optimist, self employed, think outside the box because they won't let me back in ;)
  • # of sex toys you own?
    Not enough!!! :)
  • Marital status
    In a Relationship
  • What is your age & gender?
    female 47

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  1. totally goggling, I mean giggling. Best laugh I've had all day. The innocent routine... LOL This place is just humming with flirtation
  2. I think pearl necklaces are sexy. Just sayin'

    1. 12GAUGE

      12GAUGE

      Love licking my my own cum off my lover.

  3. My last lover talked a lot during sex and it turned me on. He didn't talk dirty, just said things like "does this feel good?" Do you want to try this or this? and so on and he complimented my attributes. I used to be one to clap my hands over my ears in horror at hearing the F word. My my, how things change! *giggling* With my current SO we feel comfortable swearing like pirates in and out of bed. But I don't usually curse in every day life with other people. Feels real good to let my hair down with him though. Now I like saying and hearing the word fuck because SO has taken the dirt out of dirty and made those words just plain HOT. "MMM, you feel so fucking good..." "I can't wait, you've made me so hot I need to fuck you right now" "MMMMmmm, you're pussy is so wet" Lots of ""Oh Gods!!"
  4. Yes, I have. I also have to take a hundred or so to get a few good ones... good thing I have a sense of humor or I might get depressed. I have a tip to share to salvage some of the ones that might get trashed. I like using the online editing features to give blurred or artsy or old photo styles to pics. here is a good site. http://www.befunky.com/create/#/photo-effects And when you have the picture how you like it just press the Prt Scr button up on top, open paint, press paste, crop and save how thou wilt. (that way you don't have to create an account or save on a site that may be public) I edited my profile pic that way. It's fun to be creative.
  5. Wow, I am so glad you shared that. I am also very glad that you took charge and left that abusive marriage. I was in mine for over 20 years and both my daughter and I are left with lots of damage. Isn't it wonderful to find a good man?? Like you, I considered the marriage over about 3 years before I actually left. I was staying for the sake of my daughter but my ex did the PAS thing. Parent Alienation Syndrome. He had her so controlled by fear or whatever that she would no longer look at or speak to me and this was during her teen years when she needed her mom the most. NOW, 6 years later, she and I are getting that close bond back that we used to have. Anyways, during that time I was approached by a man and we eventually went on a few dates. My ex was really abusive sexually and he never looked at me during sex, rarely faced me. Rarely said my name. SO, with this other man, at age 43, I felt like a woman for the first time in my life. It was wonderful, sex was great. Unfortunately, he turned out to be emotionally and mentally abusive also. ICK! The man in my life now though is ALL good. He treats me well and encourages me and is good to me when I am down. He is handsome and sexy (even though he doesn't think so) Took me a while to believe he was really for real good. Been almost 2 years now and I just keeping feeling more in love with him. I can trust him and tell him anything but like you, I still lack confidence. I am so glad you found someone to be good to you. It is wonderful to know that happy endings exist.
  6. I want one! I'll have to add this to my wish list. Thank you for the yummy review
  7. Hmmmm... already gave away RL activities in the Car Sex contest so will share a want to scenario. Needed: Handsome adventursome man -- check Quality Santa and Sexy Elf costumes Someone to get us past security after hours Where? High end department store street display window at Christmas time. There is a big life-sized sleigh and I am bent over the big bag of toys and my Santa pushes my red velvet, fur-trimmed skirt up over my waist to reveal my naked derriere. Of course I am already slick with anticipation and the excitment of this adventure and Santa is indeed up for the task at hand. He slides his perfectly rigid pole in and out of my glistening pussy as the snow falls silently under the streetlights. The hour is around midnight and if some clubbers should happen to pass, so be it. They will get a good show as Santa pumps a little faster and my hands grip the back of the sleigh a little harder as he builds to a wild and heady climax. I am there already, not able to maintain a discreet quiet I nearly shout myself as I feel Santa fill my pussy with his hot cum. In a car, on a roof, on a beach, in an elevator, anywhere! I love being my Santa's little HO.
  8. LOL at the one paw slightly raised but am sorry this wasn't as much fun as it looked.
  9. I recently ordered "The Pleasure Gods" vibrating penis freebie and never was able to fully wash off the new toy smell hence his name "Stinky". I like having him around though because he has a realistic feel and vibrates at the base which is nice. I suppose it is my own fault for him nearly dying. I took him in the shower for a toy 3-way and he must have gotten water in his compartment. I thought he was a goner... I was sad. BUT, I rummaged around for new batteries and TA -DA! He lives again Woo Hooo! Note to self: Stinky can no longer play in the shower.
  10. Yes. And someone back at the beginning of this thread said rape has nothing to do with making love rape is about sex... Actually rape is not about sex either... it is about violence, power and control. My worst lover experience was with my ex husband... it was only a day or two after I had given birth and had stitches. He raped me. No means no even when you are married. I felt like I had been raped on 2 levels. Body and mind.. this was the man who was supposed to love and protect me not overpower me and rape me after I said "no, I am not healed up yet." I found out years later that it is a pattern with abusive men to level up the types of abuse with life changes, wedding, giving birth, loss of job etc... And since that is a major downer I want to tell about an anti-bad lover. We had just had a major 2 hour session, all sorts of positions, he asking what I liked and delivering, obviously getting off on what I did to him.. we wore each other out and were laying there afterwards and heard noises downstairs.. Immediately we both thought "Violent ex husband followed me" He jumped up valiantly totally naked and with a still hard cock and charged out.. stopped quick, backtracked and threw a comfortor over my nakedness.. went back naked to see what it was... He had forgotten he was going to tutor someone that evening, and the student had let himself in. It was funny, it was heroic, it was good memory to help drown out the bad ones.
  11. an update.. The arrival of sex toys (vibrating cocks) has helped immensly in my finally getting some satisfaction. Using the tease my body just a little and making myself wait has helped also. masturbating up to 3 times a day now and not having that going crazy feeling anymore. Thanks for input everybody, really helped much. Now for a funny (though it was not funny at the time) story. I had bought an incomplete Executair vintage wet bar hard case, took out the remaining bar items and in went my new toys proud to have their very own toy box. Case slides perfect under the bed too. Well my lover is away this weekend and last night I woke needing him and he wasn't here and I remembered the case under the bed with the new cock shaped vibe that lights up, grabbed the case and went to open it but it had locked itself and I did not have the key!!! Frustration and panic assailed me at once. I sat on the bed wrangling with it. There was box banging going on but not the kind I was wanting! I pulled and tugged on that damn lock almost breaking a fingernail and no go.. I needed sex so bad, this was just MEAN!! Finally trotted off naked to the kitchen and retrieved a flat screwdriver and pried the damn thing open...GRRRR! Annoyance almost replaced the sex crave but not quite... that thing looks so fun when it lights up that I quickly got back in the mood.
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