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What makes you orgasm? Maybe it's something you think about, something you watch, vigorous clit stimulation, simultaneous anal stimulation - whatever it is, leave it below! Happy masturbating, everyone! Angela Rosario 😘

I honestly don't mind. I've had both experiences and to me a boner is a boner whether it is circumcised or not! Just my opinion! I have a friend who actually PREFERS uncircumcised!

I wish I could put a vote in for "I've done it and enjoyed it" AND "I've done it and haven't enjoyed it" - for the most part, I have found it enjoyable, but in my experience, it has always been problematic in some sort of way on my end, or the couples' end. I have been in relationships where my partner wanted to have a FFM or MMF, and I just did not enjoy any of them. It was 100% consensual on all ends, but I was left feeling insecure just seeing someone else with my partner or knowing my partner got off watching me with someone else. I can write an entire list of why, but that sums up those scenarios. I don't care to ever have a threesome again as someone who is in a relationship. There is a lot I am "into" into the bedroom, and when I am involved in a relationship, I do not care to share my partner in any way sexually. It just really does not turn me on, but I know many couples that truly LOVE the thought of their partner with someone else or being turned on by someone else. -BUT!- When I was single, I was involved as a third for many threesomes, and I thought it was SO much fun. There -IS- a "right" way to do it. I literally had rules set out. It made me feel like I was getting action, but not getting emotionally attached in any way to anyone or doing any work to find someone. I felt it to be so freeing and I felt sexually empowered. I loved it. You can't get involved in any way and you have to just accept yourself as an "accessory." When you get in deeper than that, you will end up disappointed. If you can get your mindset right as a "3rd" it can be SO much fun. ^^With all of this said, in my experience, it always ended up with one of the parties involved in the "relationship" part of the threesome messaging me or trying to contact me outside of our "dates"??? It always made me uncomfortable, and I would make sure to tell the other person (NO secrets, ever!) and that pretty much ended everything and it would cause a huge fight between the couples. One of my rules was that if any of that were to happen, I will NOT take sides and you won't hear from me again. That's what happened. I always made it clear that I never wanted to be the reason to potentially split a marriage or a relationship in any way. This is my experience. I could write pages and pages of my personal experience on threesomes. Overall, I've found it to be problematic for the couples involved, not necessarily the "3rd." I feel I've had a fair amount of experience on both sides to say it's been problematic. (In MY experience.) Unless there was a way for the "third" to have no connection/name/means of communication outside of the bedroom, I think that's the only true way to enjoy it and keep it 100% SEXUAL. So, for the sake of not writing a BOOK, my vote is just "No...unless you can be the third when you're thriving, single and not giving AF." lol I'd love to see other's experiences! Thanks for posting, @Emily!

Hi Chelsea, I haven't experienced this, but I do know this is actually very common. Deeper anal penetration with larger toys can weaken the ligaments and can cause prolapsing after masturbation/fisting/deep anal sex. If it doesn't go away, starts to hurt or starts to happen more frequently, I would see a doctor just to figure out options to tighten the ligaments again. Sometimes taking a break entirely from anal in any way can help. Try switching to smaller anal toys that don't penetrate deep like vibrating butt plugs or silicone toys that do NOT exceed a 1-2" diameter/2-3" insertable length until things ease up. I'm not a doctor, but I have helped others in similar situations! The safest and most recommended way to deal with this is to see a doctor though, just want to make that clear! Thanks so much for joining the forums! Feel free to continue to ask any questions/discuss anything on your mind! -Angela P.S. I just want to say that if you do see your doctor, don't ever be too shy to mention that it may have happened from anal penetration. I'm not saying you would be shy, I just know even my girlfriends are too shy to tell the doc about sex-related issues and you should never be! It helps them in finding a solution and 95% of the time, they've heard it all. That's all!

Thanks, everyone! I've messaged a winner at random. Feel free to continue posting any myths that may irk you! -Angela

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Anyone around here?? Post a bedroom "myth" below that you feel is simply not true. We will run this contest this week and on Tues 6/11/19, I will message a winner at random who leaves their thoughts. You are allowed to post multiple times, but it doesn't increase your chance of winning. Although, I genuinely will enjoy reading responses so leave as many as you'd like! Mine is that women need aggressive clit stimulation to orgasm. (Damn you, mainstream porn!) Slower and gentle is my preference! P.S. If you spam this thread with advertisements or nudes, you won't qualify to win and you'll be deleted.

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Hi there! This is the closest we have to what you're describing: https://www.tootimid.com/the-accommodator-oral-stimulator.html Hope this helps! -Angela

Thanks, Rob!

I agree with @RC4BLUE...sounds like you both have your own issues you are dealing with that may or may not have been communicated. I don't know the details or your story, but I do genuinely hope this situation works out. Keep us updated. -Angela

Hello! I am going to go a bit off-subject here and start a topic that has nothing to do with sex! Sorry to disappoint anyone, but I will welcome sex-related feedback if you would like, LOL. I just started WW for the first time. Does anyone else here do it? I've heard great things! Let me know on my profile if you would like! -Angela

I need to know! I have a girlfriend who was bitching about catching her boyfriend watching porn, and she said they got into a huge fight! She looked at my like I was crazy when I told her I didn't see anything wrong with it - am I a weirdo, lol? YOU CATCH HER/HIM WATCHING PORN. IS THIS CHEATING? Thoughts? -Angela

That's great! I hope you enjoyed! -Angela

@Tyger How to Make Love Like a Pornstar was a great read!! @FlyMe I really enjoyed Fifty Shades as well. The second book was my favorite. Currently reading "Bared to you"

I have always been curious about metal rings. Since I'm not a man, what sensations do they give you? Is it pleasurable? Thanks for posting! -Angela

I'm sorry to hear you are going through a tough time. I do not know the details of your relationship, but I can tell you it sounds like it could be a deeper issue. She could be struggling with trust issues in her past and doesn't realize it. Whether it's an ex-boyfriend or someone that left her in her childhood. She may be using the condom thing as an excuse...at least she did come forward. The only other thing I can think of is if you did something to jeopardize the trust in the relationship and she hasn't moved on or learned to forgive you. If you didn't, I would look deeper beyond this "empty condom" excuse. If she is worth it, I would have a long sit down with her to help you (and herself) understand why she did what she did. If the drama is not worth it and you don't feel she's willing to change, maybe it is time to move on. Just my thoughts! Good luck to you!

Hi Mikayla! Glad to see you back! So sorry to hear it didn't work out in Canada. It sounds like you are handling the situation as best as you are able to. "Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself." -Walter Anderson Excited to see you active around here...take care! -Angela

@hornywife I know this post was from a while ago, but what toy are you using? Please feel free to e-mail me! -Angela@TooTimid.com

Hello Everyone! Just wanted to get some thoughts on the new filters when shopping on TooTimid.com? You can see it on the left side on most of the pages inside the categories now. All feedback is GREATLY appreciated and VERY helpful! Please, type away... -Angela

Hello! It can be very overwhelming with how many products there are! I do have to say I loovee the Eve's Rabbit: http://www.tootimid.com/eves-rabbit.html I also love: http://www.tootimid.com/wild-orgasm-triple-stimulator.html So many to choose from, but those are my personal faves! Remember to keep your packaging, and we will replace it if it goes out on you for up to a year! That way you will get your moneys worth! -Angela

Welcome!!!!

Is anyone else loving the 50 Shades of Grey trilogy??!! I'm already halfway done with the last book! -Ang

Welcome back! :D

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