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I, masturbate quite regularly since my wife's sex drive has gone down over the past couple years. We have never masturbated in front of each other. I, have on occasion played with myself in front of her when we are getting ready to have intercourse. At first she was surprised because she had never been with a man who did that and was comfortable with it. I, asked her if she masturbated before and she said yes but never in front of any body. I, have got her to play with herself while we were having intercourse but, she only does it when she is really horny. My wife knows I JO quite regularly but doesn't know I have started to play with myself anally or with toys. I, am constantly looking for new ways to get off since plain old jerking off has gotten boring which has led me to the toys and playing with my ass. And by the way I am "cut".

My wife and I just recently did it in the shower at our house for the first time about 4 months ago. We got back from the gym one day and she asked if I wanted to go in with her. We have had sex in the shower before but, this always happened in a hotel where the showers are full size. At home we only have a stand up shower so for 2 people it's a little small. We tried to have intercourse with me doing her from behind but, she didn't feel comfortable. Knowing I was worked up she decided to give me a blowjob to finish me off. My wife is pretty small compared to me so she had no problems going "down" in the small shower. It was the best BJ my wife had ever given me. I don't know if it was the shower that made her feel comfortable with getting "dirty" but, in the 8 years we have been married she had never allowed me to cum in her mouth. This time she told me to relax and just let it go. After she said that I think I lasted about 10 seconds and exploded. We have only done it a couple times but, I always am dropping the hint to conserve water.

Welcome to the site !

I, would say I am definitely bi-curious. I, often fantasize about having a 3 way with a guy and my wife. When I was about 12 me and a friend jerked each other off and we went as far as to do anal on each other and this happened off and on for about a year. We never spoke to any one about it and after I felt ashamed of myself but finally got over it. I, looked at it as we were young and just checking things out. It never happened again and until recently I never even gave it a thought. I, know my wife would never go for anything like this she that is just that way she is so for me my curiosity will just have to stay. If I had the opportunity I'm sure I would go bi-sexual. Maybe I was bi-sexual now I'm bi-curious??

Thanks this is a pretty cool site.

I, would say my wife's clit is small and well hidden behind a picture perfect "camel toe" it takes alot to get that bugger to get worked up. I, would say she is a "grower" as well when she is about to come it swells and puffs up nice.

I, think I was like 10. I, use to jerk off in the woods behind the house in fear of my mom catching me. After a little while I was jerking off so much I would lock myself in the bathroom. I, think my mom caught on to what was going on when I was going in 4 times a day, she would always ask "is everything ok in there?"......ya ma

I, tend to come pretty quick when I'm real horny which is like all the time. I, would say the shortest time it's taken is about a min. the average would be about 10-20 mins. Since I started masturbating anally I tend to push my sessions for up to an hour "butt" most of that time I'm concentrating on working my ass if I touch my cock I cum in seconds, it feels that good. I, just bought a Fleshlight masturbator and I agree about the mess it's a pain to get clean and dried out properly. I, got to be in the mood to break it out but, it does feel pretty good I usually last about 5 mins. in it

bbarney I have the Colt anal trainer kit and it was my first "plug kit". I like it because I wanted something to work up with in size. I don't wear them for more than a hour or 2 so for real long term I don't know how they would last. I have read on other sites that people using on a regular basis have had the base break off leaving the plug in side. I only use the large plug now but the whole kit did the job for me. I would look for something made from silicone if you want a quality plug.

I bought the Nexus Vibro (I like vibes) it's a little expensive and at first I liked it but soon found out I like plugs better vibrating or not.

I would say my wife is the one who initiates sex. We use to do it all the time but over the last few years her sex. drive has gone down. I could do it everyday and I use to try and initiate it but when she started losing her drive I kinda got tired of getting turned down.. I respect the fact her drive isn't as high as mine and when she wants to get it on she wants to get it on. I'm always ready.

I definitely do not agree with that. I have had relationships with woman would never even think to do anal including my wife. I would love for my wife to do it but I have respect for her boundaries. Heck I can't even her to perform anal on me. Lol. That guy is a jerk I'm sorry to he ar you had to go thru that. My wife is a great lover in bed and has never done anal I enjoy what have and would never cheat on my wife just to try or do anal or anything for that matter just because I am not getting it at home.

Thanks everyone. I have to say this I'd one of the better forums I have found and the first for me to join in on. WendyNY I wish my wife was as understanding as you are. My only hope is that some day she will open up to experimenting and trying new things. I try not to push the issue too far especially when I got her reaction from just mentioning it the first time. I would love for her to do me ! Until then..... well looks like I got to take care of myself.

Hi everyone my name is Tony. I. have been checking out the site for some time and decided to join in. About 7 months ago I decided to give anal masturbation a try and found I really enjoyed it. I, tried to get my wife to do it to me when we would have sex but, she is not in to anal and was pretty taken back when I tried to get her to put her finger up my butt. We have a very healthy relationship but she is pretty old fashion when it comes to sex and anything anal is not in the mix. I,on the other hand want to try everything. While I would never cheat on my wife I find that masturbating is my only way to explore. This site is great it's nice to find a place with people that have common interest.