Livi713

^ worst nightmare. Lol male submissive is not a turn on for me. I can tell he's holding back.

His looks most certainly make him look like the typical alpha male. Stereotyping I know, but he is 6'6 and both of us our gym/beachbody junkies. I'm thinking he just feels weird about doing things like that to someone he cares a lot for. Hoping a little weekend getaway would loosen him up a bit. Please don't get me wrong the sex is GREAT! I just need to be completely dominated once in awhile. What man wouldn't want no work, booze and a ton of sex for 3 days?

I've felt like I have tried all of these!! I know we are both on two completely different styles of sex. It's like dominating me is a turn off for him. I made him face fuck me, all he kept doing was asking if I was ok. Did I mention we have known each other for over 14yrs? So there should be no question that he should know I trust him. He's not hurting me and I'm obviously BEGGING for it. I pretty much had to beg for anal, then beg for him to pound it. He started too, but would not get into it or pull my hair. Im hatting how we ended up on two VERY different levels of sex. I'm not sure how to bring it up to this level with him. Do I just give up? Just take the ok sex and deal??? I'm not sure I could cause I'm horny 99% of my day.

Ok, so I'm in my late 20's. I've been in a relationship for 10yrs. Our sex life is great. A little on the rough side How do I begin to tell him I want it really rough. I want him to just take control. Like fully in control. I'm interested in DP as well (with a toy) but don't know how to bring that into effect as well. I feel like him and I our on slightly different pages when it comes to having the "fun" nights. Any tips on how I can bring these things into the bedroom?