Hello, I am a bisexual woman, and my (straight; male) fiance have recently become good friends with a (possibly bisexual) female, and have been talking about having her become our girlfriend. Our problem is that we cannot determine what she would like to get out of our relationship with her as she is very difficult to read. We don't want to scare her off by being too straight forward in asking, nor do we want her to miss what we are asking by being too subtle. How can we find out what she wants to gain from our relationship? Please help!!