Well sweetie understand that my husband and I only play with very clean couples or singles. We have been married for 38 yrs, we married into a open sexual relationship, he is very bi sexual as I am, that being said we don't cut corners if thats the proper term. My husband and I started this lifestyle many yrs ago in collage. Upon marrying we decided to raise a family which we did never going out of bounds if you will. Being empty nesters we decided to engage in our collage type of sexual proclivities to the extreme. Both of us being Engineers he structural and me mechanical has allowed us to engage certain disciplines of sexual flavor. However there are certain individuals who we play with outside our normal circle. Being clean an d disease free is paramount in our play. Do we ask for a blood test before e I suck another mans dick, no!!!!! Do I question my husband when he brings home a man to play with us,No!!
It all boils down to trust and intuition knowing the person is on the clean bandwagon. Do I love watching my husband suck a cock, absolutey, does he enjoy watching me suck and fuck another man hell yea.
It all comes down to what you are comfortable with, thats all it is and nothing more, being honest who you are sexually is what its all about.