Good question! I"ve pondered this myself..... I have been quilty of going for the bad boys occasionally. Even though my gut instinct was that they were bad news, I couldn t help myself. In the end, when it comes to a meaningful relationship and marriage I wanted someone dependable, honest, smart, hard working, caring and sensitive..... I think the bad boy attraction for me was just the need to have some excitement. Also, they are kind of elusive. They make you chase them. They never really commit and you don't reach true intimacy. Don't we all want what we can't have?? Sick when you think about it. Glad I grew up and got over it. IN the end, the good guys will win. the bad boys may get more one night stands or meaningless short term relationships. They are probably getting more STD,s as well. So have heart guys!!! Just my two cents, sexy