Matthew Dark

Shaving is a great idea as long as you don't get ingrowns yeah they suck but otherwise it's great

A quick note to everyone who wants pix of my auto-blow I will send them ASAP my repairs on my e-mail are almost done. First I have to thank EVERYONE so much for their help and advice. You have helped turn a little virgin fun into, what has been over the past few months, a sexual Renaissance. We have tried all sorts of oral tricks and I also found her "kernel" (thank you Imagrl) and she loves it when suck on that. We've plyed almost every oral trick and foreplay we could think of, but one problem is that, after most of the sessions, she always pressures me to go all the way and even brings different forms of BC she borrowed from her older sister ( ) and I'm still not sure I want to. One day she was very upset and cried about it and the reason she's sad isn't really the sex itself, but she thinks I don't trust her and she's hurt and I don't know what to do. We were friends before our oral sessions and I still value that and I don't want to hurt her but I'm . . . not comfortable with full out sex. I've never done it and I want my first time to feel . . . right. Recently, she hasn't been answering my calls or IMs or anything and I don't know what to do. If it will make her happy, I'm almost willing to do it, but . . . what should I do?

Wow what a day! Alright so she told me she was coming over at 5:00 PM and I checked the nearest time-keeper: a watch I never use that was on the night stand. It said 3:57 so I had tons of time. So I go to take a bath and I get naked and I start to wash up when she knocks on the door! I realized my damn watch was an hour off! So I got dressed hastily and let her in and she noticed I was about to bathe and told me she wanted to watch me. I was surprised but I let her as I grabbed for the soap. She took off her clothes and straddled me in the bath tub (I was taking a bath) and told me to get on my knees. I guess she was in a dominant mood or something because she told me to get on my knees and pleasure her with my mouth. I shrugged and I went ahead. I did most of what I’d done on Monday, but I tried a couple things new. I slid my hands around her buttocks and smoothly rubbed the backs of her legs and her butt as I orally pleasured her. She came again but there wasn’t as much secretion. I don’t know what caused the change in her but she had been so much more hesitant the first time and now she moaned and grabbed my hair and pulled my face in! I dunno if she was just putting on a show or what. I couldn't tell how many times she came, maybe three, maybe six I have no idea but she shuddered and bucked up and down and gave little squealy noises with each contraction. Anyway, she finished cumming and slowed her breathing and then pushed me back into the water with a splash and told me she wanted to wash me. I lay back and let her scrub me up and it felt so . . .wonderful! I was almost drifting off with relaxation until she started to wash my inner thighs and, as she rubbed my legs (which felt extremely sensual) she leaned down and licked at my genitals without aim. She then told me to stand up so I did and she began to seal her part of the bargain. I was amazed. She teased just enough to the point where I almost begged her to take me in her mouth and then she ran her tongue over my balls until I quivered and then she made eye contact with me and licked slowly up the main vein on the bottom of my semi-hard cock. She was almost professional. She tongued the head of my penis and giggled when it hardened. She then proceeded to suck me off by taking half of the shaft in her mouth, pursing her lips and just applying suction with her mouth. I was shaking by this point and she slowly slid off, applying more and more suction as she slid off until my penis was all the way out. I breathed for a moment, then she, out of nowhere, placed her fingers on the base of my penis and opened her mouth wide and slid me all the way into her mouth! She deep-throated me! I was so taken aback the pleasure hit me a few seconds later and I couldn’t help but moan. She just stayed like that, bobbing her head slightly and letting her tongue go insane on the bottom of my shaft and then she thrust back and forth with her head and lips several times until she felt me bucking in her mouth and she finished me by shoving her head forward, deep-throating me while licking the bottom of my shaft and, with her pinned lips, kissed my pelvic area and used both her hands, one to tickle my basement door and the other the area between my balls and ass. I came for what felt like an hour and then she licked me clean and, to my amazement, stood up and pushed me on my back and threw herself on me and French kissed me and we swapped my cum. She took half and I the other half and we both swallowed. After about 10 minutes of us just hyperventilating without words she told me she wanted me to be inside of her but I wasn’t ready for that (I’m still technically a virgin ) so I told her no and she sighed but said ok and smiled and got on her clothes and kissed me good-bye and left me there in the bathtub. I called her to ask how she performed so well and she told me she spent the last few days watching porn and asking around. Plus she’s a swimmer so I guess she can control her gag reflex or something. What an evening! I will never forget it. We used to just be good friends and now we’re . . . well . . . something else. I’m still not sure about how I feel about all this. Most people on this forum are married or were at one point and are very sexually experienced. Not me though. Well if you guys want I’ll keep you posted on how this goes on.

Thanks so much for the advice guys! I called her after reading your posts to talk with her about it and we actually had no awkwardness or discomfort discussing it and she told me she rarely masturbates, once a week at most she says because she is so busy and before I had given her head she hadn't had an orgasm in over a month because she was caught up with other things. The weird thing is, I have no romantic or sexual interest in her in a long term. She told me that she doesn't have any romantic interest in me either, but has wanted me to do that to her since I met her so i was kinda taken aback Then we talked about the prospect of something else happening between us, some new encounter as she put it. she said she'd give me a BJ later today so I am kinda excited about that. She's never given one before, but I know enough about BJs so I'll take Howard's advice and tell her about what pleasures me. it might even be fun. And yeah i definitely agree with you Howard, men who are too proud to take instructions from a woman are foolish. I'm gonna ask her what I can do to make her feel better if there's a next time. Even if nothing comes of this, we can fool around and experiment I guess. I'll let you guys know how tonight goes!

Alright so first I wanted to pat myself on the back for eating my first pussy on Monday june 12th i am not much of an experienced sex partner (or speller ) so i am not super familiar with the less publicized aspects of sex so I have a few questions about it. Here's how it started: monday was my birthday and i had plans to hang out with my guy friends later in the day but a good friend of mine who happens to be a girl called me up to hang with her for a few hours before hand. So she treated me to Cold Stone and we went back to her place to pick up a book she bought me. We're pretty good friends so we can talk about almost anything. soon the whole boys vs. girls topic came up and she asked me "Why are boys so obsessed with blow jobs?" I shrugged and said "it feels great" She knows I can do it to myself so she asked me about the details. Finally I asked her "why are most girls so shady on the topic of oral sex?" and she said "All my girlfriends who have tried it complain about the taste of penis and all that and we talk about how it's gross and whatnot but most of us have never been eaten out before and we secretly wonder what it's like." I shrugged. And she said "Have you ever eaten out a girl before?" and I said truthfully "No." and she said "Wanna try it?" Now to be honest, i was NOT expecting that question. But I was so curious I had to say yes. so I did and she got naked and said she wanted me to as well. So I did and she sat on the couch and spread her legs and here I hesitated. I've watched enough porn and heard enough rumors to know the basics of where it feels good and how to tease and I assumed the rest would come naturally. I figured since this was my first time tasting a pussy and her first time getting tasted it would be a learning experience for both of us. by god it was that! I started with the usual textbook fingering around the lips and clitoris and teasing until she was damp and then I moved my face in. I've heard that pussy does not smell good or taste good either for that matter and so i was a bit apprehensive. But I found her to be only slightly redolent at all. The scent I DID pick up actually got me a hard-on. So I kept going and found the taste to be equally erotic. Having tasted my own penis and cum, I can say that pussy tastes quite a bit better. I licked around the labia and used my fingers on the clit and then vice-versa and I even tried what I thought to be the boy on girl version of a deepthroat by sticking my tongue all the way inside of her while making out with her vaginal lips. I went at it, I little hesitantly albeit, and after about 10 minutes she was shuddering and quivering all over and told me she was going to cum. Here's where my ignorance put a brick wall in front of me. I had never been this close to a volatile pussy before and I was nervous. What do i do now? I decided to try the deep tongue thing and fingered her clit while my lips made out with her pussy. That worked well I presume because she loudly moaned "ohmygod ohmygod ohmygod!!!!" Like that and suddenly there was a strange, warm, slightly greasy fluid pouring out of her onto my face and into my mouth. A LOT of it! More than when I cum. I was so surprised I almost choked. it had very little taste to me so i was surprised. I cleaned up and she thanked me and said she'd pay me back some day. And I left. The End. my question is this: What was that stuff? How common is that? Did I do alright for my first time?

Okay. I give myself head on a regular basis and I find it VERY sensual. As fun as it is to recieve it from a woman, giving it to yourself keeps YOU in control so YOU can decide everything. There are multiple benefits to self BJ. I'll write out some tips on it here. The most common problem with this is the fact that most men can't get their heads together (sorry, I had to make the pun) i.e. they can't reach their penis with their mouth. It is most likely NOT because your penis is too small as it is more likely that you aren't flexible. Unfortunatley, there is not too much to be done here. I personally am about 7 inches, nothing special so it's not the size. But I AM the most flexible male that I personally know. I can pull my legs over my head while sitting and can twist my arms totally around while my hands are flat on a table. Flexiblity is a key part of the fun, but you can get there. 1) PRACTICE STRETCHING. No joke. Do calesthenics or yoga or martial arts. I do all three and they have helped me stay flexible (although I do them for reasons other than being able to suck myself). If you can't seem to do it, stretch out. The main parts that need stretching are the back, neck, and chest muscles. Practice stretching those out and relaxing them after. Especially helpful excercises are sitting down and spreading your legs while sliding your hands down the center and moving with them. It will help prepare you. 2) POSITION YOURSELF. Once you feel ready to really try it, find the right position. My first was on my back, with my legs in the air, using gravity to help. This position is rather uncomfortable and awkward, even silly, but it's usually the easiest. If you keep practicing, you can get other positions as well. I now usually do it while sitting down and just leaning my head down although I've recently managed to pull it off while standing up. It's also somewhat important to find the angle at which your cock is the longest and adjust BOTH heads to accomidate each other. 3) HANDS FREE. When you first begin, you might need to use your hands to guide yourself there. A HUGE help is wrapping your arms around the back of your legs and pulling yourself in. This helps a LOT. You could even push from beneath a bit to better get it going. 4) GET READY. Make sure you have a lot of saliva. It isn't easy just sliding on in there. You have to be prepared orally. It's better if you haven't easten just recently, but make sure your lips and tongue are wet. 5) GET SPRUNG. It's really hard to suck yourself if YOU aren't hard. Make sure you have a strong erection before you start. Seeing something extremely erotic just before or while you give yourself head will be a surprising help. It could motivate you to be able to do it even if you have been previously unable to. Don't give up. If you do, you are missing out. I won't lie to you. It is entirely in your control whether or not you cum in your own mouth or even swallow it. I've tried both before and can give advice on it. It feels GREAT to finish it off completely and cum in your own mouth, but it is unlikely you will find the taste of the cum as great. In fact, I can't blame women who complain about the taste of it, it IS rather unpleasant. I've tried swallowing, but I rarely ever do that anymore. It tends to leave a tingling bitterness in your mouth and will leave a pretty weird taste and smell to your breath. Even if you don't swallow, you will taste it and get the same effect. I recommend rinsing and eating or drinking something very sweet afterward and then brushing your teeth. I've heard that your diet can change the taste of your cum although I am not professional enough to say I know how that works or which foods to eat. I can tell you that the flavor is not so bitter, salty, or strong in general if you haven't cum in a while. If this is your second time that day, then it will taste a little worse. That's all I can think of. Try it out and lemme know how it works!

Yeah I hear you there. It's boring if it's plain.

Yeah, sometimes, when I cum I have pelvic or leg spasms also, but I have a frenulum so I doubt it has anything to do with that.

Hmmmm. The one standing up the tallest?

Sure. LOL. If you were joking, better let me know.

Howard's right in his way as well. It's prolli right that we all have some homosexual subconcious tendencies and his aren't as strong as mine or something. It's more how strongly they affect you. BTW, 12-Gauge, more power to you.

I'm only 7" when hard, but I AM hella flexible. It's fun as hell. Never given head to another guy. Is it fun?

Nice pic. Defenitely a keeper.

I dunno, I don't find lesbian sex any more attractive than any other type. I don't fantasize about being in bed with multiple women. I'd rather have a single passionate woman because it would be more intimate.

I personally wouldn't care if she swallowed or not. It might be a subconcious boost to the ego, but it definetely isn't vanilla ice cream flavored stuff. I wouldn't blame her if she spit it out. but if she wants to kiss you after you cum in her mouth, by all means, I'd kiss her. Hell, if she can stomach it, so can you, right?