Scout

From this woman's perspective - you are plenty big enough...not to worry. But trust me, there's so much more to all of this than your size - it's what you do with it, you lips, your eyes, fingers, arms, legs - the fact that you are separated from your wife makes all this much more difficult and when you do get together, I can only imagine that it's "Katie bar the door!"...but when you are together, take time to communicate - look at the websites together, read the toy reviews on this site...start off slow and work up...you are both young and have a life ahead of loving and giving...enjoy the journey - every second of it! If you're wife is wanting a toy to help ease her tensions while you are away - again bring her to this website, have her read the toy reviews - and try whatever appeals to her. She'll be doing it alone at first as you're occupied elsewhere...and in doing this alone, she'll learn more and more about her own body - what feels good to her, what she likes better than others...and when she can bring herself to orgasm time and time again, she'll be able to share that with you when you come home. And from this Texas girl - thank you for doing what you do for our great country...and please, please, keep safe! Scout

Oh, my - everytime is always sooooooooo good, it's hard to say which one was better - but I guess I'd have to say when we were in St. Louis - he had been invited to Purina Farms to be a part of a herding symposium and so I flew up to meet him in St. Louis. We stayed at a lovely hotel - way up high and could see the arch and all from our room...which was a suite, complete with separate sitting room - like who's gonna be doing any sitting, really! We'd been to supper with a lot of the other folks and the Purina people and I couldn't keep my hands off him (under the table, of course), so by the time we got back to the room, we were both so damned horney we were incredibly hot and ready! Tearing each other's clothes off - he threw me on the bed and we went at it - I couldn't begin to tell when one orgasm ended and another began - and then I squirted....WOW! That was the first time for me - and I couldn't believe I was even still on this planet! It was the most intense, incredible orgasm I had ever had and I'll always remember that first time. I'll also remember his laughing at me when I finally regained some consiousness - and asking if I liked that...ha! 'ya think? Scout

Favorite position? Hmmmmmm - well, they're all good. In reading some of the posts, I can sure tell I'm getting old - not quite as limber and flexible as I once was, but we do OK for being "old folks!" Still have to say that the old standby, Missionary, is my favorite - I guess cause we like to watch each other's expressions. He'll cup his hands over the top of my head so that he doesn't push me into the headboard! I also love doggy-style - especially, when I'm on my hands and knees on the bed and he's standing behind - talk about penetration - WOW! And G-spot stimulation? Whooooweeee! And the way he'll hold onto my hips, sometimes he'll bend over me, holding on to my shoulder to keep me steady while he slams into me. Oh! Heavenly! Heavenly! - then he'll fip me over and I'll be lying on my back with my legs over his shoulders, and then, look out - !!!! And spooning? You bet! Seems like almost all of our morning sessions start just like that...what a glorious way to wake up! :-)) Scout

DON'T GIVE UP! Yes! As Howard has stated - you must work TOGETHER to make this happen. And believe me, there is more than just a night of good sex at stake here- this is your life we're talking about. You want to have a good and happy marriage? Well, then become a participant, not a spectator - if it helps, sit down and write your husband a letter... tell him how you want to make him feel, and how you want him to make you feel, but sit with him while he reads it. And if it means that one of you has to call in sick, so that you two can be together to do some planning - then do it! No job, no school - NOTHING - is as important as your lives together...and you need to have that foundation of being together. You both must have a least one day off a week - take it and plan to take it together! Fight for what you want, girlfriend! Scout

Thanks so much for sharing - sounds like fun to me! Scout

Telecom - hats off to you. Sounds like you're doing just what needs to be done. It won't be easy and the road may be long with lots of bumps ahead, but persevere. It's hard for children, grown or otherwise, to accept that Dad has a new woman...and it ain't Mom! The fact that your ex is wanting to get back together now doesn't help the matter - and yes, heaven only knows what she's saying to the kids. Hopefully, she will have started to learn her lesson and be more guarded with what she says and does in the future. Be sure you tell her that there is NO future for her with you so that she is clear on that... And you will need to put your foot down every once and awhile. Your g/f is your special lady now and the children need to treat her with respect. When you think the time is right, include the kids in some outings...July 4th fireworks ( course that's past now ) - picnic at a park - or something outside where talking is OK...let them have a chance to get to know her and they'll soon see why you've picked her to be in your life. And take it slow and easy...lots of bruised feelings here and sore toes (from being stepped on)...I hope your daughter is recovering from this travesty in the same way you are. I'm proud that you've forgiven your wife, and that's a huge step - God willing that she has learned something from this...it's all well and good to have sexual feelings for someone, but each one of us always has the control to choose not to act on those feelings - especially when it is so completely against all laws of nature, of man and of good common sense! Good luck - be gentle and kind - Scout

Goodness, Howard! You are truely a doll - I think you've said it all very well, hmmmmmmmm, very well in deed! In some cases, as Howard so beautifully put it, begins days in advance. Cards, flowers, phone calls - all suggestive, of course, can do wonders for a woman's self image and her libido. Being pampered is also wonderful - getting a baby sitter - going on a date - hubby doing the meal preparation - candles, etc....but you know why all this works - and usually works so well - simply because it tells her that you've been thinking about her and wanting to maker her happy - Foreplay - there can never be too much! Give her a full body message - kiss and suck on her toes and her fingers...yes, we all know what you want to do - but take the time to find out what she wants you to do, and then do it... I spent a day not too long ago with a friends daughter and two grandchildren. My friend's daughter never stopped moving the entire time - constantly up and looking after her two beautiful daughters. It made me think of how she would be feeling when she got home and finally got the kids to bed...totally exhausted, I'm sure, and if her husband was "in the mood"...could he blame her if she weren't? So...ladies - get the man in your life to really share the burden - if he knows why he's being roped into extra duty, he should do it gladly with a smile on his face! And you men, get up off your you know what and start taking care of your ladies...and have fun! Scout

Mikayla ~ yes! I think the reviews are very helpful...your review of the Glittering G-Spot vibe sold me! I think you said it had you in orgasm in about 30 seconds. Well! I could have done that too, if I'd taken the time to read the directions when it arrived. But, Oh, no! I was in too much of a hurry - besides it's so pretty! Couldn't figure out how to get the battery pack out, get the batteries in - Arrrgggghhh! When finally I got that going correctly, I still didn't take the time to read the directions and figure out which buttons did what. But did I have an orgasm? Wow! like an earthquake! And each time I use this darling toy, it takes me to new heights of pleasure - and it has flashing lights - and the other evening, with it's lights flashing - it was like the explosions going off in my head or wherever - really added to the intense pleasure I was feeling! And yes, the real thing is always preferable - but the only thing this wonderful toy doesn't do is have arms to hold me and lips to kiss me...and believe me when it has me climbing that mountain...my fantasies can take me wherever I want to go and with whomever I'd like to have take me there! So, yes - keep up the good reviews! Scout

I think of whomever I'm thinking of...maybe it's my lover, or my ex-husband (who was always a great lover), or the man I'm talking to the phone who has me totally turned on - hmmmmm, wonder if he knows he does that to me? The wonderful thing about it is that we can fantasize with whomever - and make them any kind of lover we choose! Enjoy! Scout

I have to agree with Howard and Mikayla and the others...please don't think of yourself as ugly. Yes, when looking at the fashion models, actors, everyone that the media seems to think represent what we're supposed to look like, many of us are, well, let me just say, appearance challenged! But that's not what makes us who we are...it's what is inside. Sometimes, we need to take stock and decide what we would like to change about our physical features - and then take that step and make the changes. For me, it was weight - what? No one has ever been a bit "plump?" Ha! Bet me! But you know? I was not just a bit plump - I was very much overweight - what I enjoyed doing was becoming a chore because of the extra weight I carried - that was the real incentive. Now, 80 lbs lighter - I'm still a "big gal" but I'm proud of myself and proud of what I can do, physically. Most women my age would faint if they saw me in action - and most men my age - well, let's just say, my man loves having me work along side him. And the one thing I think that lets women know what kind of lover you would me, is that smile, the kind of smile that lights up your face - that says clearly how glad you are to see her - or to meet her. The way you talk, laugh with her, look at her ... those are the things that tell her you are a great lover. The way you tease with her, and how you play... Ever have any doubts about how Jerry Lewis kept his wife happy? I doubt that it was just his money...and there are so many others... Please, don't put yourself down...remember that we are all here for a purpose. I know it's sometimes hard to find what that purpose might be...but we will find it. And doing, as Howeard said, something that you enjoy, will put you in touch with others that enjoy the same thing...and the best way to meet someone is to have the same interests...and don't forget to smile! Scout

Hi all - well, there's not too much I can add that Mikayla and Howard and the rest haven't already covered. However, the ponts to remember are really quite simple once we slap ourselves around a bit - with all the added stresses of life, it is very easy to get into a rut of running here and there and rushing around just to take care of the process of living - and then we forget about loving, or wonder how can we possibly find time. Simple, we MUST always make time. And even if you don't want to join him in the shower - there's always that moment when he's out of the shower, most likely standing at the sink shaving. Well? What are you waiting for. My lover was standing at the sink doing just that, clad in his boxer (Oh! I do love boxers so!) and I simply put my arms around him and began kissing his shoulders, his back and as I moved down, it was so easy to gently start to pull his boxer down...of course, he knows me and he knows what I want - hmmmmmm, and he's never refused me yet! And he loves for me to initiate - yes, men, and you can admit it - they love it when they know they've got a hot blooded woman lusting after their body! Sometimes I get a bit of shaving cream on me - as we do a lot of playing - but I always get my orgasms - and belive me, nothing starts the day off better than that! I'll be thinking of ways to help him when he gets home, so that he has a chance to unwind, rest, and maybe catch a short nap - usually, I don't have to ask - he's the one wanting to continue where we left off in the a.m. And oh, by the way - we're both over 60 - and believe me, it just keeps getting better. Enjoy! Scout

Seems like this got a bit off topic at one point...and I apologize - I usually only have time to get on site on a weekend - what with working, commuting, farm chores and all - doesn't leave much time for browsing the site... Spitting or swallowing...My second husband gave great head, no he gave incredible head - and he was my first experience at receiving that - it amazed me that he was so willing to do that - without question - and that made me want to learn to pleasure him more - and swallowing was one of those little things that made him so incredibly happy...couldn't resist doing it all the time after that... Seems simple to me - if it pleasures your man, then why wouldn't you do it? Scout

I would enjoy that - especially when the SO is far away...it helps to visualize him there with me. Scout

Well, I'll add my 2 cents worth here - as a woman, I certainly do admire another woman with a great figure, including great boobs...my girls were once great...they're still DD's but without the aid of a bra, I'm afraid their looking straight South these days...but at 60+, I think that's where they should be. Would I like a surgical lift? You bet! Can I afford that? Nope! So, am I miserable with what God gave me? NOPE! My lover loved my girls, and especially loved how I loved it when he played with them. They still have all the same feelings they had when I was in my 20's - and just perhpas, I appreciate them more today than I did back then... Scout