Dugmar

Well I tried to ease her into it while we were having foreplay in front of a hot fire. She was very surprised and did'nt think it was necessary. When we went to the bedroom she said she would try it so we did. She did'nt care for it very much. I told her I got just to try something different and she said that what I do for her is enough. I left it in the top drawer next to the bed in hope that she will try it solo one day and maybe it will supply us with some fun down the road. Thanks for the advice, I definetely think it was the way to go.

I love going down on my wife and I dont stop until a few minutes after she cums. There is nothing like riding her pelvis as she convulses from her orgasm. I dont receive much oral sex but a good slow hand job can do the trick as long as she is looking at my penis. I suppose I am letting her cum in my mouth but i dont think it is quite the same thing. Dugmar

I have just purchased our first vibrator but my wife does not know it yet. She is pretty conservative but on occasion she does things that surprise me. Lately she has very little interest in sex. I thought that maybe something new would spark her interest. Are there any ladies out there that do not like vibrators?? Should I surprise my wife or give her some warning about my new idea. Any suggestions would be highly appreciated. Dugmar

I fantisize about catching my wife masturbating, telling her to keep going while I drop my pants and jerk off while standing over her and watching her. Dugmar

As a kid I used to fuck a large stuffed animal that my older sister had. It was the next best thing since I was a little young to get the real thing. The most exciting part was running around naked making sure nobody saw me. Dugmar

Being a guy, the ultimate turnon is knowing your significant other is thinking about your manhood. In this day and age it seems that the men always need to compliment the women. Men need some reassurance too. Dugmar

wE HAVE HAD MORE SEX MORE OFTEN! I guess the problem starts with her period. She gets it for like two weeks. At first she is very tired for 3 or 4 days and then the normal period comes. I guess more communication helps so I know when it is coming so we can have more fun before she is not into it. If we go 3 or 4 days without sex and then her period comes, I get extremely sexually frustrated. For everyones info, I am very much a home body and I help with the kids the cleaning and the cooking. She really enjoys that part of our relationship. It is more important to both of us than working 12 hours a day to make as much money as possible. Its all about quality family time. Thanks for all of your input. Dugmar

I love my wife. That being said, we have some issues. I have tw o children 7 and 5. That does not leave very much time for our sex life. My problem is that if I dont get some sex before her period, She is not interested in any type of activity until it is over. How does everybody feel about that time of the month?? Is it unreasonable to say " Hey, I'm sorry your not up to it but you need to take care of my needs!!!" For the record, she handles herself very well in the sack although the frequency is about half of what I want.

My wife is having a hard time having an orgasm. She is wet and excited but she seems to need more. I have made her cum thousands of times but lately it seems to be harder for her to finish. I thought maybe there is a toy that is not to intimidating for me to try on her. Any ideas