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    just got my 1st one
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    25 and female

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  1. I totally agree with Mikayla. I remember when I finally decided to buy my first toy I was going agianst everything I was tought growing up, but I wanted to learn about my body, I wanted to feel that pleasure. So for the first month/two months it would hurt every time. If I went in to far or turned it weird or pushed it in a little sideways or slanted up or down it would hurt. I was never able to get off, untill one day I decided to start with my fingers, touching my clit and all over my body untill orgasm then putting my toy inside and playing with my clit I was finally able to have an orgasm with my toy without it hurting. I think I aroused myself enough that inside and outside of me was relaxed enough for it to not hurt.
  2. you all make it sound so easy. I never used to be the type of person to give up, then I started getting serious with BF/the father of my child. When I make a mistake or do something he dislikes in or out of the bed he gets really upset he talks to me like I should have known better (like a child), I should have known that was going to hurt him, I should have known he wouldn't like it. He has said to me more then once "What were you thinking" in a very angry voice. Most all of the time he apologizes but when someone makes me feel like shit because of an accident it's very hard for me to want to continue pleasing that person. I thank you all for all of your comments you guys are awesome. Howard in regards to your questions: "I think you have to learn to take yourself less seriously, and learn to laugh at yourself. When is the last time you told a story at your own expense, or told a joke where you were the butt of the joke? Never? You have something to work on." I grew up learning from my dad not to take life so seriously. I take things seriously when I need to. I am blond and I used to tell the best blond jokes. I still tell jokes but I'm sure I'm not the best anymore. I learned stuff like that thrown at me usually ment the person is trying to get a rise out of me, hurt me or make me mad and if I were to show them I can make fun of myself too and that I am still smart and don't care how there trying to hurt me then there going to walk away frustrated they couldn't hurt me, make me mad or get a rise out of me. The only problem to that is it's hard to aply that to the bedroom being on a personal level with someone. Since being with my BF I haven't been able to take it very well being the butt of the joke around him but when he isn't around I'm fine. He has always been really good at treating me like I am stupied and I think a lot of that has to do with him having a lot more experiance in a lot of things then me. He thinks he knows all so when I have a differance of opinion he acts like I am arguing with him. On a brighter note he says that he doesn't want to loose me that I am the best thing that has ever happened to him. So he said that he will do anything to not loose me. So we had a major talk and he has gotten a lot better at how he treats me. Anyway thank you Howard like always you know what to say. Thank you all.
  3. You just said a lot. Get this my BF last Saturday got pleasured in more then one way and then blew my pleasure off and to this day has not yet done anything for me but come home drunk supposedley spending 4 hrs with another guy at the bar.
  4. The way I understand it is you get to know the person threw dates, talking whatever. You go threw your pastor for marriage counseling then you get married and you can have your sex but I guess you can't even fantasize about the other sex because your left with impure thoughts that can lead to sin. If you are that concerned you should try Google it's awesome for research.
  5. I truly appreciate the help so far but I was really hoping the men would jump all over this one, unless they don't want to give away any secrets.
  6. I want to know from both men and women how to tell if your guy is cheating on you. I would like to know what the most common warning signs are. This not just for the men I would like responses from both men and women. Thank you all.
  7. Yes I did use lube. I couldn't see how much I was using and I guess I used to much. That's what he told me anyway when he was cleanning up. I am starting to get disapointed because I did this for him Saturday night (two nights ago probably now a third night) and I still have not gotten anything in return. I don't know I'm starting to think maybe I wasn't all that good even though he's telling me it was. Anyway I will reward myself tonight if I can't get him to do it.
  8. I am a new to how to pleasure my mam let alone myself but I took Howards advice and did a lot of research. Well........ I found out about a month ago that my man likes anal play. So I decided to combine giving him head with anal play. So here is what I did..... I started by blindfolding him. Then I started rubbing his inner thighs, his skin under his balls, the skin around his balls and all the way up to his lower stomach. Then I started kissing him in all those places till I could tell I was on the right page with him (that he was injoying what was happening). I then started kissing his dick from the bottom to the top with a little kiss and suck to top it off. then I started kissing around his dick agian. Then I finally took him into my mouth and started sucking. He started to move and that told me he was in the flow, but I wanted to keep him guessing so I used my other hand and I started rubbing and aplying some presure to his butt hole, which I could tell right away he liked. Then I took a pause to lub up my finger then I came back to sucking on him and moving up and down with my hand and my mouth, then I rubbed his butt hole and slowly inserted my finger. I didn't know how far to put it in there but he pushed it all the way in for like he new I didn't know. After about a minute he was moving all over the place and screaming "oh god" and other stuff. He finally very intensly came in my mouth. (I don't swallow but I waited till he was done and then I spit in the bathroom. That hole thing took place over an hour / an hour in a half. He said that it was ver intense for him, that cumming is just cumming but when you add the anal it is like when the valcano finally erupts. So he had his world rocked and I injoyed every moment of it feeling every shake and hearing every roar. Just thought I would share so other newbies can see that this forum is very helpfull and informative.
  9. I have to say that I wasn't going to read this because it was so long but just like a good book you read the first paragraph and you can't stop. That was wonderfully put together and I am glad you are a winner that was definatly worth the read.
  10. I am so misinformed in sex that there are times I hurt my man or do something that he doesn't like and I don't know about the rest of the wemon out there but for me I get really intimidadted and I'll never want to do what ever it was we were doing. Example If I where giving head and I used my teeth and It hurt him or he asked me to stop, I wouldn't want to give him head any more. Do experianced guys like it when they have a girl who is a lot less experianced to get there experiance threw them (threw trial and error). Because I think I back off to far. But I want some opinions.
  11. I am 25 years old and I'm with my 3rd partner, I don't know if I have ever had an orgasm. Girls have told me lots of times "you will know when you have an orgasm" But the most I feel when either pleasing myself or having sex is a little excitment down there, just enough to keep me coming back for more but not enough to talk about. It feels like no big deal and I feel like I'm missing out on a major deal. Please help.
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