Rayya

ok... so here's the story in short... we started at it, using a Trogan Her Pleasure condom... and about ten minutes later, he went numb! Not that I dont mind him lasting longer, but those condoms arent suppose to do that, right? They dont that that kind of lube on them, I checked the website. We've used them before and thats never happened... I went down on him a few hours before and he finished, but it just struck me as weird... anyone have an answer????? Thanks

I was finally able to take it in the ass and LIKE IT! (For those of you who dont know, thats a BIG thing for me..... I'm proud of myself... hehe)

thanks a lot for your advice, Howard... its much appreciated

talking dirty isnt as hard as some people think.... I was really, really shy about the whole subject until I just said fuck it one day and threw caution to the wind.... you could tell her how good she feels when you're inside her, how wet she is, how she's going to make you explode when you cum, ask her if she likes your cock inside her, if she likes it when you fuck her hard... use your imagination, man!

Alright... here's the story: My boyfriend is REALLY into the whole anal sex thing... and I'm pretty curious about it as well and think I'll enjoy it just as much as him... I mean, he's played with my ass before, put a few fingers in, etc.... but whenever we try to actually anal sex, it hurts like hell! Last time, I tried to get myself ready with one of my toys... it was just as big as my boyfriend length wise, and a little smaller in thickness... I used a lot of lube and it went in smoothly... I kinda worked it around for a little bit, getting used to the feel (letting him watch, of course ) until I felt comfortable enough to let him replace the toy.... he lubed himself up and slowly tried entering me, but I couldn't take it after he got the head of his erection inside me, it hurt too much! He's a very understanding guy and told me that it's something that needs to be taken slowly, but I'm starting to get frusterated with myself! I'm completely relaxed when we try it and we're both laying on our sides so my muscles aren't tightened or anything... Does anyone have any advice as to what to do? Lubes? Positions? Techniques that would make it easier? I'd love to be able to give him a good anal fuck for our one year anniversary....

I have! In the movie theater and in the mall! hehe When I first started seeing my current boyfriend, I had to do it in secret because the parents were against it. (Over protective and extreamely religious.... my guy is Pagan and has long hair, piercings and tattoos.... ) So we found a secluded place in the mall (theres a whole section of the mall with no stores because the mall in my area SUCKS) and would mess around for hours.... giving each other oral, masterbating each other.... stuff like that.... good times Even now that my parents have accepted the fact that were together, we still go back to that spot every so often to mess around a little.....

Receiving oral has to be my absolute FAVORITE thing! I get really, REALLY vocal when I get into it.... I pull my guys hair, press my hips up against his face, scream, whatever feels good at the time! Luckily, my boyfriend loves it as well.... I LOVE it when he uses his fingers too... I can normally take three, and his has big hands! When I cum, he doesnt stop, he just keeps going until my clit is too sensitive to be touched anymore. I've had multiple orgasms more than once through oral and I've soaked his sheets almost every time!

I know how you feel about the whole "getting caught" thing... my mother was a very VERY strong religious woman and believed that touching yourself in any sexual way was extreamely wrong... but luckily, not all parents think that. Brush handles are always a good idea... hell, when I have nothing else to use, I still use mine! But as mentioned before, don't try inserting it! If you're new to this, take it slow... try using your fingers to massage the upper part of your private place (that's where the clit is and that's normally where it feels the best) As far as getting caught.... just dont be loud, lock your door, or do it when no ones home or when people are sleeping

Amen, sister I love watching my boyfriend jerk off as well..... I love getting his reaction when I start touching myself while watching him, or when I break out one of my toys It had a degree of excitement to things.... its kind of dirty, but in the good way

I was at my boyfriend's house.... feeling really horny... so I decided to start masterbaing while he was on the computer doing a project for one of his classes.... (Yes, I'm a very big tease to him ) I took my brush (since I couldnt find anything else and the handle of it is rounded about about 8 inches long) and slipped it inside after digging my mini vibrator out of my bag (I always bring my toys with me when I go to his house ) He didnt know I was doing it until he heard me moaning. So, he turned around, saw me, and sat there for a few minutes, watching me. Soon, he couldnt take it anymore so he walked over to me and sat down at the foot of his bed, to get a closer look. It wasnt long until we were both masterbating together...... Well, after a little while I felt that I was getting close to orgasm... he and I were completely alone in this house, so I decided to let go and moan (practically scream) when my time came, I had a very intense orgasm with the combination of my toy and the brush ramming into me... but something interesting happened that has never happened to me before.... I came so hard, my muscles tightened around the brush handle, I couldnt remove it until my muscles where completely relaxed.... and when I did pull it out, it was dripping with this liquid that looked just like a man's cum.... So, heres my question..... did I actually ejaculate or is that normal???????

Ever tried a dildo with a suction cup??? You can stick it to a shower wall or floor.... its hands free, but you still have to do the work yourself. The Too Timid store has a lot of them in their dildo section.... http://www.tootimid.com/female/

My boyfriend and I just tried the anal sex thing about three weeks ago.... I, like I'm sure a few other ladies on here, was doing it mostly because I figured it would make my guy happy and he would enjoy himself.... but I was surprised to find that I liked it as well. I admit, it did hurt a little at first, but the lube makes a WORLD of difference, believe me. I cant imagine trying to have anal sex without lube... my ass hurts just thinking about it... lol.

I honestly think most of my strongest orgasms are from oral sex... my boyfriend is quite good at it considering I'm the first girl he's ever went down on... he even goes online to check out tips on how to make me cum faster or how to drag it out longer. Sometimes it gets so intense, I almost scream!

Ooo... being the one in control is fun! I know what you mean about being a little shy... at first, being aggressive was a little tough for me... but once you get used to it, it becomes really, really fun! Try going into a store that sells naughty stuff and taking a look around.... see if anything catches your eye, and if it looks like it would be fun, give it a try! You'll never know what you like until you try it Have fun!

I agree with Janet and Jen.... hunny, if your girlfriend isnt content with what you have, then thats her problem. My boyfriend is about 7 inches, he worries that he's too small but I'm quite content with it. Believe me, being 6 inches is NOTHING to be worrying about