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  • Birthday 03/08/1982

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    3 and counting! Thanks TooTimid :)
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    27 F

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  1. Has anyone tried the His and Hers KY gel? I'm intrigued by it...
  2. He's a year younger than I am, so it's not an age thing, that's for sure! I guess he's pretty wise, in that he really wants me to have multiple O's before we even get started together. We have a problem on the toy front though He seems to think that he should be able to give me the best orgasms I've ever had, and since a toy can occasionally do it better, it should just replace him. He's taken a big ego hit over this, and I've tried to be supportive, but it seems to devolve into arguments instead. He doesn't want me to get rid of the toys, or stop using them, but I just feel so bad about it all! And boys claim girls are confusing...
  3. ladylove, I would guess that you just tell him! While my hubby was away, he asked me to send him "special" emails, and I did, just about every night! Did self photo shoots, and even took a couple of video clips of just me. I had the same hang-ups as you did, but my DH responded to each and every picture and video with "man, you have no idea how much this made my day!" He also gave me (because I asked him to) constructive criticisms... and none of them were what I expected! I was expecting him to comment on how certain shots made me look fat or something, but most of them were about how my smile looked, or what I was doing with my eyes, or if the "money shot" was off center . Doing this made me realize that I can't focus on one or two bad things, and that HE doesn't focus on one or two bad things, he takes me as a wonderful total package! sunflower, maybe you could start out doing the same, see that it's really not that bad, and then surprise your hubby by setting the camera up yourself for a night with the two of you. I seriously doubt that anything you might see would make you never want to have sex again!
  4. Amen synirr! I give the seat a quick wipe with a bit of TP first, but I almost always sit directly on it. There was a sign in my very first dance studio that stuck with me (I was 5): If you sprinkle when you tinkle/please be neat and wipe the seat. Wish that were mandatory in all public restrooms.
  5. Probably true, thinking of my hubby coming home tomorrow! TPBM has had an emotional affair (no sex, but feelings that should have gone to your SO went to another)
  6. Hubby has been on a month-long business trip, and I've already promised him head on the way back from the airport I love it, he loves it, and there's something exciting about the possibility of having someone look in while I'm doing it! I don't think we'd try road sex though, too big a chance for an accident.
  7. 1) Another FFM, with a girl I trusted this time (haven't figured out how to find the girl) 2) Bondage with me as sub 3) More bondage (see 2) 4) Sex in the ocean (don't go on vacation much) 5) Role playing 6) Sex in a dressing room (still too timid!) 7) Sex with a chick with my hubby watching (falls under FFM, but not exactly) 8) Sex in Japan... no idea why, really... (totally off topic, but SuzyP, do you like Jacqueline Carey as much as I do?)
  8. I was a virgin the night of, had an afternoon wedding, drove across the river to a hotel after the reception, so got in at like 9, watched tv for a couple of hours, he got a shower, i slipped into something "nice," he got out of the shower, looked surprised, we had awkward sex (i think because we expected to have sex, not because we wanted to), and went to sleep. The next morning, however, was better, and the honeymoon was better yet .
  9. I lived 5 hours away from my fiance for the whole year before we got married, and WoW/Vent was a great way to "see" each other Most people I talked to didn't understand how seeing an avatar, while not exactly like seeing face-to-face, sure beats not seeing anything! (and after hosting a TS server forever, I agree, vent is much better )
  10. My hubby and I have been opening up A LOT this last year about sex, what pleases us, etc. We've discovered that, although he wants to please me as many times as we can stay awake for, he completely loses his drive to do so after his first ejaculation. We can be in the middle of things, and he'll beg me to keep going after he's done and bring him back in the action after a few minutes, but the moment he orgasms, and makes sure I do too, he pretty much falls asleep and asks me not to wake him up. When we talk later, he tells me that he really does want me to wake him back up and continue most of the time (unless it's obvious that he's too tired and needs sleep because of work), no matter what he says. He would like to have more drive after the fact, but doesn't seem to be able to follow through. On the few occasions that I've just said "the heck with it!" and gone to work on him with hands and mouth, he *can* get another erection, but it's not as hard as before, and he doesn't really to get very much out of the sex... at that point it's mostly wham, bam, thank you ma'am, and goes back to sleep. He's usually more miserable the morning after I try, though, because he doesn't feel like he satisfied me the second time. He finally asked me to find out anything I knew on this phenomenon, and I immediately thought of the forum. I told him about it, said I didn't see much after looking through several pages, and he gave me the go-ahead to ask . A year ago I really don't think he would have. So, for the men, is there something he can do about this? Does it sound like a mental thing or a physical/psychological thing? Does he need to just "suck it up" and keep going? Or should we just delay his orgasm for as long as possible, and just forget about him cumming multiple times in one night? Thanks for any insight you guys can offer!
  11. Chloegirl, what does your hubby think of that? I have a similar situation, and he's none too pleased at the moment :-/
  12. We have a cat as well, and as much as she hates it, we've had to lock her out of our bedroom lately. If she hears "interesting" noises coming from the bed, she's gotta jump right up and investigate! More than once I've had a cold nose stuck in a nice warm place before I even realized she'd gotten on the bed. I understand your frustration!
  13. The only non-chocolate one I have is reading all day long Other than that, the chocolate dream dessert from carrabba's italian restaurant, or this: http://yhst-84404158564241.stores.yahoo.net/gb-106-mp5.html which is an organic/fair trade chocolate bar that a friend of mine got me for a present recently bittersweet dark chocolate, hazelnuts, and currants!
  14. My then-husband-to-be once fingered me to orgasm while we were in a hotel hot tub with about 7 of our friends. I had to be totally "normal" and it was one of the hottest things that's ever happened between us It was hard to stand up and leave the whirlpool after that, let me tell you! so it was kinda like masturbation in front of other people.
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