butterflygirl

Thanks guys. My answers are two fold. Yes I am have text, email and phone sex with a friends husband but BOTH OF OUR partners know about it. We joke about sex hen all together. We all 4 joke about what we are going to do to each other but he and I are the only ones talking other then face to face. It is a JOKE and we all know NOTHING would ever come of it. My Dh and I have a great relationship and so do my friend and her Dh. None of us has a desire to go elsewhere. Our spouses reap the benefits. It gives us new ideas and opens new conversations up between all of us. The reason for my question is we were all out together one night and the topic of what is cheating came on the radio talk show we had on in the car. Alot of people consider what he and I do as cheating. We don't because there is not an emotional connection plus our spouses know what we are doing. So now what is your opnion???

Hi all I am a 31 year old in her sexual prime. I have just discovered a whole new world, lol. My Dh is having a hard time keeping up with me lately!! We have been married almost 10 years and have 3 children. My youngest is turning 5 this week and I am ready for some ME ME ME attention. I have always been open minded and comfortable with myself sexually. Not afraid to try new things so this site is fabulous!!!! I will be here ALOT!!

My Dh is WAY into women in Thing Highs. I love to indulge this for him, I own about 40 pairs in all colors and patterns. I am looking for a good web site that features good porn for free with women in stockings/thigh highs. Anyone know any?? Google keeps giving me pay sites.

Ok so at what point do you consider it cheating on your spouse? In your opnion is phone sex cheating? Email sex? Please give reasons as to why you feel the way you do.

Nope definatley not pregnant (hubby is "fixed"). It happens ONLY with toy use at any time of month. No pain or stininging vaginally but sometimes lower abdominal (muscle??) pain a few hours into the next day after use. The spotting is a very small amount to none. I usually notice it when cleaning my toy, that is how I know it is caused by the tip/ ribbed end of the vibrator. No rips or tears in silicone. Lubricant has never been a need so nope to that question also. Toy use is new to my hubby and I. I am really enjoying this one in particular so I hope to fighure out this issue. I made a OB appt but they could not get in in for over a month. So thanks for the help guys.

Is it normal to sometimes bleed after vibrator use? I have a Butterfly THAT I LOVE but lately it seems to be making me have some light spotting. The head is ribbed and swirls could it be cutting me? Could iI be penetrating too deep? I LOVE this vibrator and don't want to stop using it. Any words of wisdom???