well dh and i have talked about having some one join us fer some time and it finally happened. we invited one of my friends to join ina nd she did . it was awsome. i loved being w/ her ! but her is my question now, i would love to be her more w/ or w/out my dh. but in the wks the fallowed this adventure she and my dh got closer and closer. he was hidding it from me that they were talking and she would not hardly talkto me. so ofcourse i got pissed and confronted them. now she wont talk to him but will me. my dh had his feelings hurt bc i thouht something was going on w/ them. so is it right for me to still be her friend? and is itbad that i still want to be w/ her? and is it cheating for me to have sex w/ her w/out him? oohh so muh shit! i love my dh more that anything in the world, and we are fine now and all are getting along i am just a little confused and would not have had any problem w/ any of it if it had not been for them getting close and hidding it from me. what to do what to do ...