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  1. Well here is the update...I took daughter back to the orthopedic specialist today, we removed her splint and x rayed her elbow, everything came back great, she started moving her arm normally as soon as the splint was off, and she's acting as good as new. As long as she continues to use her arm normally we shouldn't have anymore issues. So YAY!!!!!! I also talked my friend about it, and she has apologized for her part of the accident, so things seem to be going good for now.
  2. Mikayla, you hit the nail right on the head!! I have two toddlers, I know that they get hurt, and a lot of it they cause themselves, but if you help them cause it, or cause it for them, you should at least acknowledge it!! Thank you for not making me feel like I'm freaking out for nothing!
  3. I haven't said anything to my friend except that it was an accident and things happen. I'm trying not to be a total bitch about it, which is why I came on here to vent. I don't think there is a single chance I will be leaving her alone with my kids....EVER, or that she will be coming over much in the near future. Tyger is right...I feel no need to have someone around me or my children that I can't trust.
  4. "Daughter started having a tantrum, and (i didn't see this because my chair was facing the other way) hit her mouth on my friend's chair. So, friend caught her by the HAND to pick her up and see if she was ok. Daughter is a mama's girl, so she started shrieking and wiggling (I didn't realize she had been hurt, thought she was just having a tantrum until this point) as I turned around friend had Daughter in her arms and took her to her room because she was crying" As I said in my initial post...I DIDN'T see this happen, I just know what I heard. I also thought I clarified that she wasn't catching her or keeping her from falling...She was picking her up AFTER she thought she had bumped her mouth. This was in no way a preventative measure. I know that accidents happen, I've said this as well! I am simply floored because she has shown no remorse for her part of this! A little sympathy for my two year old would be nice, and it's all I ask. I don't seriously expect her to pay the bills, it would just be nice if she seemed a little apologetic.
  5. Yep, she picked her up completely off the floor by one hand. She has been over since it happened, and saw the splint on daughter's arm....she knows the incident caused it, but still doesn't seem to acknowledge that she played a part in it happening. I think that's what bothers me the most...if I hurt a child....mine or not...(and I have before, my son has been to the ER before) I would feel TERRIBLE!!!!! When my son fell out of a swing and had to have his forehead glued up at the ER I cried as much as he did. So I guess that's what is driving me crazy. I have helped my daughter up by the hand, and my son, but never lifted them completely off the floor by one hand. Especially when they were having a tantrum. Then if I pick them up at all, I scoop them up by the body.
  6. I didn't mean to imply that it was intentional..or malicious in any way! I know she didn't mean to cause my daughter harm. It was the complete carelessness of the situation that is driving me crazy! She didn't grab her by the hand because she was falling. She lifted her up off the floor by the hand in an attempt to hand her to me because she was crying. It was definitely a dumb thing to do...and I know it was an accident, but aren't we still responsible for accidents? If I back my car into someone else's car....I still have to pay for the damage, even though it was an accident. Correct? I'm just frustrated, I feeling bad for my baby....
  7. Thursday afternoon I was at my computer desk, a friend of mine was at the desk too. My daughter, who is two and weighs 23 pounds...she's tiny) came over and tried to climb into my friend's chair. I heard friend say no, and I said "there isn't room at the desk for all of us honey" Daughter started having a tantrum, and (i didn't see this because my chair was facing the other way) hit her mouth on my friend's chair. So, friend caught her by the HAND to pick her up and see if she was ok. Daughter is a mama's girl, so she started shrieking and wiggling (I didn't realize she had been hurt, thought she was just having a tantrum until this point) as I turned around friend had Daughter in her arms and took her to her room because she was crying (I've done this if she is having a tantrum, but NEVER if she's crying because she's been hurt) So I got up to go see what was the matter and daughter launched herself into my arms. She was holding her arm and crying really really hard. Definitely not a tantrum cry. So I cuddled her on my lap and tried to distract her thinking she was still upset....still holding her arm. So I took her in the bedroom and called my pediatrician to explain what had happened and see if I should take her to the ER. Dr. said to give her some motrin and if she wasn't better to take her in the morning. So I have her motrin, and it didn't help at all. So when dh got home to stay with our son, I took her to the ER. They bent and wiggled her arm all over the place, and on three separate occasions said "I just felt it pop back in" when she still couldn't move it, they took x-rays. We waited for the results....which came back clean (thankfully!) and he once again twisted her arm to pop her elbow back into place. After this he left he room and came back in with a referral to an orthopedic specialist for the next day. He said it wouldn't hurt her to move it, and to just take her home and schedule the ortho appt. So I had a miserable baby who is in Serious pain all night...I even called the ortho to see if I could take her to the one on call, but since she wasn't already a patient, they wouldn't let me. So after being up all night to try to keep her as comfortable as possible, I was finally able to schedule the ortho appointment. They had her x-rays from the night before, and the Dr. examined her arm twice to make sure he wasn't missing anything, then once again, popped her elbow back into place and said "I'll check on her in a minute" Just like the night before, when he came back she still couldn't move her arm and when he checked it again he discovered that it had popped back out. So he put it back into place for the FIFTH time and had me hold it in position until they could get a plaster splint on to hold it in place. This splint must have been magic because she has been completely back to normal since they immobilized her arm. So my point is....Who picks up a toddler by the HAND??? She didn't even act sympathetic...even went as far as to ask if daughter could be Faking since the ER dr. wasn't able to fix the problem!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hell???? I have an injured child, an outrageous ER bill coming, and tons of Orthopedic Specialist bills coming...especially since my deductible hasn't been met yet. I'm SO MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for letting me rant!
  8. I will definitely have him talk to the doctor about sleep apnea...at this point I've gotten a humidifier, and the nasal strips and gotten it down to tolerable. which translates into, I don't have to sleep on the couch anymore. He doesn't seem tired during the day, and doesn't fall asleep during normal activities...just snores a lot...We both know that he needs to lose a significant amount of weight...but as of yet, he's not real motivated to accomplish it. :-( I'll keep you updated on how it goes...and thanks for all the info about sleep apnea!
  9. I did an early valentines present for my hubby and our..."friend" I have a friend who is a massage therapist and I surprised them both with massages I earned MAJOR brownie points lol
  10. Unfortunately santa didn't get to bring anything fun yet...funds have been very tight...but I'm still looking into getting a few of the ones mentioned. I appreciate all the suggestions!!
  11. I seem to be the odd ball here...while I can't imagine hubby and I adding another man to our lives...sexually speaking, we have added another woman...and I find it INSANELY erotic to watch them together...he feels the same about watching her and I together....it has been a very fun and erotic experience for us, and has happened a few times...but always with the same girl..
  12. Oh it's loud lol. My mother in law stayed with us for a week last month, and from our daughter's room...with both doors closed, she could hear him and asked me how I could sleep with him. lol I'm going to get the strips tonight, he has a dr. appt next week, so I hope something helps...I might get some ear plugs too.
  13. lol I even tried wearing my mp3 player to bed, but i had to have it so loud to drown him out, that I couldn't sleep anyway. I'm going crazy!!!!
  14. I love my husband more than anything, but I can't sleep! It's ok if I fall asleep first, but if I try to get back to sleep after waking up with kids or something, or happen to go to bed later, it's aweful. I end up on the couch fairly frequently. I know he's certainly not intentionally snoring, but I need sleep! Help!!!
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