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  1. guys in california love tatoo's! my man is covered in them and he's a huge suicide girl fan. we look at convention magazines and we share our plans about tatoo's he thinks the next two i want are sexy and the first two i have he says are cute (a sun and moon on my feet). i'm saving up for this beautiful bleeding heart on my shoulder behind my heart and when my sick cat dies i will get his paw prints going up my side, back and neck.. he said that one will be real sexy. and i know i'll love it cuz it will mean so much to me.
  2. i want to marry you. you make some men look like total assholes. i dunno if my man feels the same way about me, but if he does he sure dosen't say it.
  3. i too have yet to orgasm through penitration alone. but i also just recently discovered the pleasures of the g-spot. it will take some time before you will be able to orgasm through just penitration. try foreplay till your almost there then start penitration or different positions to find which best stimulates your g-spot. and don't ecpect anything from it at first, if i starts to feel like you aren't going to orgasm use your fingers or a toy or have your lover take over. patience is important. AND if you've never had a g-spot orgasm read the article here on it. i had never had one 'till i read it, but i recomend trying it on your own with a toy first, then have your SO try it with a toy or fingers as you guide them so they have an idea as to where you are most sensitive, then go for the penetration. best wishes!
  4. if a man wants it once a week or less and a woman wants it every other day or so, would using these birth controls even things out for her? after all it's not easy to ask one to do more than he desires it makes him feel like he's 'trying' or 'performing'. besides wanting it more makes me feel like a freak and just makes me irritable when we don't. if i didn't want so much we'd both be happy.
  5. when i was upset about my SO masturbating to porn without me (yeah i know im over it) i totally freaked cuz i thought he wanted to masturbate to those hot chicks instead of have sex with me (i always feel like i want more sex than him). i asked if he could ease off on the masturbation for a while till i felt it wasn't effecting how much he wanted me. BIG mistake! i saw a freshly used condom in the bathroom trash (we usually toss ours in the bedroom trash) when we hadn't had sex in a week. i thought 'shit! i made him feel guilty and now he's trying to hide it from me!!!' i asked if that’s what happened and he said yes. i feel so bad! i've told him it's ok, in fact i want him to enjoy that freedom. but he said he feels uncomfortable with it now. i said i was sorry. oh god i feel guilty now. he still wont do it, unless im on vacation. i wish i'd never asked him not to.
  6. oh well, no harm in trying something new. i've never done a hand job before. (cuz i always get too excited and jump to oral)
  7. i would have to be... Molly Magnolia OMG thats so cute! totaly me too!
  8. Where could I find those devices? I’ve done Kegels for a little while now and I want to be sure I’m doing them correctly.
  9. ok ok i need to know if it is possible to use with blowjobs as well. this stuff sounds great for my SO but i know he would want me to introduce it first before he'd use it alone. i love oral so much that the idea of just giving him a hand job is a little disappointing. does it have a flavor? can you swallow it let alone put it in your mouth? if anyone has answers it would be very helpful!
  10. that is a great idea. i was thinking about trying a hoodia weight loss supplement i could say if he is interested we could do it together. if not oh well. no big deal.
  11. almond butter and dark chocolate! clothes shopping cooking (i love planning and making a meal) buying stuff to spoil my cat (i love him!) and for the sexual one... i love to orgasm doggie style. it's harder for me to do, usually takes a clit vibe, and packs some air up there... but it's sooooooo worth it.
  12. i think it might be worth a try. i found the Max Stamina Sexual Stimulant on this site. lord only knows if it works, but i don’t know how to hint at or suggest it. we've tried some things like stress relief and being more playful but i think if he would be willing to try something natural like this supplement, it might enhance his libido a bit. it’s something i would need to be cautious with only because i don't want to suggest anything that would insult him. i mean we've agreed that we have different sex drives and that we want to do something about it, but how would one address a supplement? i know men can be touchy about feeling like they NEED a stimulant. any suggestions?
  13. i've had these before and the breathing should help. also try keeping real hydrated along with the breathing. it worked for me. being stressed out wont help much either.
  14. i have enjoyed porn before this. it was artistic and i suppose what some might label 'feminist porn' it did not shoot sectioned parts of the female body it was the whole person and she was beautiful not 'sluty'. it won some type of porn award. also the men were just as beautiful as the women. they acted natural. natural is a big thing for me because i grew up as an actress and anything that isn't subtle is cheesy or overdone to me. the one thing i hated most about the stuff i found on the computer was that it was all cheep and the men were either ugly and old or overly tan and buff. the women were ugly in their faces but greased up and airbrushed. it's fine for some people but i don't like it. if i could get a hold of some artsy or feminist porn i think it would help me get past this mental block. in my heart i know that he knows all about how fake and poorly made it is and that it was a quick fix. but would it be much to ask if we could look at these things together first before i am comfortable with him looking at it by himself? right now i feel like he wants the cheesy stereotypical stuff for himself. and for some reason it bothers me... like thats what he really fantasizes about. that would be ok if he told me that he had a thing for that. but he is the type of person who not only makes fun of porn but he is a film major and is REALLY picky about the production value and convincing acting and plot in regular film. why not porn too? if this is really something he likes then why does he not want me to imitate it? is it really something he was just settling for because it was convenient? thats what he says. most importantly i don't want him to feel like this makes him bad or even that what he is doing is bad. it's mostly my struggle with how i feel about it. anyways i really think it would be good for me to find some of the porn i like. i want to be able to appreciate it again. anyone know where to start?
  15. i needed to hear this. thanks to everyone for your input. i really hope this all works itself out.
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