I'm looking for a good quality bondage kit. I've looked at several on this site... I need suggestions. Our bed is a king size and there are no bedposts. We have a solid wood head and footboard so any tying would be to the frame underneath. Would the tethers in most kits be adequate for that? Also, I would love a kit with four restraints, tethers and a mask, and maybe a whip or some other type of accessory. I want something that will hold up, not something that's not going to last. Several of the kits look nice but look more for entertainment than actual bondage... maybe I'm wrong... I've never purchased anything like this before so I'm looking for suggestions and experienced user feedback. Thank You!!