well, let me tell u, that ive been actually masturbating since i was young, very young. i was probably like 6 years old when i discovered masturbation. i was a very early girl. i remember thinking that masturbation was a sin, i was so terrified after the act. but now that i am a grown, i dont think that way no more. we live in a society where we have to be so careful with who we go to bed with, because of all the std's that are all over the world, and they have no face. i have to admit that i masturbate a lot. i have no partner at the moment, so its my only choice, and to be honest, sometimes its more enjoyable that an encounter with a male, cause i know what to do and what i like. i can have 3, 4 orgasms by masturbating, specially if im watching some porno while im doing it. i dont think its so bad, after all, its for our own pleasure. i never liked the finger sticking that much though, i just rub my clitoris area repedeatly until i reach the climax. you can actually complement it by using jells, dildos or anything that can help you get excited quickly. try it out, its the best!!!!