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  1. I have been gone for quite a while but have found my way back to my naughty home. Due to medical conditions, moving and life I got lost for a bit. I am back and better than ever.
  2. Thanks. My dad has started Chemo this week. He had a scare and they thought at one point he was having a heart attack but thankfully the chest pains subsided and he got to go home. My daughter is doing a lot better thanks to the support of some great family and friends. I am taking time for myself as well finally.
  3. They used to be very active a few years ago but has slowed down since then. I have tried hanging out there and it has been hit or miss. Life I know for me has been a roller coaster ride in the last year or so.
  4. I am sorry but he should treasure you and love you for the person you are on the inside. If it was me no matter how much I cared about him he would not be worth my time. First time I say something it should stop. If it doesn't enough is enough. This is verbal and mental abuse and should not be tolerated.
  5. Very beautiful. They are very nice and I would definitely enjoy playing with them. He needs to learn to appreciate you and your wonderful tits.
  6. It is a tough situation. My ex husband was that way. When we did finally have sex maybe once a month it was very short and not sweet. It was definitely a quickie every time. This along with some other things made me to finally end the marriage. After leaving the marriage I learned so much about myself and how I deserved to be pleased as much as my partner needs to be pleased. I was always doing everything for my ex and he would not for me. I am so thankful for the partner I found at the end of my marriage. It was an eye opener. I now embrace my sexuality.
  7. Welcome to our horny dysfunctional gang.
  8. Welcome and enjoy all that the site has to offer.
  9. Sorry that I have been MIA for a bit. I have been dealing with a lot of stress. My father has been diagnosed with Lymphoplasmacytic Lymphoma. He starts chemo next week and has his port put in this week. He was given a prognosis of 1-3 years. It has hit me really hard. I hit my dark area but starting to come back out of it. Plus my daughter was going through a lot at the hands of my ex husband. She is 12 next month he has mentally and verbally abused her over the last few months. I plan to be around much more now and checking in on how everyone is doing. I am also a holiday junkie so I am getting ready for the holiday season as well. Hope that everyone is doing well.
  10. http://www.tootimid.com/triple-point-enhance-system.html# So I received this and wasn’t thrilled by its looks but I have learned to not always judge a book by its covers. This is a clear jelly toy that can be around all types of lubes so no worries there. It comes with 4 batteries but only needs 2 for life so you get a spare set which is awesome. You just pull the plastic tab to bring it to life. It is a triple point which sounds very interesting. I am all about plenty of stimulation. It has the top for the clit with some nubs that will rub the clit just right as well as the bottom which will tease you anally. Then don’t forget about the ring to get him nice and turned on. On the back of the top part for the clit is a little switch to turn the toy on and off. I turned it on and it didn’t really feel very strong. As a gal that likes strong vibes I wasn’t very thrilled. So we started playing and positioned the system on him. It is very stretchy which is great for all diameters. We decided time to try this bad boy out. He turned it on and off we went. I was not thrilled at all. Non of the points lined up right in order to please me while using it together. He enjoyed it some but to me I would not use it again. Everyone is different so you never know but if you like a strong vibration this isn’t for you. I love variations of toys but this one was not for me. I will say the vibration was very quiet so that is a good thing.
  11. http://www.tootimid.com/the-gushing-rabbit-ejaculating-vibe-7018.html# When I received this I was VERY intrigued. A toy that can hit all of my sweet spots and can ejaculate. I was thinking sign me up. I took it out of its packaging and gave it a nice warm bath in water and antibacterial soap. Once it was dry I opened up its battery compartment and inserted the 4AA batteries needed to bring it to life. This toy is made of jelly and compatible with all lubes. It measures almost 4 inches in insertable length and 1.4 inches in diameter. There are lots of bumps and teasers throughout the shaft. It is also a dual action toy which is a favorite of mine. Lets you mix and match for what you are feeling at that moment. Sometimes I like the shaft moving about but sometimes I just want my clit teases while stroking away. I realized I have teased myself enough looking over this pink beauty. It is also interesting how when you turn the shaft on it lights up. It has a small removable bulb that you can fill up with water for the ejaculation effect. I filled that and placed it back on. Now it is time to go for the test drive. I put a little lube on the shaft and slowly inserted it. At first I was playing with no vibrations. I was now ready to get the party started. I pressed the on switch and then went first just for the clit stim. There are 7 various clit stimulation patterns. I slowly cycled through them and it felt so good. I will say this part is definitely for those that like a strong vibe on your clit. It is not for the weak...lol. I was already almost jumping off the bed as I was so sensitive. I slowly backed off and started playing with the shaft controls. There are 6 varying rotations and then made me giggle when the shaft lit up. I thought I would try the ejaculation function. I was teasing my pussy considerable and it took not time at all before my orgasms were flooding through. Unfortunately I was not thrilled with the ejaculation function. First off the bulb comes off too easy plus I need a couple of extra hands in order to work it well. With a partner I think this would work much betters as they would have both hands free and can see the area as well. Either way I still love the shaft rotation and the clit stim. I rate this toy a 10 out of 10. I will warn you of this it is a very noisy. So if you have roommates or children that you are trying to use this in a house with but trying to do it on the sly. Think again with this toy.
  12. As far as lube climax bursts anal lube. It lasts a long time and has vitamin beads inside for helping nourish the areas as well. We have been using it about 4 years.
  13. http://www.tootimid.com/lucid-dreams-hearts-squirmy-75-6988.html# I was so excited when this toy showed up. I am a sucker for dual action vibes....especially when they are separately controlled. I have a go to toy that is similar to this one but is not waterproof. My first thought was oh could this possibly be my waterproof version of the toy I love so much. In looking at the package I see that I will need 3AAA batteries so thankfully I have a good stock of batteries so that will not be a problem. You unscrew the lid to the battery compartment and slide out the battery holder in which you will put the batteries in and then slide it back into the toy. Once this is done please make sure that you screw the cap on tightly so that no water will be able to get in. It measures 5 inches of insertable length and 1.25 inches in diameter. It is a pretty pink color and the shaft where the head would be is shaped like three hearts. This is definitely a pretty toy. This bad boy is made of jelly and rubber which is great as then it is compatible with all lubes. Once the batteries were in I decided to turn it on to see what it would do. You have the center button the helps the shaft rotate in both directions. You can have it go to the right or the left. Just a heads up obviously this button will not function until you turn the vibration of the shaft on. The arrows on the right of the control control the strength of the clit stim which I would say go more like medium, high and extremely high. The button on the left controls the vibration of the shaft. This goes from low, to medium to not quite high. I also like that it is printed right on the toy that it is waterproof. I have learned to mark mine with a sharpie with a W so that we can remember which are waterproof. Time for the test drive. I place a little bit of lube on the tip and insert the toy. It felt very nice as I slowly dived it into my eager pussy. I was slowly pumping it in and out. While doing this I was increasing the strength of the clit stimulation. I worked it up to extremely high and it felt so good. I felt my orgasm building so strongly. Now I decided time to add the shaft into this. I start off slow and occasionally changing the direction of the rotation. I enjoyed all the feelings that it gave me. Before long the first wave washed over me but I kept going for more. I knew that I was not done as of yet. I kept alternating speeds of the vibrations of the shaft and clit stim. Then I could feel myself getting ready again. There went wave number two. I highly recommend this toy to beginners and advanced. I think this is very close to my go to toy. This will be my go to waterproof toy. See what your hearts desire and enjoy all that this toy has to offer.
  14. http://www.tootimid.com/vibrating-flirtation-anal-beads-stick.html# So when I received this I have to be honest by the looks of it I wasn’t excited about it. It didn’t look like something I would enjoy but I will also give any toy the benefit of the doubt. I took the toy out of its packaging. One bonus it comes with its own batteries. You just need to unscrew the cap to take out the tab that is breaking the connection so that the batteries do not prematurely die. That definitely would not be the way to start this relationship. After removing the tab I put the cap back on but made sure it was tight as this toy is waterproof and you want to be extra diligent in making sure the water will not get into the battery compartment. After the toy is ready I decided to play with it a little before the actual play time. I see that the stick portion is very flexible which could be interesting. It measures 6.75 inches of insertable length and .5 inches at its thickest point in diameter. I played with the push button control on the end to see about the different variations of vibrations. It goes from low to medium to high. Also has varying pulsations as well. I am sure there is something for everyone. Now on to play time. In looking at it I wasn’t quite sure of its right purpose but thought well I will try different things and see what works the best for me. I turned it on low and was running the beads along my clit which I won’t lie felt nice. It wasn’t anything to write home about but it was enjoyable. I ran it around the opening of my pussy and it felt interesting but nothing that was gonna start an orgasm. It was then inserted but wasn’t feeling all that good as it didn’t have girth to it to help fill me. Then I tried to use it on my gspot as I can normally orgasm pretty quickly from my gspot and unfortunately it was not firm enough for that. So after those were kind of a bust I decided to see how it would feel anally as I do enjoy that. I had it on low at first and inserted it. This felt nice as I moved it in and out. Feeling the beginning and ending of each bead felt very good. as I was feeling the orgasm building I turned up the vibe to high. That had me really enjoying the toy and realizing it can be very useful. I kept varying the depths that I was taking the toy. It was a very nice feeling and in not much time I was enjoying a very nice orgasm. To this I say don’t be too quick to judge. If I would have casted judgment right away I would not have enjoyed this nice orgasm. I would recommend this to any one that enjoys anal play. I will leave it up to you to decide it you will like it for any other type of play as everyone is different.
  15. http://www.tootimid.com/platinum-original.html# When I received this magnificent looking toy I had my doubts. I am one that likes a strong vibe but this has no vibe at all. One good plus you don’t have to worry about the toy being too loud but oh wait you still have to make sure that you are not from all of the pleasure you will be having. Well I took it out of the package and washed it up with anti bacterial soap and warm water. A plus of it not needing batteries there is no chance of early toy death due to the water. This toy is made of silicone and is hypo allergenic. Due to the silicone it can retain heat to help it feel even more real. It looks very realistic with a perfectly shaped head as well as veins running along it. It measures 7.75 inches of insertable length with a diameter of 1.5 inches. Please remember that you cannot use silicone lube with this toy. I decided that it was time to get myself warmed up so I could try this beautiful looking specimen a try. I started out warming myself up with one of my bullet vibes on my clit. Once I started feeling the excitement I put some water based lube onto this nice toy and slowly started inserting it. It very nice as well as very lifelike. I then was moving it in and out and could feel the orgasm building. The toy filled me very well. I originally felt that I needed a vibration for a toy to be satisfying. I now stand corrected. I enjoyed a nice lengthy play time. Teasing myself with varying speeds and depths. This toy is very enjoyable and I would highly recommend it. I would say just remember the size when ordering. It was at about my limit on diameter. Just think of the versatility with this toy. Can be used anywhere and never have to worry about batteries dying.
  16. Welcome to the site and enjoy.
  17. Welcome to the forum and enjoy all that it has to offer.
  18. http://www.tootimid.com/wonderland-cock-ring-the-kinky-kitty-silicone-waterproof-5727.html# I was skeptical when I received this. We aren't fans of cock rings but figured we would give it a try. I thought the box was very cute. I opened it up and saw the bullet and ring packaged separately. I took the bullet out and went to turn it on. I then realized there was probably a tab breaking the battery connection to keep from wasting the batteries. I unscrewed the bullet and took out the small piece of paper blocking the connection and then screwed the cap back on. Before putting the bullet into the cock ring I turned it on by the push button to see the 10 different settings. There are various strengths and pulses. There is something for everyone from low to high. It is nice because this can be used alone or within the cock ring. The bullet is a great way for both partners to feel the vibrations. Just a reminder the cock ring is made of silicone so at any time you decide to use a lube around the time of using this ring please do not use a silicone based one as it will ruin the cock ring. So I asked my partner to help me try the toy out with me and he was more than willing to oblige. After some nice teasing I placed the ring around his shaft. He said the tight sensation felt great and helped his arousal. He kept experimenting with the various bullet settings and was loving feeling them all along his shaft. We decided it was time for me to see how I would enjoy him wearing the cock ring. We started out nice and slow and as he was entering me I could feel the vibrations on my clit as he was entering me. It felt very good. I have to say using the cock ring added a whole new level of fun that we were not aware of and can't wait to try again. This helped him last even longer and as we both started to orgasm we noticed that both of our orgasms were much stronger as well as longer. You never know if you are going to like something until you try it. I am looking forward to the future and using it once again. I would say this toy is for beginners or advanced toy users. Give it a try and you won't be disappointed.
  19. http://www.tootimid.com/climax-gems-margarita-bubbly.html# This appears to be a petite sized toy with regards to the length. I am hoping that looks can be deceiving as to how it feels. Looking at this toy it looks perfect for a beginner. I unscrewed the battery cap and inserted the 1 AA battery needed for life. I love the color of it as it is very unique. I can say with all of the toys I own this is the first one in this color. It is covered in nubs. The toy had a slight new toy smell at first but after a good washing with some antibacterial soap and warm water the smell has left. I thought is was time to take it for a test drive. I turned it on and started rubbing it along my clit which felt very nice. I ran the side of the shaft along my clit as well. The nubs were great for teasing myself. I figure I have teased long enough and it was time to go for the gusto. I put some water based lube on the toy and slowly slipped him inside. It felt nice due to the nubs but the length wasn't enough for me to get the proper workup. I feel that due to this it would be great for a beginner or someone that doesn't like too long of a shaft. This toy is whisper quiet and perfect for a beginner. Added bonus is it being waterproof.
  20. http://www.tootimid.com/climax-lavender-gem.html# I guess I am a little partial as this is my favorite color. It intrigued me when I received it. The nubs all over it looked very interesting. The toy measures 6 inches long and has a diameter of 1.25 inches. He is waterproof which is a definite plus. When I took it out of the packaging I realized the shaft is very flexible and there was no new toy smell. I unscrewed the cap and saw that it takes just 1 AA battery. I inserted the battery and made sure to screw the cap back on tightly just in case I decided to play in the water that way nothing would happen to hurt my new friend. I turned on the vibe via the turn dial at the bottom of the toy. I would say it goes from low to medium and is very quiet which I love. With being a single mom you need something quiet just in case the kids are in a nearby room. I ran my hand along the shaft and was loving the feel of the nubs on the shaft. I couldn't wait to see how those nubs would feel inside of me. I took a little water based lube and got him ready for play time. I turned him on low and started teasing myself. I was slowly moving him in and out. With each thrust I was letting him slip in just a little bit further. The nubs were just right. I was finding them very enjoyable. I was really enjoying the feel of this toy. I could feel my orgasm building but knew that this would not be the toy to take me over the edge. It was a nice toy for building up with. I would say this is a perfect toy for a beginner. For the advanced user they might not be thrilled with this toy. I of course still love its color.
  21. http://www.tootimid.com/black-opal-vibe-6785.html# When I received this I was unsure what to think due to its small size but I have learned not to judge a book by its cover. I took it out of the package and was delighted to see how bendable the shaft was. I washed it up in warm water and antibacterial soap. The great thing is that this toy is waterproof. Makes for many options. After washing it up I decided to put the batteries in. I thought this would be a breeze. You unscrew the cap and can see that it takes just 2 AAA batteries. Unfortunately there is nothing to tell you which way they needed to go. I tried several combinations and finally found the right one. I screwed on the cap and made sure it was tight as we don't want to take any chances of water getting inside the toy. If water gets in the fun will be over. The toy has a turn dial to adjust the vibration. Unfortunately though it adjusts the vibe but does not turn off. I had to unscrew the cap and remove the batteries in order to turn the toy off. I did notice that the vibe was quiet and felt to be strong. I am a gal that likes a strong vibe. Now thought it was time to test this bad boy out and see how it works as I love teasing my gspot. I started first by using it on my clit to get myself warmed up some. As I started feeling myself getting turned on I then inserted it some to tease a little before going for the mighty gspot. Unfortunately I would have liked for the shaft to be a little more rigid for this. It didn't provide for the stiffness I needed to tease my gspot properly. I will say though there are other uses for this toy besides just the gspot. I enjoyed teasing my clit with it. I also used it to tease myself anally as well. Remember no matter what toy you have many of them can be used in a variety of combinations. I would recommend this toy for a beginner or advanced user. Also the nice thing this toy is quiet just in case there are children or a roommate in the house.
  22. http://www.tootimid.com/classix-beginners-jelly-pearl-dolphin-waterproof-vibrator-6216.html# I love dual action toys so this is one of my best friends. This is a waterproof jelly toy. Waterproof is a great thing since you can take it in the tub or shower as well as anywhere else in the house. I washed up the toy and then unscrewed the cap at the bottom of the toy and take out the battery tray that is inside. Once you remove it insert the 4AAA batteries that it needs. Then make sure that you put the cap back on tight so that no water can get inside. It measure 1.5 inches in diameter and has about 5.7 inches of insertable length. With this being a jelly toy you can use any lube with it that you like. I used a water based lube. I enjoy a dual toy so that you can have many variations between your clit and pussy. I love a strong vibe on my pussy and a slow movement inside my pussy so this had that and it was perfect. After I lubed the toy up I slowly inserted it. Before I turned the toy on I enjoyed slowly moving it in and out of my pussy slowly. Then I turned on the toy and slowly worked up the strength of the clit vibration. It goes from low to high which is great for everyone. The rotation of the shaft goes from slow to about medium which I think is perfect. Definitely in no time I felt my orgasm building from the toy. I love feeling the beads inside turning inside of my pussy so that there was not a spot that was not touched or shall I say turned on. Before long I was into a wonderful orgasm. I really enjoyed this toy and thing that others will as well. I highly recommend this toy for advanced and beginner users. Go ahead let the dolphin dive into the water.
  23. http://www.tootimid.com/ripple-silicone-anal-plug-5-inch-black.html# I am interested and enjoy anal play so this grabbed my interest. I loved the varying bulbs of size. Obviously this toy is waterproof since no batteries are required. I took it out of the package and there was a slight new toy smell but it wasn't very strong. I washed up the toy in warm water and antibacterial soap. In looking at this toy it looked very appealing. I generally am the type that I need a lot of warmup before anal play. So I started playing for a while and after I felt that I was very warmed up I felt it was time to go for it. I used a water based lube on the toy and slowly inserted it. I enjoyed feeling the four bulbs as I was inserting it. You start with the smallest and gradually increases. What is nice if you are a beginner you can use it to slowly increase in the size as you feel that you can enjoy it. A key to anal play is to never be in pain. If there is pain I would just back up a little and work up to it. It took me a while to get used to anal play. It was very nice as I was at first slowly moving it in and out. I started increasing the speed and depth. I felt my anal orgasm building slowly and then had the great release. I definitely will be using this toy again. A huge reminder with this toy it is 100% silicone so do not under any circumstances use silicone lube as it will ruin your toy. Also after done using the toy clean it very well and let it dry. This is a great toy for beginner and advanced anal play enthusiasts.
  24. http://www.tootimid.com/her-time-desire-vibrator-silicone-waterproof-6171.html# This is one toy that had my interest. Then again any waterproof toy at least gets my interest since it can be used in more places and provide for more experiences. So I took the toy out and loved how soft it felt. It is made up of silicone. One downfall for me was figuring out where to put the batteries in at. At first I thought maybe the toy separated where the silver ring is in the center. That is not the case. At the bottom of the toy is a battery door, Just push the tab on the compartment and it will open right up. It takes 2 AAA batteries There is a push button on off switch in the center of the toy. Right above that is the button to change the different vibrations. There are different strengths and patters. There is a total of 7 different settings. I turned the toy on and was just feeling the vibrations on my inner wrist and arm. They felt very good. So my initial thought was that it would be great as a warm up toy. Also as an all over body massager as well after a stressful day. I took it and ran it around my nipples as they are very sensitive. It no time they were standing at attention and loving every minute of it. Then I took it lower. I spread apart my pussy lips and start using the massager on my clit. The vibrations combined with the nubs on it felt so good. I definitely could feel my arousal building slowly. I enjoyed this til I got to the point that I needed to get off. This toy I would highly recommend. It as I have said can have a lot of uses. I love that it can be used after a really stressful day on my neck and shoulders. Hell have your partner use it on you and who knows where that might lead.
  25. http://www.tootimid.com/slender-g-spot-vibrator.html# When I received this I was unsure how I felt about it. It looked rather thin but I am always willing to give everything one chance if not more than one. I am one that loves a gspot orgasm. So I took the toy out of that package and gave it a bath in water water and antibacterial soap. This is not a waterproof toy so try to be careful not to get any water in the battery compartment. Once it was dry I unscrewed the cap to insert the 2 AAA batteries needed to bring it to life. So I turned the knob at the bottom of the toy to see what the vibration was like. It goes I would say from low to medium. Although I am a strong vibe kind of girl but I still always will give a toy a try. So I decided it was time for a test drive. As I turned on the toy and started to warm myself up it did feel good. I started out rubbing it around my clit. It felt good but nothing that would put me over the edge. Then I inserted it and started using it on my gspot with the angle that I know hits and stimulates my gspot. I am the type that can have a gspot orgasm quickly but not this time. It felt good on my gspot but nothing to bring me to an orgasm. If you are someone that can enjoy a low to medium gspot vibe then this would be the toy for you. Unfortunately if you are someone that enjoys a strong vibe then I would suggest you pass on this particular toy.
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