Twist

Thanks guys I know it was ended at the best time and he did the right thing and I can't do anything if the right mix of chemistry wasn't there for him but I have a habit of blaming myself which just makes it a bit harder. I need to sort my brain out.

Well the guy I've been seeing for a few months, and increasngly falling for finsihed things on Friday. Apparently everything was there except him seeing a future or any deeper connection, and that's the part I thought there would be least problems. It was only a few months but it was my first relationship in a very long time and I hadn't felt that good about anything or myself possibly ever. I felt cared for and wanted, but apprently it wasn't as mutual. I appreciate him being honest with me, and I understand why he finished things he said it himself that it would be easy to just carry things on for the sex. But I want him, and I miss him.

Ahem! *points to location*

Glad it's all sorted out AIden.

'my lovely'

SPend some time being naked on your own in the house just so you get used to the feeling, Almost all women look at their bodies in a much more harsh way than men do. We'll see a lump here, and a bump there, and all they really see when they love you is you, your waist, your lovely bum, he's thinking about your soft lips, how it's going to feel when your hands are on him, remeber that while he's looking at you he's also "seeing" your kindess and the fact that you're sweet and caring and can make him laugh. When you're looking at yourself you're focusing on physical things only. All of us are beautiful packages, not just pretty paper. I've had similar problems with being naked too, for a while I went up to 16 stone and was a UK size 22 (not sure how that relates to US sizes), even though I had some guys like me I was so distubred and down about how big I was I couldn't even kiss them let alone have a successfuly relationship. I've lost weight, I'm not thin, but I feel so much better about myself, I mean SO MUCH. My main problem is my legs, they're quite big and just icky so I started off with my bf only wandering around when it was dark. After I had a shower in the morning I would get dressed doing my best to stay under the towel. Then a thought occurred to me, the man has been inside me, hell he's even said he doesn't care when I haven't had time to defuzz and allmany of other things I find horrendous. You guys obviously love each other an incredible amount, remember that your hubby is going to see the WHOLE, scrumptious person that you are.

I'm all sorted thanks Rob, did an uninstall and reinstall and that did the trick.

I'm "learning" to dirty talk at the moment too. What I've found helpful is replying to my partner, even if it's only a tame reply in comparison or an agreement to what he's saying, it gets me used to conversation and the sound of my voice while we have sex. Also I think there are some basics of dirty talking which aren't so daunting to say, such as telling him how good it feels, or tell him one thing you want him to do, or one thing you want to do to him.

Thanks pappy, I've already tried that so I@m uninstalling and reinstalling, if that doesn't work then I'll just have carry on wondering about the mysteries of the live chat room.

It says my browser is not java enabled and I know it is, it's the right version etc.

It won't let me in, I seem to have done everything it has told me to do, and still nothing.

I've been to see my tattoo artist and he drew it on my back for me, and it is gorgeous, but because I have to wait so long for an appointment doubts are creeping in on what I want. There are all sorts of things you can do to cover it up when absolutely necessary, if you fee you're at too formal a gathering there is body make up that you can use to cover it. Other than that enjoy it, it's you.

I'm not sure I'd ask him to shave it all off if he doesn't want to, I know the problems I have with removing hair down there, there is nothing that does not irritate my skin. But I'll be approaching him about trimming a bit more. It's not something that is stopping me giving him a blow job, I love doing it anyway, it's just putting me off using my mouth to stimulate his balls. Saying that I should try it first it may not be that bad, but I don't want to be put off for life by the texture (I'm like that with some food).

I know this thread was a while ago but it saves starting another. I too "think" I've had a g spot orgasm, well, I think I've had the release but no orgasm with it. There was the most glorious need to pee (had empty bladder) and I could feel that the g spot had become bigger/harder, and then there was fluid. It felt really good but only in the same way that having a wee after you've had to hold it for a while. Once my bf got me to the point of squirting but I stopped myself as I'm still concerned about the pee thing, especially as my experiments didn't seem to do anything. I can stimulate the g spot and within a minute it can be full of liquid and squirting but still no g spot O. As a child (TMI sorry) I had problems with my bladder, I have no feeling in it until I'm bursting, and unfortunately wet myself on occasion, I don't think that is having any effect on it overall (although it did creep into my mind with the bf). Perhaps I'm just not concentrating on having a good time.

I think I can honestly say I have never been in love, not truly. I've had moments when I thought my heart was breaking but that was more through dissapointment, failure and crushed hope (i think). Maybe my new bf will be different.