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  • Briefly Describe your last sexual encounter:
    So long ago I don't remember it...
  • My Favorite Toy
    I'm Still Trying to Find It
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    68134
  • # of sex toys you own?
    5
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  • What is your age & gender?
    29, Female

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  1. So, for the first time in my life, I had a g-spot orgasm last night with an incredible, sexy man. And I didn't have just one, I had FIVE! So, we get finished up, he gets in the shower to rinse off (turns out, I'm a squirter! Yay!) and I get up to change the soaking wet sheets. And I find three brown lumps on my sheets. I'm so embarassed to say this, but I think I might have pooped a little when I was orgasming. I don't know if he didn't notice or if this is normal, but thankfully he didn't say anything about it. Unfortunately, I'm mortified. Someone please tell me this is not totally out of the ordinary. Those 5 orgasms were so incredible, but I'm so nervous about the intensity of any future orgasms causing a repeat of the brown side effect. Incredibly embarassed to admit that I shit the bed, 123NotIt
  2. Thank you all so much for adding your thoughts. Sometimes it's hard to be rational when your heart is so involved, so I appreciate you all adding perspective. To answer your questions, he's 33 and I'm 30. And here's what makes this situation even harder and more confusing: he's absolutely perfect in every other way. He's kind, gentle, affectionate, funny, and the list goes on. I think the thing that bothers me the most is how he tells me that I'm so different from other women he's dated because I'm sweet (and probably a little naive, though he's never said that part). Sometimes I think sweet must be interchangeable with "doormat". I'm not all that sexually experienced, but I'm willing to try a lot of things. I guess it hurts me so much because it feels like he likes porn stars because they're so completely different than me. And if that's the case, why does he like me? The truth is, I don't care if he thinks porn, porn stars, strippers, celebrities, whoever is hot. But I just wish he didn't feel the need to tell me that. I'm not sure he grasps the whole concept of "just because you think it doesn't mean you have to say it", LOL. As much as I don't want to do it, if he and I can't get this resolved soon, I probably am going to head for the door. As much as I like him, and as perfect as he is in every other way, I can't be with someone who makes me feel so badly about myself. I just deserve more, ya know?
  3. I'm in a new-ish relationship, and while I consider myself to be pretty level-headed when it comes to most things in a relationship, I have to admit that I'm a little bit bothered by some of the comments my BF makes. He loves porn. And I understand that--most guys do. Why, then, does it make me so jealous? It makes me feel unwanted, uncared for, and unattractive to him. When we watch TV, he talks about this woman or that woman being hot, and it just makes me feel rotten. I would never do that to him, and when I've mentioned that it bothers me, he says "Well, you should want to have sex with her too." Or if I say "How would you like it if I pointed out every guy that I think is hot?" His response is "Well, I'm not going to have sex with another man, and neither should you." Why is it so hard for me to understand that he finds other women attractive? And why does he feel the need to blurt out every thought that comes into his head? Tonight, he said "Well, if you want to get out, do it now, because I'm not going to change." Maybe that's what I should have done, because it sure doesn't seem like he's too committed to this relationship. Am I wasting my time? Should I be more OK with him pointing out every attractive woman that he sees? I guess I'm just asking for your take on this because maybe I'm just being too emotional and not sensible about it. Thoughts? Jess
  4. Hi, I wasn't sure where to post this, but this seemed like the right place. And everyone here is so nice, I knew nobody would yell at me if I did post in the wrong place. When it comes to lingerie, I'm pretty low-maintenance. I wear a bra, and that's pretty much all. I'd like to surprise my special someone with a really hot lingerie look some night, but to be totally honest, corsets and camis and babydolls all kind of confuse me. I mean, do you wear them with clothes? I guess what I'm looking for is suggestions for something incredibly sexy that I can wear under my clothes and surprise him with when he takes my clothes off of me. I'd sure appreciate any help you can offer, Jess
  5. I cried a little bit, too! Very nicely written!
  6. Thank you all for your responses. I'm going to spend some time searching the site in hopes of finding exactly what I want. I think I may have found a winner in this toy, but I'll do some more searching.
  7. You're right--there should be a sex toy heaven, and maybe even a cemetary where we can go visit them. The Pearl Diver (nicknamed Petey) and I spent countless hours together, and made some great memories. I'll sure miss Petey. Sniff, sniff. Jess
  8. Hello, I introduced myself awhile ago and have enjoyed (and learned a lot from!) reading the conversations here. Everyone is so friendly and helpful, so I'm not even nervous about posting my question. My much-loved Stormy's Pearl Diver (dual action vibe) finally 100% died yesterday, and now I need a replacement. I bought this to replace it because I thought the thrusting action would be awesome, and it sounded wonderful. When I got it, though, I found that this toy has a little too much girth, and even with plenty of lube, the "ribs" where it thrusts are pinching me. Ouch! The vibe part isn't strong enough to take me over the edge, and I had a hard time with the controls on the base (they're little wheels that you turn for stronger or weaker action and I accidentally made it stronger, then not strong, and I just had a heck of a time with it). So, I wonder if maybe someone could make a recommendation of something that would work better? Here's what I really liked about the Pearl Diver that died, and what I'd like to find in my next one: It was fairly small, probably 1", curved, but still filling. The vibe was nice and strong. And it had speed controls on a corded remote. I'm open to trying something with thrusting action, but it's not mandatory. Can anyone recommend something for me? Sorry for such a lengthy post (but I want to get it right this time!) and thanks so much in advance for any help you can offer! Jessie
  9. Hi there. I'm new here. I'm a chronic lurker on other boards that I belong to, so coming out of lurkdom to say hello is terrifying! I found tootimid.com last weekend after growing tired of holding in the batteries of my much-loved Pearl Diver and deciding it was time for a new toy. I'm amazed at the great customer service, the free stuff, and I'm thrilled with all of the information on here! It's absolutely awesome, and even though I'm nearly 30, a lot of the info is brand-new to me. (I got a late start on my sexuality.) I'm looking forward to continuing to learn more, and to getting to know some of you. Cheers, Jess
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