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Thanks for the article, very informative. My wife of 20 years has always enjoyed a good climax with our electric vibrator on HI speed, while I lick and suck on her nipples. Now that she is well into her 70's we've found that her natural lubrication, as well as mine, has diminished somewhat. So, after she is "down off her mountain", she strokes my penis with a good amount of Astroglide and then I will enter her from behind. She loves it that way. And will sometimes have a vaginal orgasm although not as strong as with the vibrator. As far as she is concerned, she will never get too old for sex.

If you're serious about cleansing/colon health, check out www.optimalhealthnetwork.com. Extremely informative, lots of good links. mmcretusn

This past week I had my wife give me an enema before I used my aneros. I never had a problem using the disposable fleet style ones before, but this time the wife just couldn't get the angle of insertion right, and it was on the painful side. I told her to stop, not worry, I changed position, I had been on all fours, butt in air, but changed to laying on left side, right knee pulled up and was able to insert nozzle my self with not too much problem. Later that day, I saw one of her douche bottles/nozzle in the bathroom trash and got curious. Looked like it would work as an enema nozzle. I got one of my fleet's out of the closet, emptied it and filled it with warm water. (Don't like to use the store bought enema, but water instead.) since it is not prelubricated I lubed it liberally with KY, and a little on my anus also. the round bulb on the nozzle slid in as nice as can be, the water felt soo good, I almost climaxed.,, I am sure that next week when the wife gives me my enema, (with the douche nozzle) it will slip in no problem like a little kid sucking a lollipop. I don't know if I'll be able to wait for next week, even the nozzle by itself feels so good, almost like a mini aneros. I regularly use a helix and a progasm for prostate massage. Wife likes the idea but doesn't want to participate, tho. We have a friend who has had severe prostate problems for many years, and as a result hasn't had sex for about 6 years. Wife doesn't want me to get like that, hope I don't, all my prostate exams are good, low PSA, and colonoscopy a couple years ago good. Wife is a colon cancer surviver and thinks that an enema a week could go a long way to prevent any colon problems. don't think a water rinse will hurt, as long as I stay away from harsh chemicals. But one thing for sure, I'll be buying my enema supplies in the ladies douch aisle. Don't knock it, if you've never had an enema with a douch nozzle, try it. I think you will be pleasantly surprised at how good it feels, how easy it goes in, etc. I'm hooked!! Oh yeah, the nozzle is a little longer that a standard enema nozzle, but didn't seem to be a problem, I inserted it all the way and had no trouble. I'm kind of a big guy (down there too, I guess) as one 4 1/2 oz bottle didn't do anything for me, 2 felt pretty good, and 3 filled me up good. what I will probably do for my weeklys is have my wife/nurse give me 2, I'll hold them for about 7-10 minutes, expel, then have her give me 2 more. I think the "double flush" is good to make sure that water comes out clear. Besides, it feels soooo good. TRY IT, YOU'LL LIKE IT!!!!

I was one of the lucky ones to spot it, order & received it in the mail couple days ago. couldn't wait to try it. Ran home lubed up well and went to town. I was a little taken aback by the very small sized hole at the entrance, but boy did it feel good sliding it down. After a few strokes it popped out the other end, applied a little more lube to the head and kept on stroking. Oh boy what a feeling. So nice and tight but a perfect fit. Will never take the place of the real thing, but a good way to give the mrs. a break. Love it!!

Thanks, think we'll try it that way first. Also, I'm thinking it may aid in prolonging erection (if worn) as it seems it might be a little snug. Will try both ways and see what happens, thanks.

In my last order I received the free orgasm kit consisting of the special lube, bullet vibrator, and the spiked collar. I know the collar is worn on the penis, but where? Should it be right behind the head so it is inserted, or further back on the shaft to stimulate the clit, or would either way work. any danger of it slipping off? Thanks for your help.

My wife's 15 years older than me, wasn't so bad 20 years ago when we got married, but now age/health problems is creeping in. She has now had both knees replaced, and I've had both hips replaced, so some positions are no longer possible. All in all, sex with mid 70's wife is SUPER!

Just had to share this with everyone! Used my Aneros Helex last night, but before inserting it I injected 5ml of Astroglide into my rectum. And then of course lubed the Aneros liberally. I didn't have any earth shattering climax, but I had some very Very good feelings. I know I am on my way to having an anal climax. I picked up the pre-lube hint from the Aneros web site. I highly recommend it. Think it would work for other types of anal toys too. I think I am hooked on anal and will be shopping for other back door toys. I never knew keeping my prostate healthy could feel so good! mmcretusn

Looks like I may have jumped the gun a little quick. After having several sessions with my aneros, I still don't have the fireworks and shooting stars orgasms I read about in a lot of the testimonials, however, I am feeling more and more sensation with each use. According to the Aneros.com web site, full enjoyment and Super O could take months of practice or even longer. I hope not, but I'm not giving up. It will be well worth it when I get there. I do know how good it felt when my Dr. did a DRE on me a while ago. I wanted to tell her she had to cut her hand off at the wrist, I wasn't going to let her have her finger back! (LOL). Maybe I can get the wife to play "doctor" with me. Last weekend we were playing with some of our new "toys" and engaging in some heavy masturbation and she achieved a G spot climax with ejaculation! What a surprise for both of us, as it never happened before. Kind of glad it did, because I think she will be more willing to help me in my goal to reach a Super O. mmcretusn

Thanks for your reply, I definitely will be spending more time with it. No I did not have it in backwards, will definitely reread instructions although I don't think I missed anything. Wish me luck.

Recently, I purchased an Aneros Helix male G spot stimulator, followed instructions closely, but am not sure if it is working. I have fairly good control over my muscle contractions, so I am pretty sure I had sufficient movement of the aneros. After it was inserted, tho, I couldn't be sure it was making contact with my prostate. If had digital exams at the doctor's office before, so I know what it feels like to have it touched, but I wasn't feeling anything like that with my aneros. I was laying down, alone, in a quiet room and was able to focus on the feelings and sensations it was giving me, which were good, but seems like it may be it's falling short of the mark. I know there are different size aneros's, I thought probably the mid size would work OK. Any suggestions before I order a larger one. Awful expensive for trial and error, but I want to make sure I'm not doing anything wrong befoe I try another one. mmcretusn

Thanks for the reassurance. I am devouring almost all of Mikayla's articles. My wife is very naieve (sp?) Has never spread her lips to get a good look at her vagina, etc. I found a super good web site with flash video about erotic massage that has some excellent video from a sex educator/orgasm coach especially designed for the inexperienced. So with the help of that web site, and this site/forum I/ll teach her how to masturbate and enjoy her body. Wish me luck. mmcretusn

Hi everyone, Hope I'm doing this right, have never participated in a forum before. My wife and I are just beginning to get back to enjoying sex after a 3 month break (she had major surgery and other health issues). Anyway, she asked my to cut her pubic hair. It's very straight, almost long enough to braid and gets caught up in the toilet paper when she "wipes". Of course I was glad to oblige, and when I was done I sponged her off to get rid of the hair and then began nibble and kiss her clit. She loved it! Oral was something we never really did during the past 20 yrs of marriage, she cant stomach to go down on me, and I thought she didn't like it when I did her (boy was I wrong). Anyway, she asked me if we had any other toys, as she need to have her pussy filled, but couldn't take the pain in her legs if I tried to enter her. Sadly I told her no toys yet, but I would order some. I did, they arrived, and will be using them very soon I hope. The only thing we had been using was an old electric vibrator with a flat rubber head that she would use on her vulva and clit to bring her to orgasm. Bought a Synergy system and expect she will absolutely love it. Hope I didn't ramble too much, if I did I'm sorry.