DrumGuy

Hey all, Just curious with all you adventurous sexual types here, how often do you who do/have engaged in threesomes, actual have threesomes? Are they fairly often? Are they scheduled? Do you just have it once and that's it? How does it 'work'? (Sorry if that takes the fun out of it, but this inquiring mind needs to know! ) And if you have them frequently, if you are a couple inviting someone else in, does one member of the couple feel bisexual and so this meets their sexual drive while still allowing them to be in relationship with the one they love? How's that for an odd question! I look forward to the responses... DG

Yeah! I just read your post in 'Threesomes...' about your first one...nice! Maybe I should post this there also... Hmmm

Hi all, So I want a threesome. My wife understands my side and knows why it would be appealing to me. However, she feels insecure a little (a lot) about the idea of another woman around me sexually in any capacity. I totally understand. She is bisexual, and knows she likes women. (She is so funny; we talk about boobs and it's awesome!) I have a weird watching fantasy I guess; I wouldn't mind my wife and someone else engaging in some women-women activities, I would really just like her to incorporate me into why she is doing it; if that makes sense. I could just watch, but I just want to be wanted there even if I don't 'get' anything. I'm not at all pushy for a threesome, why would I want to damage my wife for a sexual encounter? My question though stems from my desire to try to help us both fulfill our desires/fantasies without the other being wounded. I'm not totally sold on on her getting a 'fling' every once in a while if anyone is thinking that I just want to be included without being controlling. Make sense? Hit me with your thoughts! DG

Hey all, Just curious with all you adventurous sexual types here, how often do you who do/have engaged in threesomes, actual have threesomes? Are they fairly often? Are they scheduled? Do you just have it once and that's it? How does it 'work'? (Sorry if that takes the fun out of it, but this inquiring mind needs to know! ) And if you have them frequently, if you are a couple inviting someone else in, does one member of the couple feel bisexual and so this meets their sexual drive while still allowing them to be in relationship with the one they love? How's that for an odd question! I look forward to the responses... DG