Kama

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  1. I've always been a woman that enjoys giving oral sex. I can get very aroused by it. In fact, I prefer giving oral sex over regular intercourse. I don't find intercourse as pleasurable as performing oral on a man that I'm really attracted to. I'm the type of woman that needs a lot of foreplay for intercourse to be pleasurable, otherwise it will hurt. Mind others, the doctors have said that there's nothing wrong with me physically. With oral sex, I'm all revved up and ready to go at the thought of it. I don't need to spend 20 minutes doing foreplay or taking deep breaths to relax. No wonder I feel that oral sex is easier. The other day, I overheard a group of men saying that women only do it to please men and that they don't get pleasure from it. Really? These men ranged from their late 20's to early 40's. Are there any other women that feel the same way as me? Or is it rare that a woman truly enjoys giving blowjobs?
  2. Hehe you brought back memories of the 23 year old I dated. He loved getting blowjobs, and said he didn't mind that I got off on giving pleasure. I am with you on loving young cock.
  3. Hehe you brought back memories of the 23 year old I dated. He loved getting blowjobs, and said he didn't mind that I got off on giving pleasure. I am with you on loving young cock.
  4. I need intelligence for good casual sex too. I had to turn down this pretty bisexual girl, because she said things that didn't sounded very irrational. That kills my sexual attraction.
  5. Anybody else like this? I have realized that dating an intelligent man causes instant wetness, whereas I have struggled to get aroused by people that I didn't find that impressive. The intelligent men I have dated seem to understand me a lot more, especially my sexual preferences. The guys who didn't get me didn't fit my definition of smart. Sorry if this is offensive, but intelligence is hot!
  6. That sounds so hot. I can't wait to see the person I am dating.
  7. Revised Topic: Dating Websites

    I met someone I am dating on plenty of fish, and it's been awhile. I would have never guessed that I would meet someone there, but he's really nice. I hear that match.com and Okcupid are the more popular ones.
  8. Oral Sex Positions!

    Hmm on my knees while he's standing up me laying on the bed while he inserts himself in me (face fucking) him lying down where i can show him my butt while I give him head!
  9. I need to do a late night vent. I am lucky that I am around good people, who have the common sense to not do mean things or step on my boundaries. In the past, I found it confusing and humorous when people would say "stand up for yourself more. It's your fault that you allow people to treat you badly." When you do speak up , you're still criticized by the same person who told you to stand up for yourself. I think people, who shame you for standing up for yourself, want to push you back down. Or, they want to mess with your head. As I write this, I am surrounded by some lovely people and am grateful for what I have now.
  10. I tend to prefer male friends too. Here I was wondering if I was odd for thinking that my male friends get me more! i don't think it has to do with sexual orientation. It's more about your personality and experiences. Some women don't get along with other women, because they have had bad experiences with female friendships.
  11. I have yet to get tired of it too.
  12. Swallowing His Cock - Literally

    I think so, when I am deep throating. I never thought of it as swallowing.
  13. I am going to let out a big revelation here. I have realized that I am straight after all, or heteroflexibile at most. It does feel empowering to say that! I think exploring with the same sex had to do with some stressful life stuff. Some people might say "how can you stop being bi?" I made a mistake and got more information/life experience. My 20's was a really tough time.
  14. Hi all, i was curious for opinions. A former therapist told me, "just because you enjoy getting intimate with men doesn't mean you can't be gay. My client identifies as a lesbian, and she hooks up with guys." I disagree with this. I have a hard time believing that I am gay, if I feel attracted to men. I told this therapist that I have had sex with men and women. I told her that I like men more, which led her to make her comments. She also said, "you will know when you're gay or straight, depending on who you fall in love with." Um, I know what I am? I did go through a phase where I was exploring my sexual orientation in my 20's. I found out that I liked men more. What is your definition of a gay woman? Am I missing something here? I thought being a lesbian meant that you prefer to have sex and romantic relationships with women
  15. How Often Do You Really Think About Sex?

    Everyday. But, I don't always get wet when thinking about it. My body needs time to catch up.
  16. Sorry to all

    Omg, I feel bad for too for whining! That's what this forum is for though? Other people can support and give us good feedback.
  17. Very true! Sounds like you two have a fun time. I think I like the feeling of a finger or a vibrator on my clit, over a tongue. I have had good cunnilingus sessions, but I don't always need it.
  18. Very true! Sounds like you two have a fun time. I think I like the feeling of a finger or a vibrator on my clit, over a tongue. I have had good cunnilingus sessions, but I don't always need it.
  19. The definition of "sex" rant

    Thats what I have noticed with sex. It can be amazing with one person you're really connected with, but blah with someone who you're not too into. Maybe some people can easily have great sex with someone they don't like. That's not me, I guess.
  20. I am going to be brave here, and discuss a triggering topic. It's something that annoys me, and I am trying to work on it. I consider all types of sex to be sex. I don't buy into the idea of vaginal intercourse only being sex. Preferring other sexual acts more doesn't make you any less sexual. Other people are entitled to their viewpoints, and I need to learn how to let go when someone tells me that my favorite sexual act in the world doesn't "count". To me, it's real sex. Just my 2 cents.
  21. I am going to share an unpopular opinion, and I am probably in the minority. While i empathize with both men and women expecting reciprocal oral, it's not a requirement for me. I love giving and don't always need something back. But, I get how many others would feel frustrated!
  22. Some young guys are very sexy.
  23. Sex Is More Than Physical...

    I wish someone told me when I was young that great sex and sexual attraction happens when a guy does things that helps you emotionally connect. Sex is way more than physical stuff. The little things you do makes it hot.
  24. Hey, I had an NSA partner that was 23 while I was 32. We both agreed that we weren't a serious match! The guy I am dating now is my age. I have matured a bit since this thread was made. As long as two people are happy, that's why matters. Some people are okay with big age differences, and it's cool.