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  • Briefly Describe your last sexual encounter:
    it was amazing.sorry i dont kiss and tell
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    Idaho
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    m-54

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  1. I guess mine would be busty women,and what you do with them
  2. It's human nature to be nervous or apprehensive.First off your doing something you have never done before.And the fact it's been one of your fantasies probably had made you even more nervous.You want this to be a pleasurable experience.But you don't know if it actually will.It's normal to be nervous.Take a deep breath,relax and enjoy it. As with anything.You get what you pay for.I personally have no use for hand cuffs.I much prefer an nice set of leather wrist and ankle cuffs.You should be able to pick up both pairs for around 125 dollars.Mine are lined.Have a buckle closeure.Are about one and one half to two inches wide.To me they are sexier and not as cold as hand cuffs. Good luck with your play time.
  3. It's human nature to be nervous or apprehensive.First off your doing something you have never done before.And the fact it's been one of your fantasies probably had made you even more nervous.You want this to be a pleasurable experience.But you don't know if it actually will.It's normal to be nervous.Take a deep breath,relax and enjoy it. As with anything.You get what you pay for.I personally have no use for hand cuffs.I much prefer an nice set of leather wrist and ankle cuffs.You should be able to pick up both pairs for around 125 dollars.Mine are lined.Have a buckle closeure.Are about one and one half to two inches wide.To me they are sexier and not as cold as hand cuffs. Good luck with your play time.
  4. It's human nature to be nervous or apprehensive.First off your doing something you have never done before.And the fact it's been one of your fantasies probably had made you even more nervous.You want this to be a pleasurable experience.But you don't know if it actually will.It's normal to be nervous.Take a deep breath,relax and enjoy it. As with anything.You get what you pay for.I personally have no use for hand cuffs.I much prefer an nice set of leather wrist and ankle cuffs.You should be able to pick up both pairs for around 125 dollars.Mine are lined.Have a buckle closeure.Are about one and one half to two inches wide.To me they are sexier and not as cold as hand cuffs. Good luck with your play time.
  5. If both of you sit down and discuss it,and come to the same conclusion that it's ok.Then no it isn't cheating.My SO and I discussed it before we got together full time.We both came to the same conclusion.We wanted a one on one realtionship with no extras. I don't think I could ever be in a totally committed relationship where on party wanted some extra on the side.Just doesn't work for me.Call me selfish or what ever.I couldn't have a committed relationship like that.
  6. First let me say that this lifestyle is as diverse as the people in it.What works for one set might not work for another set.With that said the one underlying theme of all the people in it is.You are either dominant(master/dom)or you are a submissive(slave/sub). Some people live the lifestyle 24/7.While others have certain times they are in the lifestyle roles.I personally have never lived it in a 24/7 capacity.Nor do I think I would like it that way.I have tried it for a week and found it to be too taxing.At the end of the week I was totally exausted.Now for some people that is the only way they can live the lifestyle.That is their choice.As with everything in this lifestyle it is a choice to begin with.That is where communication and trust come in.As with every relatioinship there is trust and communication.But with a bdsm realtionship there has to be even more trust and comunication. Everyone has to find their own nitch in this reationship.Some will evolve into masters and slaves.Some into doms and subs.Others will use it in a role playing capacity.All this is learned over time.Either with the same partner or different ones. Befor getting into this lifestyle I would reccomend a thorough study.Read as much as you can on the lifestyle.Join a web site devoted to the lifestyle.Try and find a munch in your area and attend it for a while to see how people interact with one another.Get to know a couple and talk extensively with them.Do alot of soul searching and decide what you role in this lifestyle will be.Also decide how far you really want to go in this lifestyle. Good luck and happy hunting.
  7. I agree he might have ED.There is another possibility also.His testerone(spelling)level might be low.It happens frequently in men after fifty.What got me to thinking about this is.He could live without sex.Testerone levels have everything to do with sex in men.If they are low his sex drive just doesn't kick in.
  8. I have been in the bdsm lifestyle for some time now.I would think it almost impossible to only have part of a 24/7 relationship.Where do you draw the line?Where does punishment fit in?With a full 24/7 relationship everything is quite clear.You know if you make a mistake there is some form of punishmemt involved.With a part time 24/7 I just don't see it working.For either of you. Maybe the best thing would be to sit down and draw up a contract.Both of you list all the things you want.Also list what certain punishments should be. Wow!You picked a toughy.Especially if neither of you have had any real time experience in bdsm. Good luck.
  9. Is it a fear of rejection,or a fear of seeming perverted?So much has changed as far as sex goes these last 30 years.What was once taboo 30 years ago is taken for granted now. Everyone is different as far as bringing up something.Especially sexually.We still seem to be a little benind in that accord.Get to know your partner.That is the main thing.Then you will know how they handle new sexual ideas.But the best way is to let them know you want to be more creative.Or as my SO says.I don't want married sex anymore.Maybe bring up the subject of role play.That can open up all sorts of new ideas.Maybe you give a role lay senerio and then have your partner give one.That way neither one of you feels uncomfortable.
  10. You bet it would. Would it make you hot if...I blindfolded you and whispered in your ear what I was going to do to you?All the while running my hands all over you.
  11. As far as whether it's about pain or the excitement of having them on...that is up to the individual Ladylove.Dep[ends what your mind set is.Also depends on what helps get you off.Some people get off on a certain amount of pain.Others it's the mind set of something kinky.
  12. January,February,and March I call them the dog days of winter.
  13. Possibly.....I'd have to know them really well would you ever have an affair with a co-worker
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