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i told him about the ecstacy, but with his dislike of all the other magnums we decided to pass. we did however find an awsome brand at the local sex shop, it's called ONE, and they are pretty spiffy. unfortunatly they only showed up at the shop a week ago so they are still just testing the waters for the brand, so they only have three packs. and no one else in the city even knew what i was talking about when i asked about them. it's a shame i live in the south, the heat this time of year is too much to trust shipping

So I had a minor infection and had to be put on antibiotics, this of course messes with my birth control pills efectiveness. I"ve always had some type of birth control where we didn't have to use condoms but now we will need them for the next month or so. We've been useing trojan magnums, but he says he cant stand the lack feeling, (even with the thin version) so much so he can't even finish, and neither one of us is happy. what do you guys suggest?

My husband has asked me never to do this, he said he'd go careening off into a ditch, I guess i'm just that good lol

I've not caught anyone, but my husband has, he works security in a major department store, and once saw a 60 year old man drop his pants in the middle of the store and start going to town. he finished and then went to look at a map of argentena of all things, giving my husband enough time to have the cops on the scene. the mans respons to being arrested? "i didn't know that was illegal!"

Bullet i am not really a bullet person, as clitoral generally doesn't do it for me. Rabbit my water proof jackrabbit, i will need to replace him soon tho :_: Vibrator my lucid dreams #54 g-spot, another one that needs replacing soon lol Dildo my don wands cobalt blue magnificent, it is just awsome, probably my favorite right now, and i only got it last night XD Male masturbator husband doesn't use these, but he does like my lucid dream #14 Lube wet flavored (strawberry) BDSM item (hand cuffs, whip, crop, ect) we have a pair of fuzzy cuffs, but i always thought using my own painties was sexier.

the ultra radical O vibe it was just all wrong for me, the material was weird, the vibes were weak and it broke on me after two uses, so i didn't even really get a chance to even make it work. i'm just glad i got it on sale, i think i would have cried if i had spent more then i did. there was one good thing about it tho, it did give me the nice full feeling i was looking for, but the rest just fell so horribly short for me. also the lucid dream g-spot thingy a total flop for me, as far as shape and vibes, but my husband took it for himself so not a total loss i suppose lol

we always had one of those detachable shower heads when i was growing up, once or twice it broke and i just told my mom we needed a new one so i could clean my large aquariums. probably the oddest thing i've used was an oversized plastic syringe (think horse medication lol) with the tip sanded down. it was pretty effective.

I have fantastic news! He has gone down on me three times this week! He even suggested it last night out of nowhere. I am just estatic. I know he's not super comfortable with it all yet, but I think since seeing what it does to me, he's getting enjoyment out of it, instead of feeling gross.

I have good news! We talked agian and I told him exactly how it made me feel and that I really do need this from time to time since I won't go to anyone else for it. He's agreed to give it another shot (or several ), and even seems optimisic about it, considering his previous reluctance. I feel like we've made a huge step in the right direction. I've really appreciated some of the more recent advice, thanks guys!

True, he is, but he's still a good man. He supports me in everything else I do, in bed and out. While I do find the situation troubling, thats no reason to treat an otherwise good man poorly. I find it worrysome that most of the replys seem to show people sitting on the "What a selfish jerk!" side of this issue, when I look at this as more of a hang up. Fighting fire with fire, shouldn't apply here. There has to be a less vindictive way around this. @Mikayla he's just very good at everything else he does ^^ but I like the second idea, I will try to coax him that way.

I never really thought he was lazy in bed, he always makes sure I'm satisfied with everything else. Personally I never liked the idea of withholding sex, of any kind, I just think it's an awful thing to do and would only make the situation worse in most cases. I tried talking to him about it again. It was more relaxed this time, but we are both still pretty set on our sides of the argument. Perhaps I should take your guys advice and hope it works without causing more problems. I had more to say but I'm not quite sure how to best articulate it.

Let me just start off, by saying, this usually doesn’t bother me, in fact I usually don't even think about it, but sometimes I can’t help but get moody and depressed about my situation. With that said, my husband and I got into a small argument (what we consider an argument anyway) this morning about his disinterest in giving. I’ve always liked oral sex, just the idea of a guy doing that turns me on so much, but my husband isn’t into it. In the past, I’ve asked him what I should do to make it better for him. I’ve tried every trick in to book, shaving (even though I despise doing it because of the itching), eating nothing but fruits and veggies for a whole day, flavored lubes, barriers and right after a shower, and almost every other trick I can find. None of it works. He’s just so stubborn about it because he says it’s gross. I’ve asked him what was so bad, and for every reason he gave I had a solution, but he’s just not willing to do it, or even compromise. I’m just so frustrated at this point, it’s becoming hurtful. I love going down on him, I love watching him squirm and tense up when I’m doing something he enjoys, but I just don’t understand why he doesn’t want to do it for me. I’ve pointed this out to him but he simply says, he’d never ask me to do it if I didn’t enjoy it, so my argument there isn’t even applicable. I just wish he’d just do it anyway, I can count on one hand the number of times he’s done it, but only once did he ever finish. It’s not like I even want it every day, once or twice a month would be fine, anything at all would be fine at this point. Is there anything I can do to bring him around? Or should I just do the guy thing and get over it? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I really hope I didn’t make him sound like too much of an ass. He’s really pretty awesome, besides this one hang up. It’s just aggravating.

We went to Hilton Head, it was only a couple of months ago so it was nicely "deserted" and we pretty much had the run of the island. So many things went wrong and we lost alot of our wedding money to urgent car repairs before we even got on the highway. Still, we enjoyed what little time whe did get before reality got back to crushing our hopes and dreams XD The only thing i would have changed? Well two things, I wished we could have stayed more then two days and that I hadn't been on the rag the whole time. Although it happens everytime we go out of town, so I shouldn't have been surprised, even with my "fail proof" planning