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Kace last won the day on December 29 2012

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  • Briefly Describe your last sexual encounter:
    Last week, disappointing at best?
  • My Favorite Toy
    Aneros Progasm!
  • # of sex toys you own?
    20+
  • Marital status
    Married
  • What is your age & gender?
    32, M

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  1. I'd say about 30 minutes to an hour. As far as how you should relax - you know yourself better than anyone else does. What do you usually do to relax? Is it a glass of wine? Music? Soft lighting? If you're worried about being too tense when she tries the strap on, start slow and have her use fingers first. How well it goes is determined in large part by your state of mind. If you are nervous and worried that it will hurt, you'll tense up and it will. Put it out of your mind, breath slowly and deeply, and focus on how good it feels. If you chill out and use enough lube then it'll be a very positive experience.
  2. Go to your local drugstore and pick up a Fleet's enema kit and bottle of Metamucil capsules. Take them as directed on the label at least the day before. (It's not a bad idea to continue them regardless, fiber is good for you!) Drink LOTS of water. About an hour before your SO straps one on, flush out with the Fleets. That's about as good as anyone can do to minimize the mess. I'd also suggest picking up some lube shooters. They look like a syringe with a rounded end - very useful for getting lube up inside where it does the most good.
  3. Woohoo! I'm so happy that you're living the dream now! I hope it turns out for you.
  4. Love the new picture Kace !!! I love the tattoo too----very cute....

    1. Kace

      Kace

      Thanks. I wasn't sure it would be visible with such a tiny icon. :)

    2. WendyNY

      WendyNY

      Oh--I noticed it RIGHT AWAY !!! LOL..

  5. If it isn't prying too much, what exactly has he done to make you pull back from the relationship?
  6. Sure is spammy around here today. :/
  7. I cannot speak from experience, but I'd like to think that if my wife had any "transgressions" that I could forgive. I love her enough that I take joy in her happiness so long as it isn't to my or our child's detriment. So if she were to have a lover on the side, I would support her so long as s/he didn't hurt her, it didn't adversely affect our time as a family, and I was extended the same courtesy. A few years ago I would have thought of this as unthinkable but the more I analyze it the more logical and compassionate it seems.
  8. I've wondered if size affects sensitivity at all? Some women can't stand directly touching their clit while others can be pretty rough with it.
  9. Wow. I don't even know where to start here. TV isn't an accurate portrayal of anything, much less gender and sexual preference. First off, "90%" of women aren't necessarily bi/bicurious/lesbian. I have no idea where you got that idea though it's irrelevant - sexual orientation and attractiveness are not in the least bit related, the latter being completely subjective. Straight girls are straight because they are attracted exclusively to guys.
  10. Hair color isn't a dealbreaker for me. I find natural redheads to be eye catching. But for some reason, jet black hair and green eyes just ropes me in.
  11. I'd say this guy is a just a douche. I don't believe most men are so callous and mean spirited. The rare instances where I've been with women who consented to anal sex it was not coerced and it was done slowly and carefully. From my perspective, I see it as an honor - it takes a lot of trust to offer such an easily injured part of yourself to another.
  12. I first learned the term from the article I posted a link to. I must say the notion intrigues me. I would certainly have done it back when I was a virgin! It was a condition I wanted to rid myself of as quickly as possible and if there was an opportunity to learn how to give and receive pleasure without being judged for awkward fumblings, all the better! And having your first time be a 3-way? Wow.
  13. Has anyone else ever heard the term "Panda Three-way"? I learned about it from this article on a site I keep up with: http://goodmenprojec...anda-three-way/ A Panda Three-way refers to how pandas teach their younger males about mating. An older, more established couple will bring a younger male in for a practical "teaching" session. I had never heard of this practice before and I want to hear your opinions on the idea.
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