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One of my best friends travels most of the time. I think this would be perfect for him. Although he might break the tablet due to excessive shaking! This thing is hilarious!!

I get it, attack the problem on mutliple fronts and enjoy the ride as well! Mikayla, do you agree that the sling type is the best to start with or the rubber rings?

That makes a lot of sense! I am definately working on the PC muscle and anxiety side first! I appreciate your candor as well.

Hopefully one last question- what is the proper way to put on (install) a cock ring?

That does help! I'm new to all of this and definately am looking for as much info as possible. I'll get to reading and try. Anymore info will be greatly appreciated. I have to say that you guys are great! I love reading all that you have to share! Thanks to all!!

I just read an forum topic from a while back about learning to control ejaculations. I have had trouble with lasting during intercourse for quite sometime and it has affected my relationship with my wife. We have gotten to the point where we're talking about this and both know that its an issue. I've tried start/ stop and honestly it's just ruins the moment! I tried a cock ring and I assume I put it on right but it didn't really work. I will am now working on relaxing during intercourse and to focus more on me than others. In reading the one forum it mentioned Tantric techniques. Can someone help me understand what this is and where I can find more info about this. I'm willing to try just about anything to get stamina back and pleasure!! I've read quite a bit on TT and trust everyone's input!

Thanks for your input! Overall it makes sense and gives me more to think about. I did have the heart felt discussion (probably some of the negative feelings came through but none the less heart felt!!). That part is in her hands and may not go anywhere but I definately need to decide how much I am willing to hang in there. I'm busting my butt to lose weight and get in shape. I'm taking care of myself 1st so I'm better able to take care of her. I honestly think that if it doesn't improve from there that I've done all I can and a decision will need to be made. To all, thanks for your advice. This is actually the 1st time I've ever done anything like this.

I understand most everything that is said so far. But as a man who really is in the same situation, it seems that what needs to happen is improved communication to expess wants, feelings and desires. (I could be wrong) Assuming that to be the next step, what are some suggestions to initiate discussions without seeming to be "Just interested in sex". I don't mean to push my issues into the thread but opening up yourself can be very scary!