Newbie alliftw Posted September 21, 2010 Newbie Report Share Posted September 21, 2010 Hi, I'm new here!I really want to learn to deep throat. I've looked up a billion tips. I'm not quite sure how to phrase this problem properly but I'll try. So, my problem is no longer really my gag reflex... I get to a certain point (that's not really all the way down my throat.. it's more like, at the entrance or near where my tonsils are) it won't go down any further? From everything I've read it's supposed to pass that point with an almost pop (or something) and go into the throat..I've tried a bunch of angles (including hanging my head off the bed, but that makes me nervous so I'm going to wait on trying that again) with my boyfriend and I'm just not sure what the problem is! Any advice? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted September 21, 2010 Review Team Report Share Posted September 21, 2010 I am not sure but it sounds like you are having problems "opening up" your throat. I can't really tell you want technically happens during this, but basically it seems like the top of your throat widens a bit. Sometimes mine won't - if I am really not in the mood, if I am in the wrong position, if my allergies are acting up (seriously!) but the best advice I can give is kind of try flexing that area without having a cock in your mouth, like while you sit and watch TV. Get used to it that way then it will come more natural when trying to deep-throat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Stacie72 Posted October 6, 2011 Members Report Share Posted October 6, 2011 I am not sure but it sounds like you are having problems "opening up" your throat. I can't really tell you want technically happens during this, but basically it seems like the top of your throat widens a bit. Sometimes mine won't - if I am really not in the mood, if I am in the wrong position, if my allergies are acting up (seriously!) but the best advice I can give is kind of try flexing that area without having a cock in your mouth, like while you sit and watch TV. Get used to it that way then it will come more natural when trying to deep-throat.I still have to ask what if he is in our throught and cums will we choke to death I know thats extream question but what will happen.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 6, 2011 Members Report Share Posted October 6, 2011 I still have to ask what if he is in our throught and cums will we choke to death I know thats extream question but what will happen....I don't think you would chock to death..... but if you're having a hard time try using your hand at the base of the penis that way it will be comfortable for you when he orgasms. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted October 19, 2011 Review Team Report Share Posted October 19, 2011 I still have to ask what if he is in our throught and cums will we choke to death I know thats extream question but what will happen....No, I don't think you would. And you can tell when he is about to cum, so if you are nervous, pull out a little. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 19, 2011 Report Share Posted October 19, 2011 hanging your head off the bed really is the easiest way to deep throat, but it does require ALOT of trust. when it feels like it won't go further its because, your neck/throat is usually in a curved shape, so when it hits the back there's nowhere for it to go if you aren't used to coaxing it down further. you might also try with him standing and angling your neck upwards. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ReadyToMoveOn Posted January 11, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 11, 2012 I just wanted to Thank the Ladies here for advising other eager Ladies in learning and hopefully mastering this technique. I know as a recipient, I have thoroughly enjoyed receiving such techniques from these knowledgeable and talented Ladies...Again, thank you so much!!!EDIT: And I'm not in any way trying to be sarcastic or chauvinistic, but sincerely thanking women who enjoy in giving as much as men, as Myself, enjoy receiving your talents!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ReadyToMoveOn Posted January 11, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 11, 2012 I don't understand the fascination with deep throating. Is it just a male power trip and an ego thing?The Fascination, if that is how you care to term it, is the Pleasure I feel of having my entire Hard Cock being sucked into my womans mouth/throat vs. only half of my Dick....And I can only speak for myself, I am not speaking for all of Man, only myself.Nothing to do with a power trip, or my ego, just mere pleasure...Why is that so hard to comprehend...Tell me this, If we were Making Love, or when youre intimate with your Man, do you only make love with half of his hard on...Do you see the relevance ??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ReadyToMoveOn Posted January 11, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 11, 2012 I apologize if my question offended you, I just don't understand it. I gurantee a lot of men only want it so they can brag about it to others and of course because they saw it in porn and because all of us women are supposed to be like those in porn *sarcastic of course*So after reading your reply, I now feel like I am a horrible woman because I don't do that. Not that I can't, I just don't do it and I don't hear him complaining about it either. In fact, he has never mentioned it once to me in all of the 6 years we've known each other. But of course to each their own Brandy, I was not offended. you posed a question, I merely responded with the answer I knew best as to my own experiences. You tell me you can "guarantee" that a lot of men want it (Deep Throating) so they can brag... I'm a Man, and I couldnt make that guarantee.I'll tell you something from a Mans perspective...Most Men dont talk about the women they are intimate with which they care about.. Me personally, I have never been one of the "Kiss and Tell" type. I never have spoken of my Sexual encounters with anyone, not even my Ex, which I was married for 20+ years.I know of some Men who do engage in such barroom talk, but it isnt me, and I dont think too highly of the Men that have talked in this mannerism of any woman. I am somewhat surprised how easily I have been able to express my thoughts here on "Too Timid". I dont know, I dont believe its the same though as some Barroom cheap sex talk over beers. I dont know, maybe Im contradicting myself as I re-read my own words. But it is how I feel.Does this make sense to you at all ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ReadyToMoveOn Posted January 11, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 11, 2012 I apologize if my question offended you, I just don't understand it. I gurantee a lot of men only want it so they can brag about it to others and of course because they saw it in porn and because all of us women are supposed to be like those in porn *sarcastic of course*So after reading your reply, I now feel like I am a horrible woman because I don't do that. Not that I can't, I just don't do it and I don't hear him complaining about it either. In fact, he has never mentioned it once to me in all of the 6 years we've known each other. But of course to each their own As for you feeling bad, dont!!! Every Man is different, the same as every Woman is different. He (your SO) may not feel the same way about this as I do, so do not feel bad. You both need to discuss what each other enjoys sexually, what turns you on, and what turns him on sexually.My GF now, she has told me, she has never performed oral sex prior to her and I being intimate. Neither receiving nor giving any type of oral sex. But we talk and we both very much want to please each other sexually. She has told me that she becomes extremely excited and wett between her legs to see how excited I become and eventually cum, while my Dick is in her mouth and down her throat. Of course she wasnt able to do this the first time she gave me a BJ, but she wanted to please as it also made her excited, so she took the initiative.My point is, you should be able to enjoy the act while doing so, the same as I enjoy orally copulating my GF until she reaches orgasm after orgasm, its a turn on for me.So dont feel bad about what you and yours do in the bedroom or dont do...Just talk and discuss things, see what makes you both excited.I apologize if I did make you feel bad, please dont interpret my words to make you feel bad, s not my intent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted January 11, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 11, 2012 No worries. I just don't get it but I don't have to either Brandy, do you enjoy oral sex for yourself? If so do you enjoy one technique more than another? Has DH experiment with different ways of pleasing you orally? Do you feel it's a power trip for you when he gives you oral?The above ?'s are just to make you think. I think oral is just another pleasurable sensation to experience for both the sexes, whether it's deep throat not. Talk to your DH see what he has to say about it. Pleasure is subjective to each individual. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ReadyToMoveOn Posted January 12, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 12, 2012 Actually I don't really like it on myself. I am too self-conscious about my lady parts so I rarely let him go there, I usually have to be drunk.You need to really overcome your fears of whatever it is which causes these anxieties. Enjoy your sexual self and allow your SO to turn you on. Your inhibitions only thwarts more intimacy between your Man and You. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted January 12, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 12, 2012 Actually I don't really like it on myself. I am too self-conscious about my lady parts so I rarely let him go there, I usually have to be drunk.How about turning the lights off so you can relax and hopefully try to enjoy?You need to really overcome your fears of whatever it is which causes these anxieties. Enjoy your sexual self and allow your SO to turn you on. Your inhibitions only thwarts more intimacy between your Man and You.Agreed, it does increase intimacy and you're really missing out on something fabulous. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ReadyToMoveOn Posted January 14, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 14, 2012 How about turning the lights off so you can relax and hopefully try to enjoy?Agreed, it does increase intimacy and you're really missing out on something fabulous.And Fabulous Sex is just ...Fabulous... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted January 14, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 14, 2012 And Fabulous Sex is just ...Fabulous...Yes it is, but I think your use of Fabulous is a bit teasing, but not sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ReadyToMoveOn Posted January 14, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 14, 2012 Yes it is, but I think your use of Fabulous is a bit teasing, but not sure.Not at all teasing...Sincerely Fabulous Sex is just that, Fabulous... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted January 20, 2012 Review Team Report Share Posted January 20, 2012 I have been told that the feeling of my throat kind of closing in on the head of his cock is devine. I obviously don't know what sex for a man feels like, but what he said makes sense. His head is sensitive, makes sense that the warm, slippery, tightening feeling of my throat would be nice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members reikilove Posted March 7, 2013 Members Report Share Posted March 7, 2013 I actually get excited as it goes down at first I had to hang my head over the bed and then I learned angles etc he loves it and he always cum while down my throat I haven't choked you just need to open your mouth a bit to catch some air Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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