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Is This Really An Orgasm?


LatiNaughty

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Ok, so obviously I'm going to think it's a real orgasm because, well, it's the only thing I've ever encountered during sex that makes me feel so good. The ONLY reason I am questioning is because I hear stories of women with multiple, long and drawn-out orgasms- women who are ready for round two quickly after. I've been with my hubby for 8 years and have had partners before him: Never has an orgasm lasted more than about 5 seconds. Immediately after it happens, I clam up and lose all sexual arousal, to the point where my vagina actually "forces" my husband out. The orgasm itself feels WONDERFUL...I just wish it would last longer and perhaps one day, get to a point where I can keep going for a 2nd one. I can't even fathom the thought of being sexual after I cum, is this unusual?

The orgams do vary in intensity depending on the situation, I've noticed that I get a different overwhelming feeling when having anal intercourse- either way, it's always great.

Is this what a "normal" or typical orgams sounds like?

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Good news. You WILL get to a point where you will have multiples and/or prolonged orgasms simply because you are seeking out how to do it. For me personally, it was a learned technique. I will share what my experience was and how I did it. Others I'm sure will have great advice too.

The way that I was able to get past that, "okay I'm done now and don't want any more" feeling was to just forge thru it. I would force myself, after my initial orgasm, to turn myself on again. I did that a variety of ways. I practiced with masturbation. A vibrator was really useful for this. After the first one, I would just continue to massage my vagina and/or caress my breasts afterwards. I also found porn useful for this. Usually I would want the porn turned of IMMEDIATELY after my orgasm. I made myself leave it on and continued to watch. I think you will find that after about 5 or 10 minutes after the initial orgasm, you will start to become aroused again. I did anyway.

I also worked on it with my husband because he wanted me to succeed at this as well. After my initial orgasm, he would just stroke my back, neck, legs, bottom very, very gently and softly. After he did that for about 5 or 10 mins., he would start stroking other parts of my body or sucking on my breasts (a sure fire way to get me going) softly at first, then more aggressively. Next thing I knew, I would be ready to go again.

As far as the prolonged orgasms - once you learn it - it's a game changer!!!! I was unable to learn that one thru masturbation. My husband helped me find the key to that gate and it's all about the g-spot and squirting (or female ejaculation) for me. Boy did we have fun working on that project! The hardest thing for me on that one was being able to completely give myself to him. I had to be open enough with my mind, my trust and my words to him and totally give myself to him. He obviously had read up on how to find my g-spot and what to do with it when he found it, but the whole time, I would be talking to him, letting him know what felt good and what wasn't effective.

The g-spot orgasm is totally different than a clitoral one. It last longer and often it's "lighter" if that makes any sense. But oh man, is it wonderful! When I have one though, I always have to end with a clitoral orgasm. I guess I'm just greedy that way. HA!

You can find great threads on this board to lead you down the path to your g-spot. It's one resource I used 5 years ago to find mine. A g-spot vibe is also helpful. And here is some info you and your sweetie can read up on to start that journey together. http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/

I didn't learn it in a day. It took a few weeks but oh man, you are not going to mind practicing! :D

Let us know how you progress.

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Here's another thread on the subject.

http://forums.tootim...907#entry131907

It references this outstanding article on the subject. http://www.tootimid.com/Multiple-Madness_b_63.html

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