Can't Deep Throat Anymore :[

[DearestHeart]

It's a disaster!! As a lover of oral sex (receiving and giving) I find it completely horrifying that I can no longer deep throat. T_T When my boyfriend came up for a visit last month I had been a bit sick and in the heat of the moment went down on him. Just as I went to deep throat him it felt like the tip of him hit a wall. It just wouldn't go through. I thought well let me wet my throat with some saliva and try again. Still nothing! Two weeks ago he comes over and everything is going fine, he's rubbing im stroking, and I go down. Yet again it happened. I wasn't sick anymore, I shifted positions thinking, maybe its the angle. Which led to him laughing and looking at me all wierd like. To no avail! I don't know whats going on. I've done it before with him and his reactions (epically hillarious btw got him to say god bless america! lmao!!) told me he loved it.

Has this happened to any of you?
Help a girl get her mojo back.

[bbarney]

My best guess for the cause would be that when you had the initial illness there was a swelling in your throat of some sort. Though I have no medical experience that is worth noting, I do know that the lymph nodes on the sides of your neck will swell if the body has an infection. Two weeks later when you were no longer sick you could have had some of the tension still and as result you were sub-consciously afraid.

Whether or not that is the direct cause I would just go back to the basics and work your way up again. Try practicing and see if you can get something down there (a dildo or a banana?) and once you can try it on him again. I doubt you're broken, more likely just scared without meaning to be.

[DearestHeart]

My best guess for the cause would be that when you had the initial illness there was a swelling in your throat of some sort. Though I have no medical experience that is worth noting, I do know that the lymph nodes on the sides of your neck will swell if the body has an infection. Two weeks later when you were no longer sick you could have had some of the tension still and as result you were sub-consciously afraid.

Whether or not that is the direct cause I would just go back to the basics and work your way up again. Try practicing and see if you can get something down there (a dildo or a banana?) and once you can try it on him again. I doubt you're broken, more likely just scared without meaning to be.

I do hope its subconscious. I'm very prone to getting strep and swollen glands, and have performed oral during those times. This is honestly the first time it's happened. I thank you very much for your words of advice and will try out your suggestions.

Now wheres that banana...