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I need to know! I have a girlfriend who was bitching about catching her boyfriend watching porn, and she said they got into a huge fight! She looked at my like I was crazy when I told her I didn't see anything wrong with it - am I a weirdo, lol?

YOU CATCH HER/HIM WATCHING PORN.
IS THIS CHEATING?

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I would LOVE to see more responses to this question. 

I do not consider it cheating. Men get excited by what they see, women by what they hear. Sometimes what they read. 

So, in that case, if a woman with a BF/SO reads a steamy romance novel, would that be considered cheating too?

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On 4/12/2016 at 2:28 PM, tootimidangela said:

I need to know! I have a girlfriend who was bitching about catching her boyfriend watching porn, and she said they got into a huge fight! She looked at my like I was crazy when I told her I didn't see anything wrong with it - am I a weirdo, lol?

YOU CATCH HER/HIM WATCHING PORN.
IS THIS CHEATING?

Thoughts?
:ph34r:-Angela

it definitely can be a form of cheating if you are watching it and fantasizing about you being with someone in the porn? but I don't think like that honestly I watch it to enjoy the techniques and actions of them not thinking I'm with them

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it's funny cause I was watching some story line family porn and my wife walks in and lys down next to me and looks at what I'm watching and freak's out, what the hell are you watching sweetheart, I said it's about a family that's going through some sexuality changes with there daughter and the mother just caught her giving her brother a blowjob, 

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I don’t think it’s cheating if you’re just watching a video.  
 

But there are a few exceptions, interactive videos where you’re one on one with someone. Or being addicted to porn to the extent it’s interfering with a normal sex life with your partner. 

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I think of it as a mood enhancer, my wife and I both watch it but we have different things that rev our engines. At 55 it cheaper then viagra and she gets in the mood. She knows I watch it and masterbate. She does too. We dont view it as cheating because it more like viagra for me and libido enhancers. 

 

Problem is we like things closer to what represent us as a couple. For example we what known as a WMAF couple so I prefer to see something closer to that because it helps more with the fantasy that porn presents.  I not into watching lesbians because I dont relate to that and frankly neither does she. Our challenge is where to find it. We can go to websites yes but they present a computer security risk and searching soft porn on netflix take forever to find something. After midnight not the best time to start searching when your falling a sleep by 1230 am.  Many of the steamy asian shows she watches on subcription tv channels as provided decent at times. Not exactly porn but some scenes get pretty close.  Material like eating the cream pie, anal, oral, soft femdom are what turns us on but not everyones cup of tea. 

 

Be great if there was a way to offer something on the tootimid site we could subscribe to for a small fee that had film rentals or small productions that was available so we did not have to visit sites looking for differnet things. I like watching amature home made videos of couples and if there couples that into that kind of thing I be find if they uploaded videos for others to watch. Not something that could be shared other then the person who uploaded the video.  Just a thought

 

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On 4/12/2016 at 1:28 PM, tootimidangela said:

I need to know! I have a girlfriend who was bitching about catching her boyfriend watching porn, and she said they got into a huge fight! She looked at my like I was crazy when I told her I didn't see anything wrong with it - am I a weirdo, lol?

YOU CATCH HER/HIM WATCHING PORN.
IS THIS CHEATING?

Thoughts?
:ph34r:-Angela

Hell no, well maybe cheating yourself of the real thing!

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In the past (we are old now) We both freely looked at porn any time we wanted to and usually together.  Now I like more soft porn - like pretty women undressing. 

We also went to strip clubs.  Never had an issue with it.

The wife unit used to have male strippers at home with a bunch of the neighborhood ladies and they had a lot of fun and lots of wine.  I'm sure they enjoyed playing with the boy toy!

The county song - "Tequila makes her clothes fall off" - That's was her!  She was just enjoying life.

We have been married almost 49 years now - we did not stay married by crossing the line.  All harmless fun.  All in the open.  All in love.

 

 

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On 2/28/2022 at 1:09 PM, IronBar said:

In the past (we are old now) We both freely looked at porn any time we wanted to and usually together.  Now I like more soft porn - like pretty women undressing. 

We also went to strip clubs.  Never had an issue with it.

The wife unit used to have male strippers at home with a bunch of the neighborhood ladies and they had a lot of fun and lots of wine.  I'm sure they enjoyed playing with the boy toy!

The county song - "Tequila makes her clothes fall off" - That's was her!  She was just enjoying life.

We have been married almost 49 years now - we did not stay married by crossing the line.  All harmless fun.  All in the open.  All in love.

 

 

OMG hell no it's not cheating seriously unless you are fantasizing about him or her while you are jerkingoff and fantasizing about them instead of your better half like I caught my brother jerkingoff watching this family porn and it was brother and sister fucking and he was calling her by our sisters name as he was stroking and I got his wife and brought her into the room and we listened to him jerkingoff talking like it was our sister he was fucking but my wife and I enjoy watching soft core porn mostly together but we both have our Solo pleasuring time as well

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On 7/27/2017 at 6:41 PM, Tyger said:

I would LOVE to see more responses to this question. 

I do not consider it cheating. Men get excited by what they see, women by what they hear. Sometimes what they read. 

So, in that case, if a woman with a BF/SO reads a steamy romance novel, would that be considered cheating too?

Exactly thx for this and Your Unbridled Wisdom 

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