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Tyger    717

So, because this topic is in the Contest area, and we can't post in it, I thought I'd repost this topic here.

Do you think watching porn is cheating? Watching porn by yourself in a committed relationship, without your SO knowing, do you consider this cheating? What if your SO told you that they didn't want you watching it without them, but they were into it when you were together, would you consider watching some then cheating?

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RC4BLUE    874

Cheating? I guess that depends on your definition of cheating. Personally if my partner is watching porn whether I know or not is not cheating. I believe that sexuality is a personal thing. If my partner want to view porn and enjoys watching sexual material then good. It means that my partner is sexual and has sexual interest. I would rather my partner be sexual than not. I would be disappointed if my partner said to me that watching porn was cheating. In my relationship I would hope that we would have had conversations about porn and sexuality before ever getting to someone accusing the other of cheat because of looking at porn. 

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PlayfulKitty    75

Hmm.. This one is close to home for me.. I'm not going to say it's as much cheating that bothers me it's what porn can do to a person that's what bothers me. I mean I have watched porn and yea it totally gets me hot, however I feel like there are men and probably women who lose control. When my SO begins to prefer porn over reality it becomes cheating in my eyes. I mean everyone on here no doubt in my mind has heard of porn addiction, and I personally believe this is a real thing. Sure every once in a while watch it together get things spicy cool, but yea when it begins to interfere with real intimacy and real physical sex in a relationship and even making your SO feel like they don't measure up to the standards of a porn star I think then it's cheating and then your hurting each other. Just my opinion though 

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RC4BLUE    874

I do not want to get into a debate over addiction to porn. I only ask that before making a statement about addiction, please look at the research. Yes people can be compulsive (with anything) and when that negatively affects other parts of life or relationships it is a problem. And then the problem needs to be addressed. Anything that interferes with intimacy, and real physical sex  or other parts of our relationships is a negative. Personally I just don't like how loosely the word addiction is used in describing anything that is considered a problem. 

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michelleddd    350

Addiction aside...... cause that's a whole other issue.

 

IMO porn isn't cheating and I don't have a problem with it UNLESS it is affecting the amount of couple sex in your relationship. It's still not cheating but needs to be addressed. If you feel you don't measure up somehow to porn women that's your issue not his.

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krisleightate    135

Porn.  It depends on the couple.  If one person in the couple thinks it is cheating then their partner shouldn't watch it.  I don't see it as cheating at all.

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l8niter    888

I don't think watching porn with or without my GF if cheating , to me cheating would have to be having physical contact with another person, IE, touching of breasts, pussy and ass, or any kind of penetration.

 

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krisleightate    135

So you don't believe in emotional cheating?  While I don't see porn as cheating some do, but I do believe there are more forms of cheating than just sexual acts.  If you are allowing someone other than your partner have those parts of yourself that are supposed to be for your partner, physically and emotionally, you are cheating in my book.  

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square    131

Is watching porn cheating?  Not in my rule book.  And especially since it was my wife who initially clued me in to where the internet porn sites were.

If I were with a different girl who thought viewing porn was cheating, I dunno.  I still don't think I would think it was cheating, but I'd probably hide it if I ever watched it.

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12GAUGE    114
On 4/27/2016 at 8:02 PM, RC4BLUE said:

I do not want to get into a debate over addiction to porn. I only ask that before making a statement about addiction, please look at the research. Yes people can be compulsive (with anything) and when that negatively affects other parts of life or relationships it is a problem. And then the problem needs to be addressed. Anything that interferes with intimacy, and real physical sex  or other parts of our relationships is a negative. Personally I just don't like how loosely the word addiction is used in describing anything that is considered a problem. 

I feel zactly as RC4Blue said. I been saying the last 30+years were it NOT for porn I would be in solitary confinement somewhere wearing a rubber jacket.... No I AIN'T KIDDING !!!!!!!!

Last year I met a gal over at FetLife. She's a kinky little number and the next morning after we woke up together during our (what I call pillow talk) chatting she says "what would you say to a FWB type deal?" Wow talk about throw me for a loop?!?:wub: I had been thinking did I fuck her goot enuf the night b4 well boys and girls her asking me this SEALED THE DEAL in my book!!!!! Yer damn skippy I told her and we kissed like teenagers while I hugged the stuffing out of her. So now for the very first time in my life I have a piece of tail I can call anytime and arrange a rendezvous for some kinky hot sex.

What I consider cheating is if you CAN'T TELL your honey pie about it if she asks and give her AN HONEST ANSWER then it is cheating. Even if it's just a BJ like our old friend William Jefferson ***I did not have sexual relations with that young woman*** CLINTON said so many years ago. Sumpin else: even if it's just a BJ on the fly while having a beer with your buds I consider that as cheating and I'd feel guilty as sin and it wood bother me till I told her or she fingered it out.

 

Slightly Off Topic... Yo RC4Blue...does the RC stand for Remote Control toys like planes ships tanks bulldozers and the like??? Just curious yellow here.

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RC4BLUE    874

RC is not remote control....sorry. It has a personal meaning.

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12GAUGE    114
20 hours ago, RC4BLUE said:

RC is not remote control....sorry. It has a personal meaning.

Gotcha Bubba. BTDT GTB.

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Bluetooth    0

It's not cheating, sometimes when you feel you need to release the stress or heat out of your body, and your partner not present, you needed this. It's more reasonable than to hook someone and share your lust.

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H. Housewife    72

Definitely not cheating I rather have my husband watch porn than have sex with another woman. I'm really picky I wish the guys were better looking in porn. If they'd look anything like Jason Mamoa or Dylan that would be so hot❤?

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It is definitely not cheating, for 30 years my husband has either masterbated to hustler magazine and since the internet he watches porn. He is not shy about it. Seeing in front of the computer naked and jacking off his boner makes me all wet. 

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