Members Frustrated Posted May 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Been married 30 years. Husband wasn't interested in sex much after we had kids. Never bothered me until about 10 years ago. I crave it all the time. Now he can't perform. Isn't it usually the other way around. I want it. Read erotica, play with toys to get myself off. I feel obsessed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Crouching Tiger Posted May 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Have u tried doing it with someone else Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Frustrated Posted May 2, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Don't want to cheat but it's all I think about. He shows no interest in taking care of my need with his fingers, mouth or toys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Crouching Tiger Posted May 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Message me ur number. Maybe we can talk further about this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Frustrated Posted May 2, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Love to but scared. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Crouching Tiger Posted May 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Of? Just lwt me get ur number and ill only text u when ur available and alone. That way we can chat about this and maybe we can find a solution Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Frustrated Posted May 2, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 2 hours ago, Crouching Tiger said: Message me ur number. Maybe we can talk further about this Can we private chat here? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Crouching Tiger Posted May 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 I just did. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Crouching Tiger Posted May 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Ive been private messaging u.. but u dnt answer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Frustrated Posted May 2, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 What am I doing wrong can't connect Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Frustrated Posted May 2, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Tell me how to connect... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Crouching Tiger Posted May 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Text me. 818-614-1876 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Frustrated Posted May 2, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Can't we do it here? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Frustrated Posted May 2, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 You have me panting... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Crouching Tiger Posted May 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Ok private message me.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members scubadiv1951 Posted May 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Have you tried discussing the situation with him? Does he have any interest in sex, or just can't perform , but interested ? That has to really suck !! Hard to believe he wouldn't be interested if that's the case. But my wife's ex husband according to her had no interest in sex , except for only a short time after they were married.They were more like roommates then husband and wife. After many years of marriage they ended up getting a divorce. She went from extreme to another with him to me. I never seem to get enough. I hope you find a solution. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Frustrated Posted May 2, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 Can't perform no drive. So awkward we can't even discuss. There were years when I was busy starting my career. But I always thought that men wanted all the time. Not him, but I do!!!! we are just like roommates, separate rooms. When we were first married we were ok. He was pretty vanilla just wanted basic missionary. We had kids and they seemed to be what he wanted. Makes me feel like not much of a woman. Basically had sex from 20-29. A lot of lost years!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team l8niter Posted May 2, 2016 Review Team Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 It could be something as simple as ED and there are all kinds of different methods to fix the problem ,I.E. Viagra, Cialis , different ointments and creams Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 12GAUGE Posted May 3, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 3, 2016 19 hours ago, Crouching Tiger said: Ok private message me.. Wow and I thought being single at 63 was the total suck! I wish I had some kind of wisdom here but I have nothing. Only thing I could possibly suggest is a kinky site I'm on sometimes. Fetlife.com if you have any kinkyness in you. I'm a simple guy. I like the natural girl next door look but when we are horny for each other I prefer my gal wearing black red or white stockings tight short skirts heels and the like. Erotic books sometimes works. Another web site is all about girls and women. Have you ever contemplated being with another woman? She could be your boss daddy wear a strapon and give you what you need and crave. For the last 30+years I've said this where I live. My town or the area where I live needs a nice gentleman's club where one can get a drink and see what's available for companionship. What's good for goose is good for the gander too. A nice whorehouse with men of the evening... Unfortunately prostitution is illegal in my state and Vegas is way too far to drive... When I was younger there was a nightclub I'd sometimes visit. Sundays were Fetish Nights. Pretty weird stuff. So one night I had a most wonderful evening meeting a nice domme. Spent the entire evening with her. She was dressed to the 9s in black and was curvy to beat the band. I wish I had something useful to offer... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiedupnaked33 Posted July 2, 2017 Members Report Share Posted July 2, 2017 On 5/1/2016 at 8:35 PM, Frustrated said: Been married 30 years. Husband wasn't interested in sex much after we had kids. Never bothered me until about 10 years ago. I crave it all the time. Now he can't perform. Isn't it usually the other way around. I want it. Read erotica, play with toys to get myself off. I feel obsessed I feel your pain. Wife don't want to be touched. She was a fireball for many years. Swallowed 22 gallons of my cum. But that don't help me now. No good solutions in sight. If you ever want to chat give me a holler. Hang in there. Things change. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted July 10, 2017 Members Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 It sound like you and your husband need to work on your marriage. Don't get into anything you may regret or that could harm the trust in your marriage. Try weekly date nights, just the two of you to start. I also recommend a qualified marriage counselor to help you navigate these difficult times before it's to late. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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