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Trying masturbation for the first time

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Hi,

I'm new to this and I was wondering if anybody could give me some tips on how to do it I guess. I tried using my fingers and I'm sad to say nothing came of it. It kinda hurts when I try but I don't know if that means I'm not wet enough or I need to clip my already short nails. Any suggestions would be great. I am looking into buying a vibrator.

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Tiffani posted a similar dilemma, about masturbating & having orgasms. I thought I'd paste the advice I gave her. First, about your clit starting to hurt. I'll bet it needs to be wetter, maybe much wetter. It should never hurt. Whether you slide a finger inside for some natural juices or you use lube or even your own spit, get your clit nice a slippery. However long they are, your nails shouldn't be touching your clit. Fingertips/hand only. It's great that you're looking into getting a vibrator. That's a must. Whether you want it to slide inside you or just vibrate your pussy & clit outside, you need one.

This is what I wrote in that other post:

"Get a bullet -- or any small clit vibrator. TooTimid has them for $10 (silver egg-shaped device that vibrates very quickly, quietly & quite concentrated for one small area (your clit). It's attached by wire to the remote, which will have a few speeds usually). Get comfy where there's no one else around & no chance for interruption. Pick a time that you're most relaxed (early a.m., mid-day, late night.....). Maybe it's best to fantasize all day & do this at night.

Rest the bullet (aka egg, clit-vibe....) against your clit & flip on the switch, starting with low. Slide a finger or dildo or vibe inside your pussy if you'd like. Some women love the sensation of both at once, some only want the clit vibe alone. Whatever you prefer. It's your body. Explore it! It's possible you won't orgasm the first time, but not likely. Once you do, it'll be the best physical feeling a woman's body can feel. Now, repeat as often as you'd like. 

If you find yourself loving the bullet, feel free to incorporate it into your love-life -- while you're having sex or before or after or the entire time. You deserve an orgasm during sex too. We all know the guy will have his, so it's only fair, right? :-)

Ladies, am I right? Any corrections?

During this masturbation session, snap & send me a pic. LOL "

The sending of the pic is important for research purposes.  :P

Enjoy the pussy play!!

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I would agree with 2long but use plenty of lube and use something small at first ....a bullet is ideal 

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I agree with almost all of the advice. .....except the spit used for lubrication. Saliva (aka spit) can actually dry you out. So, I'd use lube or you can try masturbating in the shower or tube. FYI, removable shower heads are REALLY nice!!!

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I agree with all the responses but I would also include some type of anal stimulation. A women has so many “feel good” spots in and around the anus. It sounds gross to those who have never tried it but once you expierence the wonderful feeling you will love to include it during your masturbation sessions. 

In summary, my advise to you  is to take a warm shower or sit in a warm tub with some type of bath oil  so you can completely relax. As you bathe, tease yourself by massaging your breasts, nipples, clit, etc.. After bathing retire to your bed or reclining chair. Use plenty of lube on you clit and vagina area. Using your finger, without the nails, stimulate your clit by rubbing It in circles, left to right, and up and down. Even taping it works good.  While your doing this insert some type of stimulation device into your vagina and also your anus. Stay relaxed and I guarantee you will have a great orgasm. Maybe listen to your favorite music also. The key, in my opinion, is to stay completely relaxed. Remember, the biggest sex organ we have is the brain!

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