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I wish I could somehow convince him that it would be a spicy and wonderful addition to our repertoire. I think he has some hangups about it.

He used to masturbate very frequently and I know he used porn tapes for a while. Lately, I don't think he does as much but then again he's getting older and now going through some stressful times. But still, I would think that any red blooded man TOLD this would be a huge treat would try it.

<<<sigh>>>

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I wish I could somehow convince him that it would be a spicy and wonderful addition to our repertoire. I think he has some hangups about it.

He used to masturbate very frequently and I know he used porn tapes for a while. Lately, I don't think he does as much but then again he's getting older and now going through some stressful times. But still, I would think that any red blooded man TOLD this would be a huge treat would try it.

<<<sigh>>>

I would love to be able to do it openly. It really turns me on to be able to see a woman pleasing herself, too.

Unfortunately, I'm married to someone who thinks it's one of the most disgusting things imaginable.

Just my luck, I suppose...

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My SO has absolutely no problem sharing it with me. I love to watch and even at times get involved a little. It shows the level of trust and intimacy there to be able to share it.

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I would love to be able to do it openly. It really turns me on to be able to see a woman pleasing herself, too.

Unfortunately, I'm married to someone who thinks it's one of the most disgusting things imaginable.

Just my luck, I suppose...

awh that's too bad. I almost can FEEL the sadness in your post! (am I wrong?)

This is something I WANT to do with my boyfriend and we haven't done yet (in our nearly 2 1/2 yr relationship). I keep MEANING TO but haven't ever started it and neither has he.

I wonder how I should start it? Just TELL Him to do it? Whatcha thinK? Opinions wanted! I probably won't be able to do this for at LEAST 2 wks due to my schedule...

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awh that's too bad. I almost can FEEL the sadness in your post! (am I wrong?)

This is something I WANT to do with my boyfriend and we haven't done yet (in our nearly 2 1/2 yr relationship). I keep MEANING TO but haven't ever started it and neither has he.

I wonder how I should start it? Just TELL Him to do it? Whatcha thinK? Opinions wanted! I probably won't be able to do this for at LEAST 2 wks due to my schedule...

game of truth or dare??????

Glenn

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I used to do this with my ex, but I haveb't with my fiance *yet*. He doesn't masturbate that I've ever seen and we've been living together for six months now. I'm going to work on it though. Hopefully he'll be open to it, as it's one of my favorite things to do.

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Wow, a woman that likes to watch men masterbate? Well, the reason no one ever admits to it is because there's a huge lack of women with your interests. If I tell anyone I masterbate, they run like crazy, even though it's 99% change that they do it themselves, even if I tell a guy for damn sakes.

Everyone needs to be more open about sexuality, blame the christians.

IF YOU'RE GONNA START BLAMING CHRISTIANS....just remember David who struck down ((read that he stomped a giant dufus)) ole Goliath with 1 stone. David must have been a RANGER SNIPER. 1S1K

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I love doing this if my partner is enthusiastic about it also. It's even better when she does the same or even helps out. I love to watch her also and am not shy about helping either!

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interesting idea....I don't know though, it doesn't seem "our style" if that makes sense. LOL.

LOL

That what makes it so much fun, wake him up out of a sleep with a BJ or a hot fuck and tell him you couldnt resist after the dream you had that made you soak and wet. then tell him it was about you catching him masterbating. then keep dropping hints you cant get it out of your mind and ask him flirtasiously you want to see him do it.

Glenn

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IF YOU'RE GONNA START BLAMING CHRISTIANS....just remember David who struck down ((read that he stomped a giant dufus)) ole Goliath with 1 stone. David must have been a RANGER SNIPER. 1S1K

Tolerance is a one way street, christians are not tolerated by then self proclaimed opened mindness ones.

We must do Ramadan but hell with christmas yet alot of non-christans seem to like doing christmas

Glenn,(who masturbates as a christian and has sex with his wife)

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awh that's too bad. I almost can FEEL the sadness in your post! (am I wrong?)

This is something I WANT to do with my boyfriend and we haven't done yet (in our nearly 2 1/2 yr relationship). I keep MEANING TO but haven't ever started it and neither has he.

I wonder how I should start it? Just TELL Him to do it? Whatcha thinK? Opinions wanted! I probably won't be able to do this for at LEAST 2 wks due to my schedule...

If 'what' you want to start is mutual masturbation, by all means tell him you want to!

as there are a lot of hangups about doing something like that in front of someone, if your SO knows you want to watch and play together then he will most likely be glad to !

Worked for My Lovely girl and I :D

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Shoop,

Go down on him, and while you're licking his balls, grab his hand and put it on his cock. He'll get the idea (and in my opinion it's a HUGE turn on!)

hmmm, good idea. Now I just have to decide "when". Oddly it never seems like the "right time". LOL.

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Shoop,

Go down on him, and while you're licking his balls, grab his hand and put it on his cock. He'll get the idea (and in my opinion it's a HUGE turn on!)

GUESS WHAT? I finally got him to do it! Basically after we'd had a few drinks he took his pants off and somehow we ended up talking, me coyly asking him "how do you get that hard?" and him (I could see his mind ticking, trying to figure out if I REALLY wanted him to touch him self for real or if it was "just a question", yk? And he did a few quick movements and said "like this" and I held out, saying "no, I didn't quite get that...how do you do it again?"...very coyly, while I 'pretended' to have my hands busy with something else so I could possibly touch him, but keeping my eyes on him every second....anyways, that went on for a while and then I took over. :) I think we'll need to do it again, but longer...but thsi time was certainly a "good start"! A very good start!

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Don't give up until he cums for you( self induced) then attack that thing. You got to see the whole thing he been hiding from you. It an erotic experince for both. Hell I got so excited the other morning with my wife wearing boots getting ready for work I whipped it out and did it for her on the sofa. She was very pleased

Glenn

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I would love to watch my honey masturbate at the same time I masturbate. There are few sights more erotic to me than a woman pleasing herself. And if honey felt the same way about what I was doing it would be awesome.

Another fantasy is to stroke myself but have the tip just inside her wet lips while she massages her clit. REALLY SLOWLY. LOTS OF LUBE. I'm kneeling between her legs & she is on her back with her legs spread & her thighs resting comfortably on mine. Every so often I will take my lubricated dick out and rub it around the outside of her vagina lips and over her clit.

I'd also like to do a variation on a 69, where honey sits on my face and lets me lick her while she simultaneously masturbates. At the same time, I would be stroking my hard cock while she gives the tip a wonderful wet massage with her lips. My tongue mingling with her fingers in & around her vagina, while her lips and my hand stroke my cock would be excruciating.

Not that I've given it that much thought!

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I would love to watch my honey masturbate at the same time I masturbate. There are few sights more erotic to me than a woman pleasing herself. And if honey felt the same way about what I was doing it would be awesome.

It is awesome. We do this pretty often but she normally cums before I do so then I stop and give her oral until she has several more O's before we move on to intercourse or anal if she's really hot.

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It is awesome. We do this pretty often but she normally cums before I do so then I stop and give her oral until she has several more O's before we move on to intercourse or anal if she's really hot.

Man

We enjoy mutual masturbation. Either while we are laying there watching a movie or even in the car. Wherever the mood strikes. It is hot to be watching each other working up to cumming and then seeing each other cumming is oh so great.

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