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Sometimes I fantasize about 2 guys going at it. I figured if guys like girl on girl action I can enjoy guy on guy. The other day I talking with one of my friend and asked her how it was going with her and this guy she had a crush on. It turns out that he's bi and the thought of him with a man was a major turn off for her. I didn't dare mention that that image had the opposite effect on me. I know with sex everyone likes some thing different, but this encounter made me fell like I was weird. Surely I can't be the only girl out there who likes the thought of 2 hot guys getting down and dirty.

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Y'know, I have never understood why women were aroused by hot boy on boy action. I mean, in most cases, if two guys are into each other, you will never be included. I just do not understand the appeal behind something that I can't participate in. For the record, it's not that it turns me off, it just does nothing for me. Of course, I don't much care for porn either, so I suppose that's just me.

Now, stick me in between the two guys, and we have a fantasy I can work with.

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Where it doesn't turn me on to SEE it, I see nothing wrong with it. In fact, I am reading an erotic book right now, and in it, there are 2 male best-friends who are both Bi, and they have sex with each other quite a bit. The author gets into great detail, and it's actually very good. It's called Strange Attractions, by Emma Holly.

There are so many different types of fetishes and fantasies, so please don't feel wierd about what turns you on.

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From a guys perspective. We fantasies about two woman and the odds of that ever happening are 1 in a Zillion. But hey a fantasy is a fantasy. :rolleyes:

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Euphoria, I am with you on this one. I don't like the idea of two women so much, because I just feel left out. I want sex to particiapte in, not just sit back and watch. I also don't like porn, and feel that it is not for everyone, I dont' think it's for anyone really, but that is just my opinion. I think if the sex at home is good enough, there is no need to bring in someone else from either sex to add to the mix.

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Well MikeD, you have clearly NOT had the experience of being WITH 2 women at once! That may change your opinion on this subject - of course, now you are married so that experience has probably sailed. Don't get me wrong, I think sex between 2 people (no matter the gender) who love each other is the BEST sex out there - I do think that some experiences like threesomes or lesbian or gay sex are learning experiences and just the plain "raw" emotion of sex in general!

Sex can be a participatory sport whether it is with one, two or more people. While I agree that same-sex situations do not work for everyone, I have tried and been in these situations and have found them to enrich my sexual repertoire. Now that I am married, I would NEVER bring another person in - I love and respect my hubby way too much and the experiences that I have had in my past help me to keep my current relationship hot and new!

I have many gay friends - and have seen gay porn (and some way too personal moments with my friends). While I can certainly appreciate their bodies, coming together in that intimate way - it doesn't do it for me sexually.

As for the porn thing - that is your opinion and I agree that porn is not for everyone - and that is great. Porn is a fantasy, a sub-reality that some director has tried to frame around people having sex in various ways. In my opinion, if porn is looked at as a voyeuristic event - and not as real life - it can be enjoyable and arousing for many people. It is those persons who think it is real life, or who can not stop watching and putting themselves INTO the porn who have the problems!

This is why I love this forum - so many attitudes and opinions to read!

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Yes, that ship has sailed, but honestly, I was never looking to board it. When I was about 15 and the idea seemed great (4 tits, 4 butt checks to squeeze and spank, and two vaginas to screw!) but part of me has always been pragmatic and realizes that it might be fun for a bit, but the novelty has to wear thin and preferences will be formed leading to an uncomfortable situation. Weather anyone will own up to it, that is the nature of human relationships. You like some people more than others and vice versa, some like you more or less than other people.

I have friends who have done the MFF 3some thign and some say it was the best night of their life and all have differnt takes on the idea, some get in a little trouble for bringing it up more than they should and causing contention, but they want that other person back in bed, they prefer them over their SO. Other friends, guys now, own up and say it was okay, but not nearly as exciting as it is hyped to be. I never bought in to the idea that it is something that everyone should do and I personally just don't care one way or another if someone does it. I hvae a close friend who wants a blow up doll for her and her husband so they can mimic a 3some. She ask if I thought it would be sexy and I had to tell her honestly, not so much. It just doesn't appeal to me, but it might to him and I know it does to her, so I don't dare to judge. I just gave my opinon that it was not really what I would do if I had that kinda money. If TT sent me a doll to try out and all that jazz, I would certainly give it try to see if was something I might enjoy, but is it in my top 20 fantasies, not even close.

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When I first realized I liked the thought of 2 guys together was when I was watching Interview with a Vampire. There was a scene with Brad Pitt and Antonio Banderas. I had already liked both of them before i saw this movie and I was already drooling because both of these hot guys were in the same movie and the were both vampires. (I had already known about that weakness I have for a guy strange eyes and fangs). Anyway, in this scene, Brad pins Antonio up against a wall and their faces are mere inches apart and a single thought came into my mind, "if he kisses him I'm in heaven."

In my fantasies it's more like watching a movie or reading a book. And it's always between two lovers who are desperately in love. My girl/boy fantasies are like that too.

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I would like to start by saying that seeing 2 hot actors on TV is TOTALLY different than seeing 2 guys going at it in real life. While I too have watched movies that I thought "man it would be cool if those two hotties got it on", when I saw it in real life for the 1st time, it was a LOT different, but still very exhilarating for me! I think unless you have this thought more than while watching TV, it is just because they are 2 super hot celebs and what girl (or gay man for that matter) could resist those hot, sweaty bods next to each other. I know that back in my single days, I definitely enjoyed seeing 2 men together, mainly when I was rollin around with em but you are not alone in your thoughts! :D

So, regardless of whether it is in person (and your involved or not) or on TV, it's not abnormal to think that you would enjoy seeing 2 men together. It's just like any other fantasy and there are way too many people in this world for you to be the only one that thinks like that!!! and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise!

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Sometimes I fantasize about 2 guys going at it. I figured if guys like girl on girl action I can enjoy guy on guy. The other day I talking with one of my friend and asked her how it was going with her and this guy she had a crush on. It turns out that he's bi and the thought of him with a man was a major turn off for her. I didn't dare mention that that image had the opposite effect on me. I know with sex everyone likes some thing different, but this encounter made me fell like I was weird. Surely I can't be the only girl out there who likes the thought of 2 hot guys getting down and dirty.

I also like to think about two guys getting deep at it. I am straight but I want to see two men get it deep up their ass. I want them to be bi. I want them to give me some attention but I do not want them to penetrate me in any way. I want one to dominate. ait just turns me on the thought of two guys and nyself,

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I guess I am old fashioned, I want two guys with me in the middle getting all the action. As to two men, to each his own, and two women with a man, nah, kind of greedy, want to be the only woman in that triangle.

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Sometimes I fantasize about 2 guys going at it. I figured if guys like girl on girl action I can enjoy guy on guy. The other day I talking with one of my friend and asked her how it was going with her and this guy she had a crush on. It turns out that he's bi and the thought of him with a man was a major turn off for her. I didn't dare mention that that image had the opposite effect on me. I know with sex everyone likes some thing different, but this encounter made me fell like I was weird. Surely I can't be the only girl out there who likes the thought of 2 hot guys getting down and dirty.

Im with you on that one but it wasnt always like that. I never understood it and though it was gross in the past. In the last year my bf and I have explored a lot together (never with another person) and in the midst of seeing more porn with him and by myself than Id ever thought Id be interested in or care I discovered that the sight of two guys together really does arrouse me. When I was in my early 20's I had a girl on girl experience and it was amazing. She got me off like no man had ever done but I wasnt sold on it. I really like the pole much better than the hole! I do need penetration and I find the lean muscle of a mans body so enticing. And when I find a woman hot she usually has a lean physique, the same way I like my men. Anyway, My bf and I fantatsize a lot about getting it on with another guy. We have an understanding that we would never risk our relationship by taking this into real life and we are content with just fantasizing. We love to tell each other kinky stories while were doing it. Dirty talk is the best and we have become rather good it too! So in the midst of emense fantasies and viewing porn I have found that seeing two hard curvascious cocks together is extremely exciting! I think there is something a little taboo about it too that makes it a turn on. B)

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As usual I find Mikayla's experiences, wisdom and maturity to be far beyond her years. You should have your own talk show little lady!!!!

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As usual I find Mikayla's experiences, wisdom and maturity to be far beyond her years. You should have your own talk show little lady!!!!

Oh thanks Pappy...*blush and bow* - but I am just who I am and it seems to come in handy here! BTW, I do sort of have my own "talking" show - I do almost all the podcasts here - so if you want to give em' a listen - they are certainly a work in progress - I am not so sure I have a 'radio personality' within me!

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From a guys perspective. We fantasies about two woman and the odds of that ever happening are 1 in a Zillion. But hey a fantasy is a fantasy. :rolleyes:

This is very true but a few years ago I was part of two babes at once and it was only once! 9 out of 10, two chicks

can fuck a guy to death! almost did me! I'll stick to one at a time, to young to die! but what a way to go huh?

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Sometimes I fantasize about 2 guys going at it. I figured if guys like girl on girl action I can enjoy guy on guy. The other day I talking with one of my friend and asked her how it was going with her and this guy she had a crush on. It turns out that he's bi and the thought of him with a man was a major turn off for her. I didn't dare mention that that image had the opposite effect on me. I know with sex everyone likes some thing different, but this encounter made me fell like I was weird. Surely I can't be the only girl out there who likes the thought of 2 hot guys getting down and dirty.
** Well now little lady I wouldn't worry one lil bit 'bout you being weird wanting to watch boy on boy. For some months now I've been trying to find a decent gay nitespot to kick it and I finally got lucky. I met a nice gay couple at a PFLAG support group last month and took an instant liking to the oldest guy-he and I get along famously. Like I said I have really had a hankering for some one on one mano a mano interaction and my dreams have begun to come true. I picked up a guy while flirting with 3 other guys...I felt like such a slut-teasing them and touching them right inside the bar. And it felt soooooo natural being hugged from behind while a cutey pie grinds his crotch into my ass. I wish now I had of taken this sweetie off somewhere to.......I am still in the closet with my gayness and will remain there for sometime to come for family reasons. Tho when I am at either club I am 'out' for all intents and purposes. It's hard for me to be the me I am but when I am kickin' it at the Cuff the wall I've spent years building and maintaining around myself comes crashing down. It's kind of like a rebirth for me. The weird thing for me is it feels so natural for me to be with a man when for the last 25 years I was living the straight life. Be like Abby on NCIS. Be true to yourself. You've only been issued one time around this big blue ball....get your moneys worth girl. :) Peace 12GAUGE
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Hey , eye4eye!!! i have enough cock that you wont need to play on skype !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!lol

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I never liked same sex films and the idea of being with a man is not my thing until the fantasy involves a male/female couple then I fantasize about being in a session and with a guy as she watches and encourages directing me to go down on him. It more of a submissive fantasy where she is dom or maybe it a cuckold fantasy. One on one no interest, involve the lady and everything changes. I think it the act which is where the curosity lies, the turn on is her being turned on. The look she has in her expressions, the things she says and the way she says it. For example, I like tasting my own cum so maybe she has me clean her up after her husband and her have gone at it. various themes along those lines. sometimes it a cfnm scene. a pegging scene. It hard to say what actually turns me on to these scenes but from what I noticed it seems to have the dom/sub theme in it all the time

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