Members Angelina Posted June 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 If so, how'd it go? Was it all just fingers and hands, or were toys used? Give some tips as to how you go about having a Masturbation Night, for those who may be "Too Timid" to broach the subject.Thanks to TT I have broached the subject with my hubby and we’re going to have our first one this weekend, with toys his and mine.I’ll let you all know how it goes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nosleepnmesa Posted June 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 15, 2008 My X and I would have nights like this quit often. He would include toys sometimes, and others just fingers and hands. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Angelina Posted June 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 15, 2008 yes it went really well, we will be doing this again.thanks again for helping me over the hurdle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Craftylady Posted August 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2008 Thanks to all of you folks sharing, I finally got my nerve up to ask him to do this. For a long time, as foreplay, I got him to rub himself against my breasts while I worked on myself. Just watching him do that was hot and it never took long for me to be totally ready. But I have wanted to take it a step further for a long time.A few weeks ago we did! OMG. Thought I'd die. As a side note, why would a guy who has watched plenty of porn and obviously has enjoyed fairly frequent solo masturbation for so many years be shy in bed like this? I have always had to initiate anything different. Even having broken the ice, he still seems content to let me take the lead as to how/when/what position most of the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted August 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2008 Thanks to all of you folks sharing, I finally got my nerve up to ask him to do this. For a long time, as foreplay, I got him to rub himself against my breasts while I worked on myself. Just watching him do that was hot and it never took long for me to be totally ready. But I have wanted to take it a step further for a long time.A few weeks ago we did! OMG. Thought I'd die. As a side note, why would a guy who has watched plenty of porn and obviously has enjoyed fairly frequent solo masturbation for so many years be shy in bed like this? I have always had to initiate anything different. Even having broken the ice, he still seems content to let me take the lead as to how/when/what position most of the time. If he has always been this timid it may be a difficult thing to break that habit. The cause of his actions could be any number of things from laziness, being afraid of what you may think if he brings it up, not knowing how to communicate with you about sex, and the list could run forever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted August 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2008 I agree with Pappy. It's probably hard for him to discuss things yet if this is quite new. Keep working on the communication. It sounds like you've come a long way! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Craftylady Posted November 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted November 7, 2009 We totally did it!He planned a whole "night on the living room floor in front of the fire" thing a couple nights ago. I swear, if I'd known it would be this easy to get him revved up, I'd have started a long time ago!Well anyway, I digress.This little vibrating egg toy has been the best thing to happen to our sex life, I tell you. He is enjoying it so much, and I'm enjoying using it on him more than you can imagine.Long story short, I said I wanted to "just watch" for a while. He got right down to business, no shyness at all. After a little bit I began using the egg on him, and really concentrating on the anal area. The expression on his face was priceless. We played for such a long time, it was just awesome. And then when he finished, I showed him how I do myself. Finally, my fantasy came true. It was more awesome than I thought it would be, too. I'm a happy girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted May 4, 2010 Members Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 Yep recently.... It can be very HOT!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mudshark Posted May 8, 2010 Members Report Share Posted May 8, 2010 We totally did it!He planned a whole "night on the living room floor in front of the fire" thing a couple nights ago. I swear, if I'd known it would be this easy to get him revved up, I'd have started a long time ago!Well anyway, I digress.This little vibrating egg toy has been the best thing to happen to our sex life, I tell you. He is enjoying it so much, and I'm enjoying using it on him more than you can imagine.Long story short, I said I wanted to "just watch" for a while. He got right down to business, no shyness at all. After a little bit I began using the egg on him, and really concentrating on the anal area. The expression on his face was priceless. We played for such a long time, it was just awesome. And then when he finished, I showed him how I do myself. Finally, my fantasy came true. It was more awesome than I thought it would be, too. I'm a happy girl C-Lady! Nice that he discovered something he was missing out on and that it sparked your sex life. One thing that has kept my wife and I physically attracted to each other and monogamous has been open-mindedness and the willingness to experiment on each other. I, too, got into the toys being used on me as well. I will never forget the first time my wife used a strap-on on me. I got real turned on by that...As for a masturbation session, we do that occasionally. Sometimes, it follows intercourse or oral. We get the urge to watch each other get off. I love the way she fingers her hot little pussy. She gets it soaking wet and then licks the glistening juice off her fingers with her tongue, nice and slowly. mmmmmmm, hot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hyokahey Posted May 10, 2010 Members Report Share Posted May 10, 2010 Revisiting all the sexual things that we originally discounted earlier in our relationship and reconsidering them in our maturity can pay great dividends. Most folks are uncomfortable a bit with self stimming in front of their partner because they are self conscious and it creates a feeling of being an exhibitionist. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted May 10, 2010 Members Report Share Posted May 10, 2010 Revisiting all the sexual things that we originally discounted earlier in our relationship and reconsidering them in our maturity can pay great dividends. Most folks are uncomfortable a bit with self stimming in front of their partner because they are self conscious and it creates a feeling of being an exhibitionist.Another example of what familiarity and time can bring. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mailahn97 Posted June 27, 2011 Members Report Share Posted June 27, 2011 I thought this would be something to bump back up. Since I commented on this three years ago...wow. We have done this and it took me some getting used to. Now we enjoy doing this. He would have me start using a toy and then from watching he would start stroking himself. Sometimes he will come over and have me suck him while I am using a toy on myself.It is also nice to mix it up so that things don't get boring. Being able to see him at the moment of orgasm as he is pleasing himself is such a turn on as I am sure he feels the same watching me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members JJ_Amie Posted July 6, 2011 Members Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 When I injured my knee in a softball game, we couldn't do alot. She couldnt get on top because the brace went from hip to knee and for that reason I couldn't get on top either. we did it. No toys , just our hands. My wife didn't like it as much as usual, because she likes to feel me closer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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