Members sexysandra Posted August 8, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 8, 2005 I have never had an orgasm except for a couple of times during my sleep while dreaming about sex. I've recently started masturbating to teach myself to orgasm but it's not working. I find that my clitoris gets too senstive when I get close and it actually gets painful. Anyone experience this or have any suggestions?P.S. I've had GGREAT sex for many years! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members crazy1 Posted August 8, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 8, 2005 do you use toys? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sexysandra Posted August 8, 2005 Author Members Report Share Posted August 8, 2005 yes, I have a penis shaped vibrator. I like it but I find that I like the feel of actual flesh better (my fingers or really an actual penis would be best!!) I get aroused enough, it's just that the sensitivity of my clitoris is too high I think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members silver beard Posted August 8, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 8, 2005 yes, I have a penis shaped vibrator. I like it but I find that I like the feel of actual flesh better (my fingers or really an actual penis would be best!!) I get aroused enough, it's just that the sensitivity of my clitoris is too high I think.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Hasn't anyone ever eaten you to an orgasm. If not I am volunteering Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sexysandra Posted August 8, 2005 Author Members Report Share Posted August 8, 2005 silver beard,several men have pleasured me with oral sex. No orgasm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members silver beard Posted August 8, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 8, 2005 silver beard,several men have pleasured me with oral sex. No orgasm.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Too bad, It has happened with me on rare occasions. I always felt like a failur. Though I stll enjoyed eating pussy. Men are so easy, I always shoot when someone sucks me, lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Jenna05 Posted August 9, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted August 9, 2005 I have never had an orgasm except for a couple of times during my sleep while dreaming about sex. I've recently started masturbating to teach myself to orgasm but it's not working. I find that my clitoris gets too senstive when I get close and it actually gets painful. Anyone experience this or have any suggestions?P.S. I've had GGREAT sex for many years!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hot-pants-kate Posted September 13, 2005 Members Report Share Posted September 13, 2005 ....................I think You should find that you will get better and better at having orgasms the more you have, and you will be able to instruct your partners as to what they can do to get you there. Have fun.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Yes, right on Howard. I have found this very true. Years ago (you'de think i was old, lol) it took me much longer, but now i can climax just when i want by concentrating about it in my mind. And concentrate on the next one for me too. And the next........Where did you learn all this John? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 12GAUGE Posted September 16, 2005 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2005 YES JOHN WHERE DID U LEARN ALL THIS STUFF ABOUT WOMEN??? IF I KNEW HALF THE STUFF YOU KNOW I'D PROBABLY BE LATE 4 WORK ALL THE TIME AND NOT WORTH A SHIT WHEN I GOT THERE CUZ I WOOD BE IN LALA LAND AND I BET I WOOD BE GITTIN' A L O T M O R E THAN I DO NOW AND W/WOMEN NOT JUST BY MYSELF SOLO.....sigh....... kisses everyone and especially you kate...lol 12gauge Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie LoveInPink Posted September 22, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted September 22, 2005 I'm just about the same way. I can sometimes get to a clitorial orgasm, but have never experienced one while having sex. It can get quite fustrating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie damazing Posted November 28, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted November 28, 2005 Sexy Sandra.........i had that problem too, i just started cumming 4 years ago. i realized i could only make myself cum a man couldn't. then i wandered if it was b/c i was attracted to women. it is a little of both. you are fine, you just have to find that spot and work it slow.............lataI have never had an orgasm except for a couple of times during my sleep while dreaming about sex. I've recently started masturbating to teach myself to orgasm but it's not working. I find that my clitoris gets too senstive when I get close and it actually gets painful. Anyone experience this or have any suggestions?P.S. I've had GGREAT sex for many years!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kittyblue Posted March 6, 2006 Members Report Share Posted March 6, 2006 Relaxing is everything! I've tried phone sex a bunch of times but have only been able to cum when I'm really relaxed and that's only been a small handful of times... but then, I also say get some KY Jelly! If you rub yourself too long and you're not wet enough with your own juices, you'll rub yourself raw and you'll never cum and it will be too sensitive and almost hurt or really hurt... KY Jelly is wonderful... and watching something that turns you on might help too... sex video Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie bettyboop Posted April 20, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted April 20, 2006 I have the same problem. Have never gotten off naturally, only w/a vibrator. I want to find one that is not heavy or bulky and the "top of the heap" would be handsfree while fucking my man. Anyone have a toy like that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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