Members dazzleme Posted November 17, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 17, 2007 Oooookay, I don't know if this is an actual question more than just wanting to hear from others. My BF and I have been dating for a while now and EVERYTHING is wonderful, absolutely wonderful. I don't remember the last time I have been this happy Anyway, up until dating this guy my dating experiences have been...well...for lack of a better work they have sucked. My ex-husband seemed to always thrive on making me feel like some sort of "freak" because I liked sex and I finally got the point where I just quit having fun (not that we ever really had much anyway).ANYWAY....so for the first time that I can remember I am with a guy who not only deeply cares for me but also encourages those fantasy's and don't make me feel weird for them. We not only get along outside of the bedroom but the fireworks IN the bedroom are to DIE FOR as well . He has gotten to know me and know me well with things that turn me on and also things that don't do it for me (and of course I know him as well) and we have discussed at length different things that make us tick. I've even gone so far as to share my person "porn stash" with him where I have simply recorded things that help get me off when I'm by myself. Something that I have always wanted to do which I find as a HUGE turn on would be to go to a strip-club with him, watch him get a lapdance and then of course I get to take my turned on BF home with ME and we can rock each others world all night long . I've been to strip-clubs before and while I am not bi I will admit that to me watching a nice looking women with a rockin' bod is fun and a turn on, in face in my porno's the girl on girl things to ME is much hotter than anything else. I like looking at other women and I certainly have my own personal "whats hot and whats not" to me as far as women go. I know there are alot of other women who feel the same way and while I have never had that desire to cross over and actually try out the girl thing it is just something as a fantasy that turnes me on. Anyone else done this and IF you have how was your experience? I don't suffer from bouts of jealousy but I also know my limits and what would cause problems with me and someone I am in a serious relationship with. To me this would be a great fanasy for BOTH of us and of course he is turned on by the idea as well . Besides...watching him get turned on but me actually getting to take the HOTTEST guy home is a plus and huge turn on as well.Like I said, I know my own limits and what would be crossing the line personally for me (ie. a threesome is a no go...I know what that would make me feel like). Geez, now that I have a novel going on I'd be interested to hear if anyone else has done something like this and how it was for you and your SO. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dazzleme Posted November 17, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted November 17, 2007 Just for clarification: Are you asking if anyone else has taken their BF, or gone with their BF to a strip club? OR, are you asking if any other women have tried girl on girl sex before? It makes a difference. You have given us actually two fantasied, I believe, although you indicate that you have been to strip clubs before. HowardSee, when I ramble I tend to get lost in the rambling...thanks for asking to clarify!I'm just asking IF anyone has taken their BF, SO, DH etc. to a strip club WITH them....not asking about girl on girl or anything else like that and just what their reaction was and if they enjoyed it etc. I just think it would be a fun thing to do WITH my guy.I've done the 3some thing and it didn't work out (a long time ago) and personally just don't feel it would be something I could personally do with someone I greatly cared and loved BUT something a little more impersonal like going someplace like that with my guy is something that I think is hot and would love to watch his reaction, especially knowing I get to take him home. I'm not interested in girl on girl, I don't mind watching a porno and getting turned on by that but not interested in the actual...I like my man's cock personally Did any of that make sense? Basically through my long winded rambling my question has anyone done that with their SO and if you have did you enjoy it, like it and make for an amazing night? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted November 17, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 17, 2007 My wife and I had gone out with some friends to the bigger city. After dinner my friend and I started a conversation about some of our clubbing days and my wife continually piped in about how disgusting she thought these places were. Apparently she had gotten this from someone who had not been there in a while so we decided that it was time for her to see what these places were really like. It's only fair that a person should enter an establishment before they talk about it like she had. She was clearly expecting to find a whorehouse environment. Although our excursion was for a different purpose it did change her opinion of these places. BTW, I got a blowjob on the way home. My friends wife turned around about two minutes into it and just smiled and told her husband what was happening. She never admitted to liking anything but I think her surprise on the ride home spoke for itself. It was totally out of character for her to even think of something like that in front of others. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dazzleme Posted November 17, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted November 17, 2007 thanks guys Obviously I am bored today with nothing much to do because I feel like I've browsed the forums all day long I think I must be needing my guys attention (and it's a guys night tonight! Yikes! Time for some "personal" time I guess). I've been to strip clubs before and enjoyed it, and Howard you are right, I picked up some tips or "moves" from the way some of the dancers moved their bodies. Thanks Pappy for your imput.....years ago I probably would have been the same way about the clubs but honestly, the women are beautiful (in some places...not in the shady clubs) and interesting to watch. I've been to a few places in a mixed group of guys and girls and found it to be exciting and fun and am looking forward to taking my BF who is a very sexual man as well and is completely turned on by the thought of going with me, I don't think he has ever had a girlfriend who was willing to do something quite like that. Anyway, enough of my ramblings....I probably should get some work done around the house but thank you so much for your imput! I'm looking forward to hearing from the women too and am certainly looking forward to being with my guy AFTER the adventure too...I have a feeling it will be a fun night, but then again all of them with him have been fun nights too. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jesso Posted November 17, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 17, 2007 I've taken my BF to a strip club before. Its great! We both get riled up and then fuck like animals when we get home. He loves watching me get lap dances and tip the ladies Its not an every day kind of thing, but nothing wrong with throwing a lil extra in the honey pot every once in a while. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members moondawg Posted November 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 It's only fair that a person should enter an establishment before they talk about it like she had. She was clearly expecting to find a whorehouse environment. Although our excursion was for a different purpose it did change her opinion of these places.It's funny that you mention that. In Prague, there are brothels that are one hell of a lot nicer than the strip clubs. From an aesthetic point of view.R&D 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted November 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 I love to go to strip clubs - I find most of the women to be very attractive - and I love my man's reaction to the women. I also love lap dances for myself - as well as my hubby. I find that going to a strip club can really make the rest of the night exciting - in more ways than 5! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MysticalDesire Posted November 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 Me and my ex used to go to the strip clubs together all the time. The women love to see girlfriends and wives at the strip club. I think that it turns them on dancing for us. My ex and I would stay and drink and dance at te strips clubs and then go home and have hot wild sex. I guess it doesn't help that I am a bit bi-curious and love to see a womens vagina or breasts in my face! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Infahmust Posted December 6, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 Actually, I have a question myself? I want to take my boyfriend with me to the strip club, not only for him but for my experience too. But he doesn't want to go with me or at all for that matter. What does this mean? I am just trying to prove to him that I too am a sexual person and I am turned on by this. what does this mean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 I'm trying to refresh some old topics. I thought this one was a pretty interesting. I'd love to see some of our newer members respond to this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RC4BLUE Posted July 3, 2015 Members Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 Ok here is something a lot of people fins surprising, I have never been to a strip club. The only way I would go or want to go is with a partner. I think it would be a lot of fun with the right woman. But alone, I just don't see the point. I would want to have some one to play with. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team l8niter Posted July 5, 2015 Review Team Report Share Posted July 5, 2015 I know my girl wouldn't hesitate going to a strip clup with me and I would buy her a lap dance for her enjoyment 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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