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Last night i was talking with my SO and I told him we should play some good music while having sex. I've masturbated very well to some good beat music, thusting whatever I was using to get me off onto my clit, along with the beats of the music. I LOVE IT! Since I've started having sex less then a year ago, I really wanted to try putting on some tunes while having sex. I have a few songs that I want to compose into a "Sex Mix" like Beyonce's 'Hip Hop Star' ooooo that song makes me wanna mooooove with the BEAT!

BUT as I was talking about my mix, he told me he cant have any words in the music, and it cant be strong music or else he'll get distracted from sex.

WHAT??!! Noooooooooo! :( So I suppose there is no changing his mind. (I was thinking of just using my Ipod while having sex, so I can have what I want, and he can have silence)

But what I really wanted to know is what most couples prefer. No music? Slow music? Music with sounds?

~MK

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Last night i was talking with my SO and I told him we should play some good music while having sex. I've masturbated very well to some good beat music, thusting whatever I was using to get me off onto my clit, along with the beats of the music. I LOVE IT! Since I've started having sex less then a year ago, I really wanted to try putting on some tunes while having sex. I have a few songs that I want to compose into a "Sex Mix" like Beyonce's 'Hip Hop Star' ooooo that song makes me wanna mooooove with the BEAT!

BUT as I was talking about my mix, he told me he cant have any words in the music, and it cant be strong music or else he'll get distracted from sex.

WHAT??!! Noooooooooo! :( So I suppose there is no changing his mind. (I was thinking of just using my Ipod while having sex, so I can have what I want, and he can have silence)

But what I really wanted to know is what most couples prefer. No music? Slow music? Music with sounds?

~MK

Personally I like music and so does my BF...we usually end up putting on a good CD and depending on our mood it can either be a soft, sweet making love kind of music or harder rock where we just are tearing each others clothes off.

Our most recent CD which I found to be very very good to have sex to has been Kid Rock, specifically the 2 songs of "So Hott" and "Sugar tonight" which both have a great driving beat and I could really get moving well too ;) I should just make a mixed CD of various music or better yet (thanks to you!) make a playlist on my IPod with some songs. GREAT idea!

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hmmm. thats a new one. I love music on during sex. Sometimes it can create a whole different atmosphere for motion and mood. Depending on what music is on, it can be slow and saultry, fast and hard, etc. etc. etc. Have you asked him why? Getting distracted seems kind of like a brush off answer to me. Have you asked him to at least try it? Or why he prefers no music? Maybe he just likes to hear sex sounds or you moaning?

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I have no idea. He just said he has to have music on low, and it has to be no words, and such. :unsure:

I will definatly have to talk to him more about it though, cause I hate the silence! My idea of the iPod would seem to solve the problem, but I'd much rather he enjoy it to.

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I have no idea. He just said he has to have music on low, and it has to be no words, and such. :unsure:

I will definatly have to talk to him more about it though, cause I hate the silence! My idea of the iPod would seem to solve the problem, but I'd much rather he enjoy it to.

So your gonna wear headets connected to your Ipod while fucking???? LOL

I sorry I just trying to picture it. I would think the wires would be in the way but then I guess they have wireless ones

Glenn

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LOL i know, sounds silly... but its the only solution i can think of ! ><

no i dont have wireless, but i can think of a few positions where it wouldnt get it the way so much. :)

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yes, music is a big factor in both mine and my darling wifes lives. She is a trained vocalist with a degree in classical music and training, while I work in radio. We recently made a cd of songs that are emotionally significant to us and love to put it on during our romps.

MK, I don't see your SO's point of view, but I am sorta stuck in mine. I guess it take different people to make life interesting. I do know how it could be frusterating. You might try to work him up to some different styles of music or experiment with different genres and start with something that is more ambeint working to increase the volume and style into something you can both agree on. He might like it but he might not. Different strokes for different folks and all. Good luck and good topic!

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He shouldn't knock it until he tries it. Some of the best sex we've ever had was at the ending track to Blade(the movie).

Thurisas.

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Ya know, I think it's a right of pasage, when you're young, to have sex with music playing. Come to think of it, I don't think I can remember a time before I was maybe 22 when I DIDN'T have some kind of music playing while having sex!!! :P

I love having music playing while having sex. Unfortunately, the way our room is set up right now, we don't have even a radio in there. And, since the stereo is in the dining room, we can't have music too loud, or we'd wake the kiddo. I really COULD move my stereo in the bedroom if I wanted, since I can play CDs and listen to the radio here on the computer........something to think about I guess.....

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When my wife and I were on our honeymoon, we stayed in a cabin that had one central stereo and speakers built in to the ceiling on both floors. We kept some sorta music going and we had a whole lotta sex. I love music and just recently did a strip tease for my wife that turned into some awesome sex! I might start a different thread on that one......

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It depends on the mood were in. :)

This one night my boyfriend put some candles around the room and turned the music on low. The music he puts on is very light ambient music. I can definitely feel his soul & I felt like their was magic in the air. ;) Our love making that night was very splendid indeed. :wub:

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So your gonna wear headets connected to your Ipod while fucking???? LOL

I sorry I just trying to picture it. I would think the wires would be in the way but then I guess they have wireless ones

Glenn

i have done the ipod once and it was great...it let me totaly in my own world of pleasure..it felt like a drug!! but all in all i prefere no music and NO tv on!!!

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Last night i was talking with my SO and I told him we should play some good music while having sex. I've masturbated very well to some good beat music, thusting whatever I was using to get me off onto my clit, along with the beats of the music. I LOVE IT! Since I've started having sex less then a year ago, I really wanted to try putting on some tunes while having sex. I have a few songs that I want to compose into a "Sex Mix" like Beyonce's 'Hip Hop Star' ooooo that song makes me wanna mooooove with the BEAT!

BUT as I was talking about my mix, he told me he cant have any words in the music, and it cant be strong music or else he'll get distracted from sex.

WHAT??!! Noooooooooo! :( So I suppose there is no changing his mind. (I was thinking of just using my Ipod while having sex, so I can have what I want, and he can have silence)

But what I really wanted to know is what most couples prefer. No music? Slow music? Music with sounds?

~MK

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Last night i was talking with my SO and I told him we should play some good music while having sex. I've masturbated very well to some good beat music, thusting whatever I was using to get me off onto my clit, along with the beats of the music. I LOVE IT! Since I've started having sex less then a year ago, I really wanted to try putting on some tunes while having sex. I have a few songs that I want to compose into a "Sex Mix" like Beyonce's 'Hip Hop Star' ooooo that song makes me wanna mooooove with the BEAT!

BUT as I was talking about my mix, he told me he cant have any words in the music, and it cant be strong music or else he'll get distracted from sex.

WHAT??!! Noooooooooo! :( So I suppose there is no changing his mind. (I was thinking of just using my Ipod while having sex, so I can have what I want, and he can have silence)

But what I really wanted to know is what most couples prefer. No music? Slow music? Music with sounds?

~MK

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I'm not a big fan of music during sex. It is rather distracting to me since I'm a huge music person but mostly, I want to hear everything that's going on with the two of us. All the sounds, the moans, the wet noises, dirty talk, etc etc etc.......

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We don't listen to music during sex it just interferes with both of us getting into each other, but afterwards would be fine.

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Music is such a huge part of my life, I can't imagine doing anything without it. My "first" introduced me to music during our romps, and I've never looked back. Honestly, anything goes, as long as it's not country. Different tunes for different moods I guess.

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As much as I love listening to music I don't listen to anything during sex. I love hearing a man moan and groan. It excites me. With music, even on low, I feel like it would just be a bother. I've tried it once with Metallica playing in the background and I ended up singing along with it lol. I'll probably try it with my current BF see what he thinks.

It would definitely have to be to Justin Timberlakes new album

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I love music! It is usually playing anytime I am awake. Having said this, usually during love making I prefer making the music with my partner. Her moans, cries, and talk mixed with mine are enough to keep the rhythm rocking.

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