How To Give Yourself Head

[Matthew Dark]

Okay. I give myself head on a regular basis and I find it VERY sensual. As fun as it is to recieve it from a woman, giving it to yourself keeps YOU in control so YOU can decide everything. There are multiple benefits to self BJ. I'll write out some tips on it here.

The most common problem with this is the fact that most men can't get their heads together (sorry, I had to make the pun) i.e. they can't reach their penis with their mouth. It is most likely NOT because your penis is too small as it is more likely that you aren't flexible. Unfortunatley, there is not too much to be done here. I personally am about 7 inches, nothing special so it's not the size. But I AM the most flexible male that I personally know. I can pull my legs over my head while sitting and can twist my arms totally around while my hands are flat on a table. Flexiblity is a key part of the fun, but you can get there.

1) PRACTICE STRETCHING. No joke. Do calesthenics or yoga or martial arts. I do all three and they have helped me stay flexible (although I do them for reasons other than being able to suck myself). If you can't seem to do it, stretch out. The main parts that need stretching are the back, neck, and chest muscles. Practice stretching those out and relaxing them after. Especially helpful excercises are sitting down and spreading your legs while sliding your hands down the center and moving with them. It will help prepare you.

2) POSITION YOURSELF. Once you feel ready to really try it, find the right position. My first was on my back, with my legs in the air, using gravity to help. This position is rather uncomfortable and awkward, even silly, but it's usually the easiest. If you keep practicing, you can get other positions as well. I now usually do it while sitting down and just leaning my head down although I've recently managed to pull it off while standing up. It's also somewhat important to find the angle at which your cock is the longest and adjust BOTH heads to accomidate each other.

3) HANDS FREE. When you first begin, you might need to use your hands to guide yourself there. A HUGE help is wrapping your arms around the back of your legs and pulling yourself in. This helps a LOT. You could even push from beneath a bit to better get it going.

4) GET READY. Make sure you have a lot of saliva. It isn't easy just sliding on in there. You have to be prepared orally. It's better if you haven't easten just recently, but make sure your lips and tongue are wet.

5) GET SPRUNG. It's really hard to suck yourself if YOU aren't hard. Make sure you have a strong erection before you start. Seeing something extremely erotic just before or while you give yourself head will be a surprising help. It could motivate you to be able to do it even if you have been previously unable to.

Don't give up. If you do, you are missing out. I won't lie to you.

It is entirely in your control whether or not you cum in your own mouth or even swallow it. I've tried both before and can give advice on it. It feels GREAT to finish it off completely and cum in your own mouth, but it is unlikely you will find the taste of the cum as great. In fact, I can't blame women who complain about the taste of it, it IS rather unpleasant. I've tried swallowing, but I rarely ever do that anymore. It tends to leave a tingling bitterness in your mouth and will leave a pretty weird taste and smell to your breath. Even if you don't swallow, you will taste it and get the same effect. I recommend rinsing and eating or drinking something very sweet afterward and then brushing your teeth. I've heard that your diet can change the taste of your cum although I am not professional enough to say I know how that works or which foods to eat. I can tell you that the flavor is not so bitter, salty, or strong in general if you haven't cum in a while. If this is your second time that day, then it will taste a little worse.

That's all I can think of. Try it out and lemme know how it works!

[regreats]

hi i tried this twice now but i just cant seem to reach, i stretch quite alot prior to the moment but just cant reach it! i was wondering if you had any more tips ??? i am really interested in doing this.

Okay. I give myself head on a regular basis and I find it VERY sensual. As fun as it is to recieve it from a woman, giving it to yourself keeps YOU in control so YOU can decide everything. There are multiple benefits to self BJ. I'll write out some tips on it here.

The most common problem with this is the fact that most men can't get their heads together (sorry, I had to make the pun) i.e. they can't reach their penis with their mouth. It is most likely NOT because your penis is too small as it is more likely that you aren't flexible. Unfortunatley, there is not too much to be done here. I personally am about 7 inches, nothing special so it's not the size. But I AM the most flexible male that I personally know. I can pull my legs over my head while sitting and can twist my arms totally around while my hands are flat on a table. Flexiblity is a key part of the fun, but you can get there.

1) PRACTICE STRETCHING. No joke. Do calesthenics or yoga or martial arts. I do all three and they have helped me stay flexible (although I do them for reasons other than being able to suck myself). If you can't seem to do it, stretch out. The main parts that need stretching are the back, neck, and chest muscles. Practice stretching those out and relaxing them after. Especially helpful excercises are sitting down and spreading your legs while sliding your hands down the center and moving with them. It will help prepare you.

2) POSITION YOURSELF. Once you feel ready to really try it, find the right position. My first was on my back, with my legs in the air, using gravity to help. This position is rather uncomfortable and awkward, even silly, but it's usually the easiest. If you keep practicing, you can get other positions as well. I now usually do it while sitting down and just leaning my head down although I've recently managed to pull it off while standing up. It's also somewhat important to find the angle at which your cock is the longest and adjust BOTH heads to accomidate each other.

3) HANDS FREE. When you first begin, you might need to use your hands to guide yourself there. A HUGE help is wrapping your arms around the back of your legs and pulling yourself in. This helps a LOT. You could even push from beneath a bit to better get it going.

4) GET READY. Make sure you have a lot of saliva. It isn't easy just sliding on in there. You have to be prepared orally. It's better if you haven't easten just recently, but make sure your lips and tongue are wet.

5) GET SPRUNG. It's really hard to suck yourself if YOU aren't hard. Make sure you have a strong erection before you start. Seeing something extremely erotic just before or while you give yourself head will be a surprising help. It could motivate you to be able to do it even if you have been previously unable to.

Don't give up. If you do, you are missing out. I won't lie to you.

It is entirely in your control whether or not you cum in your own mouth or even swallow it. I've tried both before and can give advice on it. It feels GREAT to finish it off completely and cum in your own mouth, but it is unlikely you will find the taste of the cum as great. In fact, I can't blame women who complain about the taste of it, it IS rather unpleasant. I've tried swallowing, but I rarely ever do that anymore. It tends to leave a tingling bitterness in your mouth and will leave a pretty weird taste and smell to your breath. Even if you don't swallow, you will taste it and get the same effect. I recommend rinsing and eating or drinking something very sweet afterward and then brushing your teeth. I've heard that your diet can change the taste of your cum although I am not professional enough to say I know how that works or which foods to eat. I can tell you that the flavor is not so bitter, salty, or strong in general if you haven't cum in a while. If this is your second time that day, then it will taste a little worse.

That's all I can think of. Try it out and lemme know how it works!

[sexykitty]

just wanted to say that this is a new topic.....just about everything has been on here more then twice and i maybe mistaken but this is a new one.....and interesting i might add....i dont think alot of men are that flexiable....i have to say that the self bj is something i never seen in porn videos.....you may be on to something here lol

[Mikayla1]

Ever heard of Ron Jeremy???

[telecom69]

Ever heard of Ron Jeremy???

A self BJ? Damn, is nothing sacred? To each his own I guess........

Telecom

[curiouser]

I have tried many times over the years, when I was young and fit and now that I am ... not. I have tried many different positions but to no avail. I have, in my attempts, ended up givng myself a facial and swallowing some,. I love both.

[Tyger]

This topic was started quite a while ago, but worth revisiting.

Now, I'm not a guy, but I do know a bit about the male body.... Seriously though...

Not every man will be able to do this. The male body isn't designed to be overly flexible. At least, not as flexible to be able to do self-BJs. The more muscular you are, the less likely you will be able to do this. Muscle tends to get in the way when it comes to being overly flexible. Male bodies were designed, for the most part, to carry, lift, and have strength. Especially the upper-body. It's the way male bodies are designed. Of course, there are exceptions to the norm.

Can it be done? Sure. This topic starter is proof it can.

I would say a really skinny guy, that has been doing stretching for quite a while, could probably do a bit more stretching and maybe get himself there. But it would definitely take some time to get there.

Good luck!

[Kinky Twinkie]

This topic was started quite a while ago, but worth revisiting.

Now, I'm not a guy, but I do know a bit about the male body.... Seriously though...

Not every man will be able to do this. The male body isn't designed to be overly flexible. At least, not as flexible to be able to do self-BJs. The more muscular you are, the less likely you will be able to do this. Muscle tends to get in the way when it comes to being overly flexible. Male bodies were designed, for the most part, to carry, lift, and have strength. Especially the upper-body. It's the way male bodies are designed. Of course, there are exceptions to the norm.

Can it be done? Sure. This topic starter is proof it can.

I would say a really skinny guy, that has been doing stretching for quite a while, could probably do a bit more stretching and maybe get himself there. But it would definitely take some time to get there.

Good luck!

First time I ever heard of such a thing it was as a teen from reading about it in a hustler mag, then I saw a picture of someone doing it. Idea got me hot and I was willing to try, and I was doing martial arts and streaching out. I was felixable but manage to be a few inches shy of reaching the goal. I might be above average in size but I just couldnt get to that point. So the next best way I was ever gonna see what it was like for a gal to get a facial and a taste of cum withou chickening out was to masterbate in that position. It was ok and a interesting experince that helps me to understand what my partner goes through.

Now I don't mind if in the mood of going down on her with my cum on and in her. She likes it and it has made me more uninhibited. Maybe I should try and show her some time

If I can manage at 40...ouch

Glenn

[sexygranny]

Wow, I didn't even know this was possible until I read it here. I guess you do learn something new everyday!

[CGEM]

Damn. I really did read the title correctly... Whoa...

[eye4eye69]

I"ve seen a pic of it, very fun!

 

[prodrag33]

On Wed Feb 08 2017 at 0:53 AM, GirlCrush said:

This post.. Makes me hot!! 

You like the thought of guys giving head?

[Kinkster]

A friend of ours can do it, so we heard anyway. His wife told my wife that before they got married, her husband kept trying to get her to let him cum in her mouth. She wasn't into it. He finally told her that he cums in his own mouth all the time, and it really doesn't taste bad. She told him he had to show her that....she didn't think it was possible. He did!

Got to be flexible for that maneuver, or hung like a horse. 

[Kinkster]

22 minutes ago, GirlCrush said:

Hi Kinkster.. That's crazy

And also crazy, was she told a bunch of people about it! Sounds like he was quite flexible.....she was very descriptive when she told  people about it at a party. The power of wine!

[Kinkster]

2 minutes ago, GirlCrush said:

I bet it made jaws drop Lol

Well....my wife said it sure did! Eyes bugged and mouths wide open.

it was at a sex toy party, but still.....

[Kinkster]

4 minutes ago, GirlCrush said:

I use to love those parties..

So did I! 

She always came back all horned up and with a new idea or three! Always wondered how many women got their husbands to try blowing themselves after that party! 

[Kinkster]

2 minutes ago, GirlCrush said:

Its funny cause I remember when they 1st started.. Most woman never really talked about dildos with each other.. Most of the party was kinda like playing hot potatoes. boy times have changed lol and thank god it did

My understanding of the parties, the first thing that went on was wine and coctails, to loosen up the lips.....so to speak! 

They did all the ordering in a private room with the host....

[Stronghands]

I was asked by my wife to try this.  It's actually easier with two people because the second person, my wife was able lean on my legs, pushing them down so my cock was closer to my mouth.  I was able to get around 2" in my mouth.  She used her left hand to reach down and stroke me until I came..  it was Kinda hot but won't be a common act

[Kinkster]

9 minutes ago, Stronghands said:

I was asked by my wife to try this.  It's actually easier with two people because the second person, my wife was able lean on my legs, pushing them down so my cock was closer to my mouth.  I was able to get around 2" in my mouth.  She used her left hand to reach down and stroke me until I came..  it was Kinda hot but won't be a common act

Well, as long as nothing got broke, like your back, why not?  

[Taco]

Woahh u did it back in 2005! i didn't know old ppl were that kinky~
oh btw umm..can girls give themselves a head too (੭ु˙꒳˙)੭ु⁾⁾? or u think its quite impossible? 

[Ryan]

I use to be able to do it when i was younger ,more flexible ect. Its fun. I did the legs over my head and in the air. My penis is only 5.5” hard. Cumming in your own mouth is hot! I also agree not the best tasting. I swallow it and quick 😝

[Rio]

If anybody here can do it I'm sure a lot of us would like to see pictures

[curiosity 82]

I first heard about self sucking about five years ago. There was a tutorial on an adult website that caught my attention. It showed a few necessary stretching exercises for the neck and lower back. I did the stretching exercises and decided to try the position the man in the tutorial was in (laying on my back with my legs pulled over my head). I decided to repeat the stretching exercises as well as edging a few times to ensure a full erection and flexibility. I pulled my legs over my head and with little effort I was able to go about an inch past the head of my penis. I was so amazed because I didn't think it would happen. Although I didn't achieve orgasm the first time, I was able to after I tried it again and felt more comfortable with it.

[Wondering999]

I've been able to suck myself since I  was 13. By the time I reached 16 I was able to get the head down my throat. Btw..my cum has always and still is a salty sweet load. Very thick with a creamy texture and a lot of it.

[Rio]

1 hour ago, Wondering999 said:

I've been able to suck myself since I  was 13. By the time I reached 16 I was able to get the head down my throat. Btw..my cum has always and still is a salty sweet load. Very thick with a creamy texture and a lot of it.

Are you still able to do it? Would like to see pictures or videos of that