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I would love to take a cruise to Alaska and make love to my fiancee in every place and position we can find. When we get there stay in an isolated cabin for maybe 3 or four days, with lots of sex in the woods, near scenic lakes, anywhere in the outdoors really. If not that then I think the sex with the ghost thing in Ghostbusters look fun in a twisted way. :blink:

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lol one more

I think that having a female dom work with the both of us together, giving us orders on what we had to do to each other and punishing us when we didn't obey. I would want the Dom to be a coach or observant and not an actual participant though unless it was maybe masturbating watching us. Kinda selfish but I'm deep down a one woman man.

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To hook up with my one friend, she is amazing and drop dead even tho she dont think so. I have played it out in my head and had dreams about it and when i remember my dreams they are very vivid. It may sound odd but i have lived most of my fanstasys. It sucks when you are 22 and you have lived most of them. This is one that i can never have tho, she thinks all i want from her is sex which sucks when i would sooner have a relationship and sex as a side product of it. But i got of track, it would be to give her a round and see who could each who more.

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Why do some guys not want to say what their fantasies are? When I ask mine I get the standard "I dunno" response. Arggh it is so frustrating sometimes.

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Why do some guys not want to say what their fantasies are? When I ask mine I get the standard "I dunno" response. Arggh it is so frustrating sometimes.

Most guys are afraid that their SO will think they are a perv or worse laugh which would be a huge blow to our fragile egos. Oddly enough though most often we're really surpised when we do leak out one of our fantasies and our SO is actully willing and turned on by it. Still we're never totally at ease of confident enough to express our fantasies openly for fear of rejection.

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Most guys are afraid that their SO will think they are a perv or worse laugh which would be a huge blow to our fragile egos. Oddly enough though most often we're really surpised when we do leak out one of our fantasies and our SO is actully willing and turned on by it. Still we're never totally at ease of confident enough to express our fantasies openly for fear of rejection.

Understood, but we would not ask if we didn't care.

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It could be that the guy is just thinking "Am I getting laid frequently enough? If so, does it matter what my fantasies are?" or conversely "We never have sex anyway, so what the heck does it matter?"

My personal fantasy is to just have my partner have a very commanding presense in the bedroom. Not a dom or anything like that, just very sure of what is going to happen and very much in control of the whole situation. I get very excited whenever my wife has even a hint of an attitude like this.

Thurisas.

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That's one area my husband sucks at (and not a "good" kinda sucking either). I've gotten the same "I dunno" response. I'm like you HAVE to fantasize. Everyone does. He says, no, that he's happy with me, so he doesn't NEED too. Or that I've fulfilled ALL of his fantasies. WHAT? Just because you fantasize, doesn't mean you're unhappy. And, your imagination should always be working, so WTF??

One of mine, he's already done (with another woman waaaaaaaaaay back when....). I'd LOVE to have sex on a horse (with a saddle, and not WITH the horse!! LOL). He didn't seem overly thrilled with that, since he's done it already, but I told him that to get him started. Didn't work. :rolleyes:

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I'd LOVE to have sex on a horse (with a saddle, and not WITH the horse!! LOL).

HAHAHA, I misread that on my first pass and you had me worried there for a second! :lol:

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well this thread got jacked.

My fantasy is to make my wife a willing slave. For her to be all that I want and nothing less. To have her put all her energy in to fulfilling my needs. Like every good slave, the more you perform, the more you are rewarded.

As for why guys don't share, not many men sit around and think about what is sexy or day dream about their lovers. It's usually more of a knee-jerk reaction, there is something a guy wants to bang, either they get to bang it or they jerk off. I think guys who don't masturbate as much are more open to fantasies, but I can be wrong at any given time. Most of the guys I know, just don't think about it. That is why most men watch porn. It does all the hard work for them.

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hey now, i could post my full fantasy but it would read more like a short story. just a quick over view of it to someone took around 40 fully texted out pages on my phone. she liked it to :D

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Another thought we men have is kinda like: "Yea, yer asking, but you don't REALLY want my answer, just like when you ask me: 'does my ass look fat in these jeans?'

Has anyone ever answered yes to that question? My wife could ask me that a hundred times a day, and even if it did look FAT (which it doesn't, so I don't know why it is even asked) I don't think I would want to suffer the consequences of saying yes. You get the same thing when you bring up the fantasy thing. If it is not on her list, you are the perv. It's like when you are discussing sex with a group of friends. Things get said you didn't know and you say, Wow, I'll try that. And then when you bring it up in private, it is like, You are one sick puppy.

As far as my fantasy, would love to tie her up and do all the great things I could to her and make her come a thousand times.

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No offense guys....but yawn. The women at least used adjectives in their fantasies. Keep trying.

Okay...fine, I'll elaborate on mine.

I would love to walk through the door after work some evening and find my wife standing there waiting for me in a half-t and panties. She doesn't say a word and just holds my hand and leads me to the bedroom. There, on the bed resting on a towel are several toys, all laid out and ready to go with batteries and lube. She turns to me, kisses me very deeply and then slowly kisses her way around my face and then down my neck. A nice firm bite on my neck and then she could kiss her way down as she takes my clothes off. She gives me a teasing amount of oral...just enough to give me a small taste of what could be to come. She backs up and lays down on the bed and pulls me on top of her. She kisses me deeply and then bares her own neck. I know instantly what she wants because she can practically orgasm just from the right type of bite. I oblige, my hands running over her exposed stomach and teasing at her breasts. I kiss my way down her body this time, making sure to hit all of those spots on the way down that gets a moan or a pleasurable squirm. Her panties come off now and I find my way between her legs with my tongue to start. Her first orgasm comes quickly as it almost always does. I move up to kiss her again as she comes down from her orgasm, deeply.

Her hand reaches over and selects the first of the toys. A bullet. I play the bullet down her body and once again find my way between her legs. A bit of lube to make the play easier over her clit and her second orgasm bursts forth quickly. Another toy selection by her and a vibe is put into my hand. It glides in easily at this point, the vibrations strong like she likes them. The bullet again goes to her clit and her third, more powerful orgasm ensues. She rolls over and does another toy selection, the glass anal plug and once again, enough lube for her comfort and pleasure. The glass plug goes in, the vibe slides inside her, and I press the bullet to the base of the plug. Orgasm number four is short in coming. The vibe comes out and is replaced by me. I can feel each bump on the glass plug still inside her. I keep the bullet pressed to the base of the plug and take her from behind. During her fifth orgasm, I ease the plug out, helping to intensify the feelings and I am letting go myself now as well. We collapse in a sweaty heap on the bed.

Of course we move to the shower to clean up. More hugging and kissing and we wrap the whole night up with a few more orgasms for her as I take her from behind in the shower. We go to bed exhausted, spooning.

Happy now?

Randy.

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I have several hot favs that I fantasize about. I wrote this one to my wife recently. It got her really hot!!!

Hey baby! Feeling a little frisky thinking about you and was getting turned on by the thought of us role playing. Wanna hear what's on my dirty little mind? Mmmmm, thought you would.

Well, I was thinking of a situation in a public place. An elevator would be difficult to do it in, right? But, maybe if it happens this way, it might just work. It's mid-day in a busy Manhattan office building. I'm waiting at the lobby level and get in the next elevator. Three other people get on with me. The first two get off at the eighth floor and the third one on 14. Little do I know that also on the 14th floor is a hottie in a short black skirt, boots and a tight sweater. It's you waiting to get on and go to your bosses business associate on an upper floor. You walk in and we make eye contact, the two of us alone on the elevator. I flash a little smile towards you and you look back curiously, me not knowing what to make of you. All I know is I like what I see.

The doors to the elevator close and the car hesitates for a minute before going up stairs. We look at each other and you say, "Thought we were going to get stuck," in a way that tells me that you would have dreaded that. So, I reply to you, "Would that be that bad?" You look at me and say, "You like getting stuck in elevators," as if I am a bit nuts? I smile and say,"Maybe if I were alone rather than being stuck with a beautiful woman, I'd feel more like that." You look at me with a mixed look. Part of you was saying, "You come near me and I will rip your balls off," and part saying, "Mmmm, that might be hot." You choose to just smile a little and look forward as the elevator moves up.

We are heading towards floor # 25 when the elevator lurches to a stop. You start to freak out a little. You turn to me and say, "Did you do this?" I look back at you in amazement. Then, angrily, you say, "There! You got what you wanted. A Beautiful girl and a stuck elevator." I start laughing and say, "Honey, I didn't wave a magic wand and order this up. It's quite a coincidence, I admit. But, we'll get out." You look at me and say, "You're not going touch me, are you?" "Not unless you want me to," I say coyly. "Let's get some help," you say, spoiling that ray of hope that I had. "And I thought I had a chance for a minute there," I say. You look at me and say, "You can't be fucking serious." Didn't you ever want to do it in a public place," I asked? "Hey, I don't have to discuss this with you, you sick fuck," you yell back. Ok, ok, I'm sorry," I said. "I mean, these building guys are never around. Probably be an hour before they answer the call, assuming we make it." I smile at that. I could see the racier side of your character taking over and saying, "You really think we could get away with it?"

"It's a perfectly good opportunity to find out," I say. "Also 'cause there ain't no way it's going to happen again to either of us." You look me up and down a little and then say, "I think the phone is out of order." "We may and well just ride it out," I say. We take a step towards each other and can't hold out anymore. I pull you closer to me and our faces are almost touching. I can feel your hot breath on me as you can from me. "This is nuts, you know," you say. "But it's hot, too," I add. We then touch our faces together softly. I use my tongue to trace a trail around your lips. Then, I gently push it into your mouth. You accept my tongue and push back with yours.

We kiss and embrace for a minute or two, me reaching around a squeezing your ass. I also use my hands on your nice firm tits. I push your sweater up and feel them through your bra. You reach down to the half hard penis pushing against my pants. At this point, we are so fucking turned on by this whole experience that we start pulling each other's clothes off. I get your sweater over your head and then pull your half undone bra off, too. You are yanking my shirt off as I pull your bare chest against mine, feeling those wonderful tits against me.

You then get on your knees and start to undo my pants. "I'm going to suck your fucking cock," you say to me. You pull my pants half-way down and then wrap your hand around the hardening cock. You start to pump my dick until it gets almost fully hard. Then, you open your mouth wide and wrap it around the throbbing hard-on, barely touching the shaft. Your tongue lashes out to tease my cock. Ooooooooooooooooo, feels so fucking good baby. You then close your mouth over my hard penis and, oh, does that feel soooooo fucking good. You start sucking on it aggressively as it gets rock hard in your mouth. You take every inch down to your throat. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, so fucking hot!

I could blow my load in your mouth, but I take your head and push it off my cock, instructing you to get up. You stand and I turn you around and bend you over. I lift up that little black skirt and undo it. You have sexy black panties on under them. I yank them off you and spank your ass cheeks, one at a time. You squeal a little, but I ask you if you want to get fucked? You say yes, but it wasn't horny enough for me. So, I grab your hair with a gentle yank and ask you again. You say, "Yes! Yes! I want you to fuck me! Fuck me hard with that hard fucking cock! FUCK ME!!

You grab the rail on the side of the elevator and bend over. I kneel behind you and take a minute to lick your hot wet pussy. I run my tongue up to your asshole and tease the tight little hole. I stick a finger in you cunt while I lick at your ass. I make my tongue firm and push it into your asshole as far as I possibly can. You moan and squirm, loving what I am doing to your body in an elevator in a busy Manhattan building at the height of business hours. I spit on your ass and push a finger up inside. Then, I add a finger and fuck your asshole with them. I spit on your cunt and rub my fingers in, lubing you as I prepare to penetrate you from behind.

I place my cock head at the entrance of your pussy. You are so wet that it doesn't take much to get buried all the way inside your hot little cunt. I start riding your ass cheeks, my balls smacking against your clit. I gently tug at your hair. "Fuck me harder!! Oooohhhhhhhhh!!!!!," you yell out loud. You feel a big orgasm coming. I fuck you slow and smooth, and then slam inside your cunt. You get ready to cum. "Fuuuuuuuuuuuuccccckkkkkkkkkk me!," you scream. oooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, fuck yes!!!!!!!! Cuuuummmmmmmmm!!!

You orgasm for almost a minute. Then, I feel the cum churning up in my balls. You turn around and take my cock into your mouth. You suck the hard shaft and I feel the orgasm building. I hold it back and hold it back. I hold back the cum and then, when I can't take it anymore, I less go and it cums right into your waiting mouth. You suck it all in until you drain my cock. You hold the cum in your mouth and I tell you to show it to me. You do in a hot sexy way and then you swallow every drop of it.

We compose ourselves and you say, "No one would believe this, right?" I smile and say, "It's our secret." You pick up the phone and say, "Hey. this works."

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"Hey. this works."

Hmmmm why yes, yes it does!! Whew! HOTTTTT

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That's one area my husband sucks at (and not a "good" kinda sucking either). I've gotten the same "I dunno" response. I'm like you HAVE to fantasize. Everyone does. He says, no, that he's happy with me, so he doesn't NEED too. Or that I've fulfilled ALL of his fantasies. WHAT? Just because you fantasize, doesn't mean you're unhappy. And, your imagination should always be working, so WTF??

Sorry Tyg, but I'm boring too. When I was married, all I needed to think about was my wife while I was alone and feeling frisky. Of course, it came back to bite me when we got divorced. Anytime I fantisized, she would always pop up in my thoughts. Then I'd get sad and lose it. Still happens to this day.

So I guess to answer the thread...my best fantasy would be to have my wife back. I therefore remain.....

....SadPuppy

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This is really more of a detailed explanation of my fantasy rather than an actual story.

Thinking of this was tricky for me because my wife and I have a really fantastic sex life, and she has already made most of my fantasies come true.

One of my few remaining fantasies is a voyeuristic one. My wife, who I happen to think is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, is a little insecure about herself in regards to her looks. And so she is not very comfortable with the idea of other people seeing her or myself naked. But I always thought that it would be really hot to have other people watch us during sex, and not just on video, but live. And also not infront of complete strangers, but actual people who know us.

Let me prefice this by saying that I am very jealous man and I love my wife more than anyone in the whole world. So there's no way that I would ever feel comfortable with any man touching her or vice versa.

I picture it happening this way more or less. We go away for a weekend with another couple, stashed away up somewhere in a hotel or cottage. We go out for a really nice dinner, maybe see a band, have some drinks. After the bars close we decide to head back to the hotel for some more drinks and friendly conversation. As we're sitting there talking and laughing, my wife and I start to get a little frisky infront of this other couple. It begins with a little back rub, maybe a little kiss on the lips, a little kiss on the neck...nothing major...as we both get more and more comfortable she starts to caress my thigh and it slowly evolves from her hand on my thigh to heavy kissing and tongue. Her hand now begins touching my cock over my pants and following the contours of my shaft. I get more and more aroused and without even blinking I pull her really tightly towards me and begin to feel her ass. While all this is happening I remember that the other couple is sitting right there staring at us the whole time. I take a quick glance out of the corner of my eye, and I can see that they are not bothered at all by what's taking place. In fact it seems to be having the opposite effect, so we both decide to continue. Her and I both realize what's about to happen and we become more aroused by it.

I start to tear her clothes off and mine in the process, and I get on top of her and start kissing her naked breasts, licking her nipples and rubbing my cock on her naked pussy. At which point I decide that it's time to take it to the next level. We do it in as many possitions as we can possibly imagine for as long as we can. Oral, missionary, doggie style, her on top of me, 69...the works. When it's all done, the other couple is so turned on that they decide to do the same thing and now it's our turn to relax and watch. And as we sit there and watch them go at it we become turned on again and just decide to keep having sex, all night, for as long as we can, and as hard as we can.

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This is really more of a detailed explanation of my fantasy rather than an actual story.

Thinking of this was tricky for me because my wife and I have a really fantastic sex life, and she has already made most of my fantasies come true.

One of my few remaining fantasies is a voyeuristic one. My wife, who I happen to think is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, is a little insecure about herself in regards to her looks. And so she is not very comfortable with the idea of other people seeing her or myself naked. But I always thought that it would be really hot to have other people watch us during sex, and not just on video, but live. And also not infront of complete strangers, but actual people who know us.

Let me prefice this by saying that I am very jealous man and I love my wife more than anyone in the whole world. So there's no way that I would ever feel comfortable with any man touching her or vice versa.

I picture it happening this way more or less. We go away for a weekend with another couple, stashed away up somewhere in a hotel or cottage. We go out for a really nice dinner, maybe see a band, have some drinks. After the bars close we decide to head back to the hotel for some more drinks and friendly conversation. As we're sitting there talking and laughing, my wife and I start to get a little frisky infront of this other couple. It begins with a little back rub, maybe a little kiss on the lips, a little kiss on the neck...nothing major...as we both get more and more comfortable she starts to caress my thigh and it slowly evolves from her hand on my thigh to heavy kissing and tongue. Her hand now begins touching my cock over my pants and following the contours of my shaft. I get more and more aroused and without even blinking I pull her really tightly towards me and begin to feel her ass. While all this is happening I remember that the other couple is sitting right there staring at us the whole time. I take a quick glance out of the corner of my eye, and I can see that they are not bothered at all by what's taking place. In fact it seems to be having the opposite effect, so we both decide to continue. Her and I both realize what's about to happen and we become more aroused by it.

I start to tear her clothes off and mine in the process, and I get on top of her and start kissing her naked breasts, licking her nipples and rubbing my cock on her naked pussy. At which point I decide that it's time to take it to the next level. We do it in as many possitions as we can possibly imagine for as long as we can. Oral, missionary, doggie style, her on top of me, 69...the works. When it's all done, the other couple is so turned on that they decide to do the same thing and now it's our turn to relax and watch. And as we sit there and watch them go at it we become turned on again and just decide to keep having sex, all night, for as long as we can, and as hard as we can.

That's awesome. I just read that to my wife and we just looked at each other with quite a smile that says we are both turned on by that idea. Does the other couple stay silent or do they talk dirty to you?

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That's awesome. I just read that to my wife and we just looked at each other with quite a smile that says we are both turned on by that idea. Does the other couple stay silent or do they talk dirty to you?

Hehehe...perverted minds think a like. Just curious...Is this something you and your wife have thought about before?

Hmmm...That's a really good question. I think that it can only add to the excitement to have the other couple cheering us on with some sexy dirty talk and vice versa. But if they chose to be silent that would be fine with me too. It's all good... :D

My wife just said to me that she really likes the idea of hearing dirty talk from the other couple...(Maybe there is a chance after all)...LOL

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