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We girls are lucky in that we don't have the problems men do when they masturbate too much. I personally find masturbation to be a wonderful release of anxiety. It also keeps me perpetually horny since as soon as I feel that way, I take care of my need. (Yes, I am happily married, have a great sex life with hubby, and he loves both watching me pleasure myself and denying me the right to pleasure myself which drives me crazy!)

Anyway, I was wondering, how often do you girls masturbate? My answer is multiple times a day.

(I wanted to make this a poll, but I can't figure out how).

Choices:

I don't masturbate.

I rarely masturbate (monthly).

I masturbate weekly.

I masturbate daily.

I masturbate multiple times a day.

Also, since this didn't turn out to be a poll, do or have you (I do):

Masturbate at work?

Masturbate with hubby?

Masturbate with toys?

Solla

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I am a firm believer in masturbation :P

I too am happily married, but I enjoy my masturbation. I have masturbated for him, with him, for me, at work, on the train. I masturbate on a daily basis, probably twice daily most days. Some days this includes masturbating with the hb or in foreplay, and sometimes it just includes moi!

I am a selfish girl.....I like to feel good, and masturbation makes me feel good. So yes, I do it a lot and I am not afraid to say it!

Mikayla

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Am I too shy to tell you? Have you read any of these posts I have written Ashes? yes, I am too shy? :unsure:

Hell no I'm not shy.

Yes. When I was younger, probably in my teens I experimented quite frequently with the water tap running on my clitoris. It was one of the first ways I ever orgasmed. I had heard from a friend that if I did this I would feel "tingly" and I sure did. I later experimented with the pool filter jet - that is mind blowing because the force is so strong - and the vacuum. Yes, the vacuum. If you position it just above your pussy it will "suck" your lips and bring you to orgasm. Now keep in mind, this was all when I was 18 and under. Once I could visit the adult bookstores it was all over. vibrators became my fast friends, and of course the all mighty finger. Also, who could forget MEN. Once a man went down on me....ahhhhh.

So, I hope I answered your question. I have not done the water trick in many years, and I don't see myself revisiting this again as I have many other options at my disposal now.

Mikayla :P

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how often is multiple times more than 4? when I was a teenager, i would jerk off sometimes 4 times a day. it never got in the way of my other activities, but If you become where it interferes, that is too much.

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how often is multiple times more than 4? when I was a teenager, i would jerk off sometimes 4 times a day. it never got in the way of my other activities, but If you become where it interferes, that is too much.

My 15 year old gets "jiggy with it" all the time. I know sometimes 3x a day. You know, long showers, door locked in bedroom, etc. I know its normal, but damn. I find porno pics ripped from magazines hidden in the bathroom and his room. I left the password off my satellite dish once and he ran up $60 worth of porn movies one week before I got the bill and almost killed him for that. This was during the summer, so he was hving fun during the day.

This is really funny. My oldest son is 20 now, but when he was 17 I caught him up late on a school night whacking it. I saw the light on under his door about 1am and opened it to tell him to go to bed. He is whacking to a porn movie he got from somewhere, and then just looks at me like it is no big deal and says "Dad, I'm beating off, close the door." He wasn't embarrased in the least. I was more embarrased myself that I just closed the door and left. We never said anything else about it again.

Telecom...

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its a great stress reliever.. the more you masterbate the better you feel..

as a single mom of 2 young children, i find masturbation a wonderful way to re connect with who i am as a woman and a sexual being, i love it...

We girls are lucky in that we don't have the problems men do when they masturbate too much. I personally find masturbation to be a wonderful release of anxiety. It also keeps me perpetually horny since as soon as I feel that way, I take care of my need. (Yes, I am happily married, have a great sex life with hubby, and he loves both watching me pleasure myself and denying me the right to pleasure myself which drives me crazy!)

Anyway, I was wondering, how often do you girls masturbate? My answer is multiple times a day.

(I wanted to make this a poll, but I can't figure out how).

Choices:

I don't masturbate.

I rarely masturbate (monthly).

I masturbate weekly.

I masturbate daily.

I masturbate multiple times a day.

Also, since this didn't turn out to be a poll, do or have you (I do):

Masturbate at work?

Masturbate with hubby?

Masturbate with toys?

Solla

i am a single divorced mom of 2young children, i masturbate refularly, several times a week, it is good for me.. i hope this helps...

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you didn't say if you use toys or what. Just curious about that. How do most women masturbate? with fingers or with toys?

Lets see, yes on toys and fingers and whatever else comes to mind (or hand ;) ) On a dare, I used an empty wine bottle one time. And its not always clit stimulation either, vaginal masturbation is great too. In fact, I'm one of the few women who cannot squirt so I have been working on mastering that as well :D

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We girls are lucky in that we don't have the problems men do when they masturbate too much. I personally find masturbation to be a wonderful release of anxiety. It also keeps me perpetually horny since as soon as I feel that way, I take care of my need. (Yes, I am happily married, have a great sex life with hubby, and he loves both watching me pleasure myself and denying me the right to pleasure myself which drives me crazy!)

Anyway, I was wondering, how often do you girls masturbate? My answer is multiple times a day.

(I wanted to make this a poll, but I can't figure out how).

Choices:

I don't masturbate.

I rarely masturbate (monthly).

I masturbate weekly.

I masturbate daily.

I masturbate multiple times a day.

Also, since this didn't turn out to be a poll, do or have you (I do):

Masturbate at work?

Masturbate with hubby?

Masturbate with toys?

Solla

I also masturbate daily, sometimes multiple times daily. I masturbate with toys and with hubby as well as without him

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i masturbate multiple times a day and i love to masturbate at work sometimes i just have nothing else to do at work or i am so stressed i just go in my office and close all blinds and lock the door and i masturbate

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Since I am not in a relationship right now that includes sex, I tend to masturbate daily. I generally will do it before I go to bed, what a way to relax my way to sleep. I found that if I have had an especially stressful day and I just want to get some sleep, sometimes I can't, so the relaxation that it brings puts me right out. But there are times when I just feel like feeling good at anytime during the day, so why not - that's my feeling.

I do use toys mostly because of the control that I get instead of using just my fingers, not to mention that I like to keep clean, and I have always hated when my hands feel dirty, so as for fingers - use them rarely, but still do. I am happy to know that I am not the only one that does this more often than just once or twice a week. But I know that if I was in a sexual relationship right now, my toys would get a lot less of a work out (and I'd certainly save money on batteries).

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I am glad that you realize that masturbation is a form of stress relief, it most certainly is that! The hormones released during orgasm are very calming, and can reduce stress, pain (headaches) tension and the like!

I also think that you should KEEP OUT the sex toys when the new relationship comes around! Men love women who are confident enough to use sex toys with them! Sure, maybe not the FIRST time you have sex, but after that....all is fair in sex and lust!

Also, I find that for me buying my batteries in bulk packs, like at Walgreens, instead of name brands, actually saves money. I used to only buy Duracells thinking they lasted longer - even if they do, they cost twice the price, so if I buy three times as many for a little less even, they last longer and I don't have to go buying them in the middle of the night when I want to play! I have a brick of AA, a brick of AAA, C's and D's in my nightstand, although I am noticing that THANK GOD most of the newer toys all take AA's. That is Mikayla's tip of the day!

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before i had to start carpooling to work it was almost daily. on my lunch hour i would go to this park and find a bathroom or just sit in my car and face the water. now it is only about twice a week. people have made comments that i'm not as nice and i get more upset easier. (got to start having more fun more often.) ;)

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We girls are lucky in that we don't have the problems men do when they masturbate too much. I personally find masturbation to be a wonderful release of anxiety. It also keeps me perpetually horny since as soon as I feel that way, I take care of my need. (Yes, I am happily married, have a great sex life with hubby, and he loves both watching me pleasure myself and denying me the right to pleasure myself which drives me crazy!)

Anyway, I was wondering, how often do you girls masturbate? My answer is multiple times a day.

(I wanted to make this a poll, but I can't figure out how).

Choices:

I don't masturbate.

I rarely masturbate (monthly).

I masturbate weekly.

I masturbate daily.

I masturbate multiple times a day.

Also, since this didn't turn out to be a poll, do or have you (I do):

Masturbate at work?

Masturbate with hubby?

Masturbate with toys?

Solla

daily, and multiple times a day, at work, at home,

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I used to do it every night before I went to sleep. Then I met my fiancee and quit. I thought my orgasms with him would be more intense if I denied myself them any other time. I was wrong. :) Actually found it harder to orgasm the longer I didn't masturbate. Then I found this site and was reading how howard was saying that the more orgasms you have the more your body is 'trained' to have them, and the easier it is to have them. This is very true. :) So now I'm back to it. :) I haven't ever done it at work, I have done it infront of him, but not until I orgasmed. It turned him on so much he kinda interrupted me. :) I usually use a toy inside me and my fingers on my clit.

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I love to masturbate, but when and how often I do it depends on my mood. So a poll type answer just won't do. Let me explain. When I am in a relationship with someone that I really like, I masturbate every day (with or without a partner) between sex sessions because I am always horney :D When I am not in a relationship, I will masturbate at least once a day. Sometimes it just doesn't do it for me so I will go days without masturbation. Then there are days that I masturbate for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I will do it all day, literally from the moment I wake up till I'm too exhausted or till someone else comes home in the evening. Sometimes it's just about needing to have and orgasm to relax, so I go strictly for clitoral stimulation. But on those full day sessions it is all about enjoying myself and finding new ways to pleasure myself, so I go for clitoral stimulation, penetration, and sometime anal.

I usually masturbate at home with toys (rarely with my fingers) or if I'm bored I will try to use something else other than the typical sex toy to masturbate. When I'm not home (like I go to visit someone for a few days and I don't travel with my toys) and I am in desperate need of an orgasm I will use my fingers and anything else that will fit in my vagina.

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I usually masterbate daily to multiple times a day with or without toys. I let my husband watch as well. It is a big turn on for him.

We girls are lucky in that we don't have the problems men do when they masturbate too much. I personally find masturbation to be a wonderful release of anxiety. It also keeps me perpetually horny since as soon as I feel that way, I take care of my need. (Yes, I am happily married, have a great sex life with hubby, and he loves both watching me pleasure myself and denying me the right to pleasure myself which drives me crazy!)

Anyway, I was wondering, how often do you girls masturbate? My answer is multiple times a day.

(I wanted to make this a poll, but I can't figure out how).

Choices:

I don't masturbate.

I rarely masturbate (monthly).

I masturbate weekly.

I masturbate daily.

I masturbate multiple times a day.

Also, since this didn't turn out to be a poll, do or have you (I do):

Masturbate at work?

Masturbate with hubby?

Masturbate with toys?

Solla

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Well I'd say that I'm a daily masturbater, But for some reason I try not to masturbate too much , Bcoz if I do, (like three times) My penis would hurt me if i try to masturbate..but once i start it relaxes ... I don't know why ... Is it just me ? or is it natural :unsure: Anyway I don't hold myself from masturbating If I really had the urge to... Coz I just can't :rolleyes::D

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Ashes24: I know you are from India, but I thought that country was at least on the planet Earth! My God, man, where did you get an idea that men can only climax once or twice a week? Most men can cum at least 5 times a day, when they are young, and sometimes well after they are past their 40's. If you are a man, masturbate and see how often you can cum in a day! That is how most of us men find out about these things. If you can't get another erection within 20 minutes or so, you should be seeing a medical doctor. Starvation and fatigue can be rough on getting erections, as can any illness, so if you have some chonic condition, You have my respect an apologies. But, if you are a normal, healthy, and well fed male, erections and ejaculations can occur easily multiple times a day. Go for it, buddy.

hahaha, howard, you amuse me very much.

as for me, i go through phases, for a few weeks i may do it everyday, a few times a day. But usually its everyday, before I go to bed. It seems like immediately after i orgasm i fall asleep so well! and i usually use my hand, but have been using a vibrator as well.

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hahaha, howard, you amuse me very much.

as for me, i go through phases, for a few weeks i may do it everyday, a few times a day. But usually its everyday, before I go to bed. It seems like immediately after i orgasm i fall asleep so well! and i usually use my hand, but have been using a vibrator as well.

I DO IT DIFFERENT TIME THROUGH OUT THE WEEK MOSTLY AT HOME IN THE SHOWER AND ALSO IN THE BEDROOM WHEN WIFE IS IN THE SHOWER. I HAVE ALSO MASTURBATED AT WORK IN THE RESTROOM.

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Every day, usually more than once. With husband, by myself, chatting with people online, with toys and without and sometimes with things that are not sex toys, per se-I've found that pretty much anything works, even my steering wheel while stuck at a train crossing. At home, at work, trains, planes, automobiles, really, just about anywhere. I once came in a crowded coffee shop, somewhat unexpectedly (no one noticed).

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