Spit Or Swallow

[Mikayla1]

Ok All You Ladies- I was having a discussion with one of my good friends last night over dinner and I was APPALLED to learn that she DOES NOT SWALLOW her boyfriend's cum!

I thought that this was something that I had coached all my female friends on - apparently she missed the seminar on cock sucking!

She, of course, defended her actions with the whole "It tastes bad...blah, blah, blah...." argument, that I only half listened to and then cut her off with "WHOA.....no friend of mine is going to blabber that crap!"

So, ladies, what I want to know from you - and I want to know from all of you who are looking at the site and don't post much too - what do you do with your man's cum - SPIT or SWALLOW - and WHY?????

I promise to all the "spitters" to not yell at you....I will simply defend my argument on swallowing in a non-argumentative and sensible manner!

So what is it - SPIT OR SWALLOW???

Mikayla

[promiscuouseuphoria]

From the beginning, the answer has been swallow. At first, because the idea of spitting was repulsive to me - messy, gooey, and spitting just isn't an attractive action. Sure, the flavor wasn't precisely something I relished, but it was in my mouth already - the aftertaste wouldn't magically disappear just because I spat it out.

It wasn't until my next partner that I realized "Wow, guys are really turned on by this whole swallowing thing". Realizing that made me far more enthusiastic about it.

Also, I imagine there's something incredibly mood-killing about spitting. Or at least, it seems that way to me. In fairness, though, I wouldn't know, I've never done it.

[crazy1]

My wife is a spitter. From my perspective it's ok, at least she finishes me off. Would I like it if she swallows, OH YES! Is it a must? of course not.

[curvacious_lust]

Swallow. All good women swallow (don't they??) I don't find the taste repulsive and besides, if your throat is open and you're deep throating it...there isn't much more to go in order to swallow.

[Tamuril]

my b/f won't even let me do anything oral, so.......neither apparently!

Edited March 17, 2006 by Tamuril

[Mikayla1]

HUH????

Are you kidding????? No flippin way...that is absurd!

Ugghhh, men!

[crazy1]

Howard, don't be so rude, I remember you generalizing quite a bit a short time ago. SO practice what you preach sir.

I say hey, if a guy doesn't want oral, he is a fool, but to each thier own. My wife is not a big fan of recieving oral, but she loves to give it. I love to give an receive but she just has issues with the hygene involved......so be it...

Edited March 17, 2006 by crazy1

[Mikayla1]

So, Mikayla, DON'T GENERALIZE! You are being a bull in a china shop!

I don't see how responding to ONE person's comment about how HER b/f won't let her do oral and saying, "uhhh, men" is GENERALIZING!

If it is in the context of "uggh, men" as in they want too much oral, they don't want oral, swallow, don't swallow, etc. - I think it is appropriate in context! You never can quite tell what a man will want sometimes .....except mine...I know what he wants!

Also, I think you misunderstood both posts - her boyfriend WON'T let her perfom oral - not him doing oral on HER . . .so it has nothing do do with MEN swallowing here.

AND You are the first person to call me a "Bull" - so I say again, "uggghh, MEN!"

P.S. thanks Crazy....I did find that a tad bit rude myself

Mikayla

[quietguy]

Personally, I found your "Uugghh men!" comment hilarious Mikayla. It's obvious to most of us knuckle draggers what you meant. Thank you Mikayla for helping to educate the women (and men) out here!!! Us guys need more swallowing females that is for sure.

QG

[Mikayla1]

Thank you Quiet Guy!

I don't view men as "knuckle draggers" but, thanks for the support! I think that anyone who has followed my posts AT ALL knows how much I love men - and that I would never criticize them without being humorous! I am glad you were amused.

BTW, when is the next installment of the Mikayla adventures? Inquiring minds want to know???

Mikayla

[quietguy]

BTW, when is the next installment of the Mikayla adventures? Inquiring minds want to know???

Mikayla

Well, as soon as my wrists stop being so sore from reading, I mean writing, the last one. Are you trying to tell me that you and CL are ready for another round???

QG

[Mikayla1]

One round? Dear, sweet Quiet Guy....I will require MANY rounds - and if you throw CL into it, I am assuming there will be more than a few!

Yeeeesss....we are ready baby!

Mikayla

[curvacious_lust]

Bring it ONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!

*'I've been instructed that i must read the Sleeping Beauty Trilogy.....any responses on that one??

[Mikayla1]

YES CL!

The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy is by Ann Rice, but her alternate pen name with with she wrote all her erotica! Ann Roquelaure - but most of them are now marketed with both names.

There is "The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty"; "Beauty's Punishment" ;and "Beauty's Release"

She also wrote "Exit to Eden" with the name Anne Rampling, which was made into a not so great comedic spoof staring Rosie O'Donnel and Dan Akroyd - NOTHING like the book.

One final one, "Belinda" she wrote under Anne Rice, is also EXCELLENT - which is about an older man's seduction - well rather, a young girl's seduction, of an older man.

All these works, except "Belinda" have wonderful, descriptive erotic passages - detailed erotic and pornographic passaged actually.

"Exit to Eden" was written about an island where people were "sold" for pleasures sake - and let me tell you - pleasure happens!

These books have a lot of bondage and kink in them - surprise that I love them, right????

I read these books probably over 10 years ago - but I still have all of them - along with the rest of Ann Rice's work. I started with the erotica, and moved to the Vampirism stuff - which is also erotic!

YES, YES, YES - read these books - they are AWESOME!

Mikayla

[sexykitty]

YES CL!

The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy is by Ann Rice, but her alternate pen name with with she wrote all her erotica! Ann Roquelaure - but most of them are now marketed with both names.

There is "The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty"; "Beauty's Punishment" ;and "Beauty's Release"

She also wrote "Exit to Eden" with the name Anne Rampling, which was made into a not so great comedic spoof staring Rosie O'Donnel and Dan Akroyd - NOTHING like the book.

One final one, "Belinda" she wrote under Anne Rice, is also EXCELLENT - which is about an older man's seduction - well rather, a young girl's seduction, of an older man.

All these works, except "Belinda" have wonderful, descriptive erotic passages - detailed erotic and pornographic passaged actually.

"Exit to Eden" was written about an island where people were "sold" for pleasures sake - and let me tell you - pleasure happens!

These books have a lot of bondage and kink in them - surprise that I love them, right????

I read these books probably over 10 years ago - but I still have all of them - along with the rest of Ann Rice's work. I started with the erotica, and moved to the Vampirism stuff - which is also erotic!

YES, YES, YES - read these books - they are AWESOME!

Mikayla

I HAVE BE HONEST AND SAY THAT I DO 50/50....NOW DONT GIVE ME ANY CRAP ABOUT MY ANSWER.....IF IM IN THE MOOD AND WANT TO DO SOMETHING TO CHANGE THINGS UP A LITTLE AND SURPRISE MY MAN I WILL SWALLOW NO PROBLEM....BUT IF IM JUST NOT IN THE MOOD FOR WHATEVER REASON....THE LIST COULD BE LONG SO I WONT GET INTO THAT LOL....I WILL NOT SWALLOW....ATLEAST NOT ALL OF IT I HOLD IT IN MY MOUTH TIL HE IS DONE THEN WITHOUT TAKING AWAY FROM THE MOMENT I WILL GET RID OF HIS JIZ....LIKE ANYOTHER TOPIC HERE THERE IS NO WRONG OR RIGHT.....MIKAYLA SOUNDS LIKE YOU THINK YOUR FRIEND HAS TO DO IT CAUSE YOU LIKE IT OR YOU THINK THATS THE WAY ALL WOMEN SHOULD BE TOWARDS THE MAN IN THIER LIFE....FACE IT NOT ALL WOMEN ARE AS OPEN TO ALL SEXUAL THINGS IDEAS GAMES ETC....AS YOU HAVE MADE IT KNOWN THAT YOU ARE.....ITS GOOD THAT YOU CAN BE THAT WAY AND SHOULD MORE WOMEN BE THAT WAY I SAY YES....BUT SINCE ALOT ARE STILL LETS JUST SAY NOT OPEN MINDED WHEN IT COMES TO ALOT OF SEX ISSUES WHAT CAN YOU DO....MAYBE IN TIME THEY WILL OPEN UP AND SEE THAT THERE IS MORE OUT THERE THEN THE USUAL WAY ETC.....BUT I JUST HAVE TO SAY TO EACH IS OWN.....IF YOU SWALLOW OR DONT ALL THAT REALLY MATTERS IS IF IT MAKES YOU AND YOUR MAN HAPPY THEN SO BE IT.........SURPRISED TO SEE YOU AND HOWARD BUMPED HEADS ON A TOPIC.....NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD SEE THE DAY......AND THE UGHHH MEN....I AGREE BUT THEY CAN SAY THE SAME ABOUT US AS IM SURE THEY DO.....AND ITS GOOD THAT YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR MAN WANTS....BUT YOURE MARRIED AND THATS MAKES A BIT OF A DIFFERENCE.....MARRIED COUPLES SHOULD KNOW WHAT MAKES THE OTHER HAPPY AND WHAT THE OTHER WANTS IN BED....NOW I KNOW YOU WILL SAY MOST COUPLES STILL ARENT TO THAT POINT....BUT THATS ANOTHER TOPIC OF OPENING UP AND TALKING TO YOUR SPOUSE....IM SAYING IF YOUR SINGLE IT TAKES TIME TO GET TO THAT POINT OF REALLY KNOWING WHAT THE OTHER WANTS AND SOMETIMES YOU NEVER GET THERE CAUSE YOUR SPLIT BY THEN........SO SPIT OR SWALLOW GIRLS I SAY THE CHOICE IS ALL YOUR OWN DO WHAT YOU WANT WHEN YOU WANT MOST MEN IM SURE ARE JUST HAPPY THAT THEY ARE GETTING SUCKED OFF IN THE FIRST PLACE......AND IF ADDING THE SWALLOWING TURNS YOUR MAN ON MORE AND YOU DONT MIND IT THEN GREAT....IF YOU DONT LIKE IT THEN SPIT......

[Scout]

Seems like this got a bit off topic at one point...and I apologize - I usually only have time to get on site on a weekend - what with working, commuting, farm chores and all - doesn't leave much time for browsing the site...

Spitting or swallowing...My second husband gave great head, no he gave incredible head - and he was my first experience at receiving that - it amazed me that he was so willing to do that - without question - and that made me want to learn to pleasure him more - and swallowing was one of those little things that made him so incredibly happy...couldn't resist doing it all the time after that...

Seems simple to me - if it pleasures your man, then why wouldn't you do it?

Scout

[Mikayla1]

Perhaps you didn't mean it this way - but were you YELLING at me on site with all the CAPS????

Here is my opinion which I shared with my friend concerning swallowing. I think any sexual thing should ALWAYS be a woman's choice - I am not condoning doing anything that does not pleasure yourself. So, if swallowing ABSOLUTELY does not do it for you - FINE! However, my friend started giving me the "It taste bad" excuse - and that is a load of hooey!

I don't resent women who don't swallow for personal reasons - I just have a problem with the "I won't try because 10 years ago I tried on my bf, it tasted bad, ergo now I won't do it!" agument!

I am well aware that I am much more sexually open than many women - I do not expect all women to be like me. I do think that women should feel sexy no matter what size they are, I do think women should find their orgasm instead of faking it, I do think that women should try to pleasure their men and find pleasure in THAT pleasure, I do think that giving good head is an art form that all women should learn just as all men should learn the art form of cunnilingus!

Most of all, I think women and men alike should take responsibility for their decisions, live by them, own them - if you don't swallow - FINE - no problem - but give me a real reason - not a B.S. one like my friend. The taste / texture issue can be resolved - it is an old argument. The gag reflex issue can be resolved too - with practice. The smell issue - that too can be resolved.

So, if you don't want to swallow - you just say "I don't want to" and that is FINE - your perocative! I think it is a couple's option, and a woman's choice - I never said it wasn't.

So am I giving you crap - NO - you said you do what you do and that is fine. My personal problem was with my friend's reasoning - which she now recounts. She has started swallowing and her man is MUCH happier -and in fact has started repaying the favor nicely!

So, think what you will about little ole' me! I have a happy man - and I hope yours is just as happy!

Mikayla

Edited March 19, 2006 by Mikayla1

[sarai79]

swallow, somone once told me it was rude not to, although that's not why i do it. spitting's just not my cup of tea. i would be kinda interested to have my SO eat pinapple beforehand to see if it does,m in fact, make his cum sweeter. the only thing i ever notice is if it's a bit saltier. yes, i'm rambling , it's late , please excuse me.

[FLICKER]

[color=#660000]ok, spit or swallow? well, I have always swallowed it turns on my partner sooo much it's always been a done thing, there was one night we had been out and he ate a ton of garlic.. let me tell you, it was my first and only time but it spit right out. yuck.. I learned fast that garlic changes the taste, and for me it was awful.. we laughed and continued..

[sexykitty]

Perhaps you didn't mean it this way - but were you YELLING at me on site with all the CAPS????

Here is my opinion which I shared with my friend concerning swallowing. I think any sexual thing should ALWAYS be a woman's choice - I am not condoning doing anything that does not pleasure yourself. So, if swallowing ABSOLUTELY does not do it for you - FINE! However, my friend started giving me the "It taste bad" excuse - and that is a load of hooey!

I don't resent women who don't swallow for personal reasons - I just have a problem with the "I won't try because 10 years ago I tried on my bf, it tasted bad, ergo now I won't do it!" agument!

I am well aware that I am much more sexually open than many women - I do not expect all women to be like me. I do think that women should feel sexy no matter what size they are, I do think women should find their orgasm instead of faking it, I do think that women should try to pleasure their men and find pleasure in THAT pleasure, I do think that giving good head is an art form that all women should learn just as all men should learn the art form of cunnilingus!

Most of all, I think women and men alike should take responsibility for their decisions, live by them, own them - if you don't swallow - FINE - no problem - but give me a real reason - not a B.S. one like my friend. The taste / texture issue can be resolved - it is an old argument. The gag reflex issue can be resolved too - with practice. The smell issue - that too can be resolved.

So, if you don't want to swallow - you just say "I don't want to" and that is FINE - your perocative! I think it is a couple's option, and a woman's choice - I never said it wasn't.

So am I giving you crap - NO - you said you do what you do and that is fine. My personal problem was with my friend's reasoning - which she now recounts. She has started swallowing and her man is MUCH happier -and in fact has started repaying the favor nicely!

So, think what you will about little ole' me! I have a happy man - and I hope yours is just as happy!

Mikayla

NOT YELLING JUST WROTE AND WRITE IN CAPS CAUSE I FEEL LIKE IT.....AND DIDNT MEAN THAT YOU WOULD GIVE ME CRAP IN WAS MENT FOR ANYONE READING MY REPLY AGAIN NOT MEANING IT TOWARDS YOU ONLY.....I WAS EXPECTING ANSWERS TO MY REPLY TO BE HOW COULD YOU SAY 50/50 EITHER YOU DO OR DONT......AND I SAY TO ME ITS LIKE ANYTHING ELSE I DO....IF I FEEL LIKE IT I WILL IF I DONT WELL THEN MAYBE NEXT TIME......GLAD YOUR FRIEND IS ENJOYING SWALLOWING AND REPAYING FAVOR NICELY....I GUESS I MISREAD YOUR POST....THE WAY I TOOK IT WAS YOU WERE NOT HAPPY THAT A FRIEND OF YOURS DIDNT SWALLOW.....NO I SEE THAT IS NOT THAT AT ALL I UNDERSTAND FROM YOUR REPLY THAT IT WAS HER REASON.....TOO MANY WOMEN ARE STUCK ON THOSE REASONS NOT TO DO IT OR TRY IT.....YES THE SHOULD WORK ON OVERCOMING WHATEVER IS STOPPING THEM FROM DOING IT......TRY IT AND IF YOU STILL DONT CARE FOR IT WELL THEN SO BE IT.....

[sexykitty]

Perhaps you didn't mean it this way - but were you YELLING at me on site with all the CAPS????

Here is my opinion which I shared with my friend concerning swallowing. I think any sexual thing should ALWAYS be a woman's choice - I am not condoning doing anything that does not pleasure yourself. So, if swallowing ABSOLUTELY does not do it for you - FINE! However, my friend started giving me the "It taste bad" excuse - and that is a load of hooey!

I don't resent women who don't swallow for personal reasons - I just have a problem with the "I won't try because 10 years ago I tried on my bf, it tasted bad, ergo now I won't do it!" agument!

I am well aware that I am much more sexually open than many women - I do not expect all women to be like me. I do think that women should feel sexy no matter what size they are, I do think women should find their orgasm instead of faking it, I do think that women should try to pleasure their men and find pleasure in THAT pleasure, I do think that giving good head is an art form that all women should learn just as all men should learn the art form of cunnilingus!

Most of all, I think women and men alike should take responsibility for their decisions, live by them, own them - if you don't swallow - FINE - no problem - but give me a real reason - not a B.S. one like my friend. The taste / texture issue can be resolved - it is an old argument. The gag reflex issue can be resolved too - with practice. The smell issue - that too can be resolved.

So, if you don't want to swallow - you just say "I don't want to" and that is FINE - your perocative! I think it is a couple's option, and a woman's choice - I never said it wasn't.

So am I giving you crap - NO - you said you do what you do and that is fine. My personal problem was with my friend's reasoning - which she now recounts. She has started swallowing and her man is MUCH happier -and in fact has started repaying the favor nicely!

So, think what you will about little ole' me! I have a happy man - and I hope yours is just as happy!

Mikayla

NOT YELLING AT ALL JUST WROTE AND AM WRITTING IN CAPS NO BIG DEAL.....AND GLAD YOUR FRIEND IS SWALLOWING AND IS NOW HAPPY WITH IT.....DIDNT MEAN THAT YOU WOULD GIVE ME CRAP ABOUT MY ANSWER IS WAS REALLY MENT FOR ANY AND ALL WHO MY RESPOND TO WHAT I WROTE IN GENERAL.....I EXPECTED PEOPLE TO SAY HOW COULD I SAY I AM 50/50 BUT LIKE ANYTHING ELSE I DO IF I FEEL LIKE IT GREAT IF NOT OH WELL MAYBE NEXT TIME....,NOW I DO SEE THAT I MISREAD WHAT YOU WROTE IN YOUR POST ABOUT YOUR FRIEND....I TOOK IT AS YOU SAYING A FRIEND OF MINE NOT SWALLOWING HOW DARE YOU....BUT NOW YOU CLEARED IT UP.....NOT THE FACT THAT SHE DID OR DIDNT BUT IT WAS THE REASON YOU DIDNT GO FOR....AND TRUE ALL THE REASONS WOMEN GIVE THEY COULD OVERCOME THEM IF THEY REALLY WANTED TO AND THEN TRY IT AND IF THEY STILL DOHT CARE TO SWALLOW WELL THEN SO BE IT.....BUT MOST WOMEN AS YOU KNOW STICK TO THOSE "EXCUSES" NOT TO AND REFUSE TO TRY AGAIN....ITS SAD THAT ONE BAD TIME LEFT SOME NOT WANTING TO EVER TRY AGAIN......NOW I DONT KNOW WHAT YOU MENT BY THINK WHAT I WILL ABOUT YOU.....?????....AND YES MY MAN IS VERY HAPPY......

[always]

My wife doesn't like to swallow (I don't often even cum in her mouth), and I'm fine with that. Personally, I get turned on by tasting her during sex, and I LOVE going down on her. However, when a woman lets me cum in her mouth, it is a huge turn on for me. I've had orgasms from blow jobs that have made my hands and arms go numb. I have tasted my own sperm, and I don't think it tastes great. I sometimes lick it off my hands after masturbating, and I often get hard again right away. I also like kissing my parnter after we have both gone down on each other. It is such a turn on, and I don't understand why my wife is so closed to the issue.

Again, I don't push it. I would never want her to do something just for me...This tends to turn me off. She may come around. I just bought her the first vibe she's ever owned, and she loves it. She has a vivid fantasy life and masturbates often. I just wish she was a little 'dirtier' sometimes.

From the standpoint of having an experience to relate to, I would like to give someone a blow job at some point in my life so I can put myself in the position of having done it and relating to the whole experience. Why is it that many women have sexual experiences with friends, but very few men do (at least the ones I know). I'm not gay, but I think it would be an interesting experience.

[Tamuril]

wow i didn't think my vote was gonna cause an uproar

lol

im used to the idea of not doinging a lot of oral stuff really, but my bf is surprisingly....traditional....i'll say

he doesn't seem to want to try a lot of things but im working on it

i figure he'll loosen up eventually ;D

[ambrelyn]

I swallow, no question. I've had several bf in the past, but never got the nerve to have sex let alone try a bj. Yes, I admit it, I was a 24 year old virgin when I met my fiancee last year. He was the one that introduced me to bjs. He just kind of pushed my head down there and said try it, which is what I needed to get over my shyness. I did what I thought would feel good and what I had read in a few steamy romance novels, and when he told me he was about to come, my mind kinda froze. I had heard that some women swallow and some women spit, but hadn't made a decision beforehand of what I was going to do. All of a sudden the moment was at hand and not having a good place to spit, I just decided to try swallowing. When I raised up and looked at him and delicately wiped a little of his cum from the corner of my mouth, he asked me if I was sure that was the first time I had done that, and he told me that no other woman he had been with had ever swallowed. That made me feel special, and I've been doing it ever since.

There are two things about giving head that I love so much. The first is the way I can make him squirm from teasing him (which practically makes me cum), and the other is that when he is coming I can feel the cum moving up through his dick and into my mouth. I've read alot about women saying how bad it tastes. One woman's comment I read made alot of sense to me. If you go around holding it in your mouth trying to find somewhere to spit it out, you'll be tasting it alot longer than if you just swallow. I've also found that the further back I have his dick in my mouth, the less I taste it. The other thing I do is I start swalling the moment he begins to cum and continue swallowing until he's done. I don't let it collect in my mouth. But I will always swallow, mainly because it turns him on so much.

[openmylegs]

I don't like the taste of cum, but I do swallow cum. Usually I put some kind of tastey and yummy lubricant on my mans cock and then it tastes really, really good! So for me I don't like cum alone. I like cum topped with some watermelon lubricant or whatever. MMMM---MMMM---thats the way that I like it!