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I wanted to get some input from the ladies here. Do you mind your SO cumming on your face? My wife will pretty much let me cum anywhere but her face. She thinks its degrading.

Well I guess we all have our hangups... No I don't think it is degrading. I don't care where he wants to cum on me, it is a turn on knowing it turns him on! I used to think doggy style was degrading when I was a LOT younger. (I'm talking like 20 years) I felt that if he was behind me it wasn't romantic or loving it was just getting "fucked". Now I love it, love it, LOVE it! Why does she think it is degrading? Does she give you oral? It is kind of in the same vicinity. Maybe she doesn't want you to have that visual, of her with cum on her face? IDK.

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Well I guess we all have our hangups... No I don't think it is degrading. I don't care where he wants to cum on me, it is a turn on knowing it turns him on! I used to think doggy style was degrading when I was a LOT younger. (I'm talking like 20 years) I felt that if he was behind me it wasn't romantic or loving it was just getting "fucked". Now I love it, love it, LOVE it! Why does she think it is degrading? Does she give you oral? It is kind of in the same vicinity. Maybe she doesn't want you to have that visual, of her with cum on her face? IDK.

Yes, She gives me oral and swallows. She will even let me cum on her lips but not the face. She felt the same way as you about "doggy style" but she has gotten over that as well. I don't think of it as degrading I just think the visual is a big turn on.

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Maybe she doesn't like it going up her nose, eyes and hair! Just a thought. Mine is kind of that way as well! She really doesn't like it getting in her hair! Anywhere else is fine and she really loves it if I pull out and cum on her clit and pussy!! It will almost make her cum agin from the feel, she says!

Peace,

Mark

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She really doesn't like it getting in her hair!

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BUT WHY??? LMFAO! :lol: :lol: :lol:

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As a secret, repressed Dom, the level of respect, care, love, and elevation I would give a consenting, happy sub would likely exceed most women's expectations. Doms work very hard for their sub, to see that they have all they need and desire. This is far from 'degrading'.

Now, all I have to do is find such a woman!

*Hand goes up, pick me, pick me!*

I actually just chatted with someone about this recently. I really like for the man I am with to cum on my face. Maybe I am strange (duh!) but it is a major turn-on. The idea of his juices being so .... I don't know .... kind of up-close and personal, I guess, is hot for me. When he cums in me, yeah, that is nice, but I don't feel it the way I do if it is on my lips, my cheeks, even in my hair. Then rubbing my hands through it .... ooohhh.

Ok, gotta calm down now. :)

I can't tell you why she would not like it or want it. I never used to want anything but vanilla sex, but then the mid-30s hit and, well I find myself wanting things I never thought I would. So, it is possible she will change her mind.

*Still waiting for iha to pick me ...* :P

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I don't tend to like it. But if it happens I'm not going to freak out. Just prefer for it not to. It's the one area of the body that effects your senses, and in lieu becomes harder to clean up.

I'm sure she has her reasons for it. Perhaps she associates it with something unsexy. If she lets you cum everywhere else does it matter that much?

To each is own.....

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It doesn't bother me in the least, and I think Iha has it spot on.

To me there is no degradation in a loving, respectful relationship. I don't find any act degrading. But then again I'm pretty easy :lol:

I think some men don't want to do it out of respect, and I understand that. But no, it's not degrading in the least to me.

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something_about_mary.jpg

BUT WHY??? LMFAO! :lol: :lol: :lol:

:D:):lol::D

I have never had it done to me. I'll try almost anything once that "AEH" would like to, but I don't think I'd like it up my nose or in my eyes either. other than that I'm not sure how I feel about it just because I haven't experience it.

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Doesn't bother me at all.

I think that the degradation thing comes to play from watching porn and seeing how some women seem to be 'used' in this manner. If it is done within the confines of a loving or caring relationship, how can the bi-product of a healthy sexual act be wrong?

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:D:):lol::D

I have never had it done to me. I'll try almost anything once that "AEH" would like to, but I don't think I'd like it up my nose or in my eyes either. other than that I'm not sure how I feel about it just because I haven't experience it.

Um, no. You wouldn't like it the nose or eye. Burns like nobody's business, it does! :blink:

As for the general topic on hand, I think it's just a matter of preference. I don't particularly want my SO to drop on my face (I have a thing about stuff on on my face. Even food), but if he happens to "overshoot" and it hits me there, I don't have a fit. Just a question of comfort in my opinion.

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As a secret, repressed Dom, the level of respect, care, love, and elevation I would give a consenting, happy sub would likely exceed most women's expectations. Doms work very hard for their sub, to see that they have all they need and desire. This is far from 'degrading'.

Now, all I have to do is find such a woman! LOL.. sorry for the long post, sometimes I get carried away...gad, am I turning into Howard? (If I am, someone kindly kick me in the balls?)

You, dear sir, could NEVER be Howard!!! Looking for that woman huh? I know a few that would very eagerly take up that offer for you.......and btw, as a matter of information, I am a sub at heart ya know!

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So much of how you look at this stuff is affected by how hot and carried away you are at the time. If I am having a particularly hot and erotic session with my partner then I'm pretty much primed to go with anything and everything no holds barred and no, I wouldn't consider it degrading at all....just adds to the turn on! You both just need to face the fact that you're probably not going to look all pretty and pristine and there is definitely going to have to be some major clean up after just like there would be in a really wet blow job, anal, or anything else for that matter. Heck....it just gives you a good excuse for both of you to take it to the shower and continue onto another round there! Who would turn that down? :P

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So much of how you look at this stuff is affected by how hot and carried away you are at the time. If I am having a particularly hot and erotic session with my partner then I'm pretty much primed to go with anything and everything no holds barred and no, I wouldn't consider it degrading at all....just adds to the turn on! You both just need to face the fact that you're probably not going to look all pretty and pristine and there is definitely going to have to be some major clean up after just like there would be in a really wet blow job, anal, or anything else for that matter. Heck....it just gives you a good excuse for both of you to take it to the shower and continue onto another round there! Who would turn that down? :P

I like the way you think Chloegirl ;)

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I hate how it feels. Absolutely hate it. I love semen, I love watching men cum, I love watching them cum ON me even, but not in my face. Hell, in addition to the messy cleanup, I don't even get to watch because I'm too worried about it getting in my eyes!

I won't throw a fit about it or anything, but it's definitely something I'd only submit to as a special treat :P

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IDK, having never had it happen, i can only imagine my response. I would say sure, cause i'm a try-everything-once woman, but i'd probably have the same reaction as someone throwing a glass of water in my face..reflexive drawback and turn away, close eyes, sputtering, etc. I would have to consent ahead of time, close my eyes and hope it doesn't go up my nose, but to have something spattered on ones' face would probably take practice to tolerate. If you can reassure her it's not degrading in any form (I don't think so, either), perhaps you can work up to it slowly. Good luck and let us know how it comes out! ;)

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I don't like it at all! It does happen sometimes, such as when I'm headed to the shower afterwards or something, or I'm just in a nice mood, but this is definately a very rare occurance in my house. It's warm and slimy...it can be anywhere else, but not on my face lol

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I don't like it at all! It does happen sometimes, such as when I'm headed to the shower afterwards or something, or I'm just in a nice mood, but this is definately a very rare occurance in my house. It's warm and slimy...it can be anywhere else, but not on my face lol

Does your SO enjoy doing it or does it just happen? Does he ask to do it often?

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Yes my husband LOVES it....otherwise, it wouldn't happen at all. He knows that I don't like it, so he only asks when he knows I'll be headed to the shower immediately afterwards.

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This isn't something that gets me all excited to think about, but the time or two that it has happened was fun, not degrading at all. It's one of those "heat of the moment" events for me.

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Yes my husband LOVES it....otherwise, it wouldn't happen at all. He knows that I don't like it, so he only asks when he knows I'll be headed to the shower immediately afterwards.

Thats great that you do that for him even though you don't like it.

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