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Sexual Confusion....help...questions....

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ladylove    267

I really don't have any answers for you. You need to search within yourself to answer the question you asked. I think your going to get a lot of people weighing in on this one, but you really are the only one to answer the questions you pose.

I can't say I have ever fantasized about women, or was curious enough to go there, but, I have wondered what the same sex attraction was???? Saying that, my hubby like w/w porn so I do watch it and find it enjoyable, but m/f porn really does it for me.

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Mikayla1    103

Normal. Completely normal.

I would suggest you read my article about Bi-sexuality (even if you do not consider yourself bi-sexual, although, you may have bi-curious tendencies) and see if any of it rings true.

There is nothing wrong with it - and it is a natural thought. Women do lool at other women. They just do. However, your desire to touch and feel....well, that goes to sexual attraction. Does it mean you are a lesbian? No, of course not. But you sure do have a good start on it!

Just look within yourself, why define, and do what feels good to you!

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Shoop    30

thanks! Well I don't think I AM a lesbian, nor truly bi as the boobs is all I like...you can't really DO just that, right?

Anyways, I don't need labels, I was just curious what everyone else thought about this. :)

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ladylove    267
thanks! Well I don't think I AM a lesbian, nor truly bi as the boobs is all I like...you can't really DO just that, right?

Anyways, I don't need labels, I was just curious what everyone else thought about this. :)

Look, it doesn't matter what or who you are as long as your happy with you......

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Shoop    30

totally agree. I guess I was wondering though how normal it is for someone to JUST LIKE BOOBS...i REALLY don't want to do anything else...so how could that be bi even?

Perhaps I'm over thinking and yes no titles need to be forthcoming. LOL

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mystofpric    39

I think hun that it is totally normal! While i haven't had any boob on boob experience (well there was that one guy with man-boobs, but i don't think that's what you talking about..... ;), I say if youre having fun, and everyone is consenting, where's the trouble?

Boobs are awesome and amazing and that's why only girls get them. HAHA

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Shoop    30
Look, it doesn't matter what or who you are as long as your happy with you......

I am, totally. I just thought I'd get some of the "in my head" stuff out here so I could get a few impressions of it eh?

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mystofpric    39
I am, totally. I just thought I'd get some of the "in my head" stuff out here so I could get a few impressions of it eh?

totally understood. that's what we're here for!

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ladylove    267

so how could that be bi even?

It doesn't matter, it only seems to matter to you. And if you were, so what, not a big deal. And if your not, again not a big deal. Have all the fun you want to safely!

The only thing that's self destructive here is if you are not completely real with yourself.

I may be going over board, but I seen what this kind of self denial does to a person. It's not pretty.

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sass    47

I don't think it is crazy. I have said here before, that I am a boob-girl. I love mine, love to play with them and even occasionally suck them. (Down boys! ;) )

The other parts of a woman are not that interesting to me, although I recently had my first girl-on-girl dream the other night (I was giving her oral) and I woke up very aroused. I admit to being curious but even that is a recent development, so who knows? Like the others said, do what you like. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone else, its all good!

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mystofpric    39
I don't think it is crazy. I have said here before, that I am a boob-girl. I love mine, love to play with them and even occasionally suck them. (Down boys! ;) )

Whoa! I'm not the only one?

Shoop if anything your challenge and our comments should reassure you that it's totally normal!

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Shoop    30

Anyways, I'm not DOING anything about it (I also have a post about how HOT I find my boyfriend you may have read, LOL) so the point of this post was more of a question in regards to if OTHER people have these fantasies and am I normal type thing! :)

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mtngal    0

I think it is totally normal. I've only engaged in heterosexual activities, but I have had erotic fantasies about boobs for at least two decades. I have had a couple of crushes on women due to their lovely breats. However, should anyone of the same gender approach me I would me incredibly shy--but i don't think unwilling---yes, I would like to touch them.

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Shoop    30

HA HA HA, well it is embarrassing. Either way, I think I am sort of "over this" if that make sense. Really. I think it was a phase...

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Shoop    30
Anyways, I'm not DOING anything about it (I also have a post about how HOT I find my boyfriend you may have read, LOL) so the point of this post was more of a question in regards to if OTHER people have these fantasies and am I normal type thing! :)

ya, i think this is me. I don't think I'd actually want to do anything. I don't think that is ME if that makes any sense. It's just fantasy. I've actually discussed this with my best friend recently (she's bi) because she's curious how far I'd take it. Turns out, not as far as she thought I would (she was making suggestions like "you'd do this, but not this" and I was like "no, I'd just do this, that's all"....

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it shouldn't matter if you are straight or bi or whatever, if you like tits then you like them. i think the question here is not weather you can like them as a straight woman or not, but rather can you accept that you like them? can you be honest with your self about it? i think that by labeling your self as one thing only you are closing your self off to opportunities.

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PIGEFOOFF    0

You and I both about the 9 on the track...

Thought that if you get the forks done you needed to do the rear shock as well?

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Tyger    719

I didn't get to read or respond to the original post. Must've missed it. However, going by the responses, I would say that, even if you're straight, being curious as to what another womans breasts would feel like, is totally normal. I love looking at a curvacious woman. I think everyone wonders what it's like to be with someone of the same sex, so for reference to others that may have these curiosities, I don't think it's a big deal, or anything to worry about.

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Darcy_72    2

I know this is an old topic, but I consider myself straight and I love breasts. Women are beautiful and more arousing to look at on paper or in film. However, at least for me, I'm not attracted to gals in real life. Although I will occasionally have to stop myself from staring at another woman's chest...

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WendyNY    128

I know this is an old topic, but I consider myself straight and I love breasts. Women are beautiful and more arousing to look at on paper or in film. However, at least for me, I'm not attracted to gals in real life. Although I will occasionally have to stop myself from staring at another woman's chest...

YES----I LOVE BREASTS !!!

I have for as long as I can remember.

However, I'm not "attracted" to women in the same way that I am with men.

ALL of my fantasies ALWAYS include breasts though.

I actually had a recent experience with a woman touching ME.....

(I had a lap dance, I don't know if that counts though !)

My husband loves to watch me get them and they've never turned me on before.

But THIS time it was very different.

This particular woman (very young) was VERY turned on by me.

She couldn't believe my age and she told me I had a beautiful body.

She pulled my shirt down and couldn't keep her hands and mouth

off my tits ! She sucked and licked my nipples.

It was VERY HOT !! I touched her also.

It was extremely erotic because she was SO INTO IT.

I could tell she REALLY wanted to touch me.

All the men watching in the lapdance room really enjoyed it also !

Then, I had my husband come in with me and she gave us a "couple's" lap dance

(But she concentrated much more on me , licking and sucking my breasts.)

That's the extent of my "woman / woman" experience !

I'm definitely straight though.

(My husband and I had really awesome sex that night !)

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I consider myself straight, and I like to look at boobs. And I'm like Suzy - I looooove to play with my own.

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Darcy_72    2

I consider myself straight, and I like to look at boobs. And I'm like Suzy - I looooove to play with my own.

Me too! They're so soft and fun!

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